Innocence in men?

[Edom]

Do girls usually prefer popular dudes with lots of sexual experience or chivalrous, virginal men/shota who try to only have serious, meaningful relationships?

[taconapsack]

I think that women look for a guy with a lot of self confidence and the former comes along with that the majority of the time. Most virginal men lack this aura of confidence in themselves and I think women of any age pick up on that.

[bushidomizer]

self confidence it seems is always a + with women. although dont get self-confidence and arrogance mixed up. arrogance is usually a bad thing with women.

[daniel2]

I have alot of self confidence. I can literately walk up to a girl and ask for her number.
Also got quite a bit of experience in the bedroom department.

I think thats what all girls want. A guy who knows their stuff, or a girl who knows their stuff :p

[bushidomizer]

lol you sir have a god given talent. took me some time to get to where i am with my gf but it paid off !

[daniel2]

I see it as, you have to be in it to win it. If you never ask you will NEVER know. It's better to be rejected then to have not tried, not to mention if she rejects you just smile and flick your hair as you walk away. It might not always be the end, I've had a few girls run after me just by doing that just after they have rejected me.

If your rejected its not the end of the world. It's only a random person anyway.
If its a friend then its not like its going to crush your relationship.

[bushidomizer]

^ yea ive had my fair share of rejections :X but oh well just move on. plenty of other ppl out there.

[AmSidar]

I am looking for man who is:
not boring
fun to spend time
not idiot
Can think whit hes brain to not only hes private parts
and most importantly
accepts me....
Only after that is actual sex experience.

[demonicwolf69]

unfortnetly i have no self confidence ill turn red if a hot chick looks at me but for some reason i have talent in the bedroom department aswell usually with most girls although i do and have had a few not interested or lost interest no ones perfect...

but ive been stomped on everytime ive dated someone i always find the people who want to take advantage or do take advantage of my nice guy characters which really suck...

[bushidomizer]

^ most of us have probably been in no confidence land but once u start hanging out with girls preferably your gf, that confidence should come naturally. i used to be like you where i get nervous or jumble up my words, but after a while of hanging out and socializing with them, it goes away.

[Silmeria]

depends on the female...some actually get a big huge smile when you blush even if you dont act cute or you dont have much confidence on you it just depends on the person i guess.

[Mick1155]

Yeah well I just don't have any luck with girls at all and I have no self confidence which probably doesn't help oh well thats how it is among other things that I don't fell like posting atm

[daniel2]

Oh well man your life changes when you want it to.

[AmSidar]

Ho does that phrase go? ...help yourself then god will help you to?

[Mick1155]

Ha sorry to laugh but idk about that

[donedoknow]

: /

i dunno, for me.... its like... some girls, i just cant seem to talk to at all >.< (kinda like lack of stuff to talk about), where as the other girls i know, everything goes pretty natural...

and for some reason... most of the girls i talk naturally to are the better looking ones >.< i wonder if I'm destined to an ugly chic >.<

looks arnt everything.... ya dats true >.< but...... its a big + for most guys i would think >.>

[Nibuku]

I think that confidence, and i speak from experience (could be coincidence though) when i say if your confident, but not too confident (i imagine being overconfident portrays you as an asshole to the girl) the chicks may actually like you more.

for example: I spent all my middle school and up to sophmore year being a shy, quiet and *sigh* virginal guy. as of junior years beginning i became a new person with a newfound confidence (i have no idea of its origin, it just happened) and somehow, me, who before junior year had not a chick friend in the world/ my life. Suddenly found myself with 10+ chick friends and had 2 GFs that year. Im still trying to forget the first though(dont ask)

coicidence that i got chick friends?, I hope not.

[Versatile.]

It depends on the women. I've seen my some of my friends treat girls like trash and yet they still come back to him for more. While me, being the nice guy that I am, (trying not to sound narcissistic here XD) get rejected by them. And I knew at some point the girls that I speak of liked me and liked my friend, time period different of course.

You just got to roll with what you got. But at the same time certain things are preferred by women of course.

[demonicwolf69]

yea most my freinds are female but act more like guys and dont dress femy at all infact a couple love playing hocky >.>

have to admit thats prety hot... but there freinds nothing more and never will be how ive always seen it...

[Akazaji]

i used to be a shy guy and didnt have any luck with the girls. my enitre circle of friends were dudes. then i moved and i believed in the clean slate. reputation gone i felt that i needed more confidence and to be more outgoing. i forced myself to do the latter and the confidence grew on me. now my circle of friends consists of more girls than dudes.
granted some of the girls arent that attractive...at all... but many of their friends are.
shy guys out there... your not alone. you just need confidence, the rest will follow.

[daniel2]

Meh most girls love the innocence in men if they have any.
Nuff said.