Confused yet in love?

[Pervy Sage]

i'm really confused about my love situation...heres the situation:

i think i like this one girl - asian and 18/junior (i'm 17/junior) - who's new to my high skool and i dont know anything bout her yet i kida sorta have feelings for her cuz she's really cute.

i think i like this one girl - shes a year younger than me and a sophomore - and shes in my tech program. i only know her name and talk to her and her friends once in a while. shes also really cute.

i think i like this one girl - my age/junior - who's also in my tech program and i've known her for 3 years. shes kinda sorta bossy and cute. i'm not sure if i like her or if im just crushed up. she acts like my girlfried cuz shes reall bossy and stuff but on the flip side shes nice to me at times. again she treats me like her boyfriend by telling me what to and what not to do.

i think i like this one girls - my age/junior - shes also in my tech program. shes different than the one mentioned above. shes nice and not so bossy. she tends to be a bit annoying but in the cute sorta way. shes smart as hell but acts like shes dumb. shes fun to be around. she also like to treat me like her bf. shes also really cute.

or...

i think i like this one girl - 18/senior - but she's not in my tech program. i met her in the shakespearean acting club that my teacher dragged me into. at first i didn't want be in it but after hanging out with the girl i liked it.shes really really cute and she does more than just act like my gf. becuz shes spanish she scolds me in spanish and what not. she tealls me what to and what not to do and she sometimes does it in spanish which is cute as hell. unfortunatly her ex bf thinks that she broke up with him to go out with me. shes really different from the other girl becuz she is just WOW.

plz help ladies...thanks also heres a poem that i wrote and tell me which girl it belongs to.

Love?
Is it a feeling?
Is it what I'm feeling?
I feel
Empty inside.
Like somthing's missing.
Like I'm incomplete.
Yet...
When I see this girl
I feel
Funny inside.
My stomach hurts.
My head spins.
But I feel
Complete.
If only for a moment.
But the time comes,
When my feet leave
As I wanna stay.
I end up walking out.
Incomplete again.
Only to feel whole
The next day.
And the day I don't see her,
I die of insanity.
I feel as if the world will end.
Yet I can't muster up
The strength to speak to her.
As I try and approach her
My brain leaves me.
I walk away
Alone
Only to wait
For the next day
When I see her again
And I will be
Complete.
If Only For A Moment.

[lsley]

What do you want to tell us with this? That your life is like in a harem anime? Or that you're absolutely not picky?

And sry but I'd say the poem can belong to every one of them or to none of them since it's kinda empty imo...

[Pervy Sage]

well what i'm trying to say is..what do u make of all this..cuz being a guy im just straight up confused...i think i like em all but then again none at all...i just wanna know whats up with me...i maen if u need a lil bit more info i'd be glad to help just be more specific on the questions is all

[himekuma]

i don't think you're in love i just think you're crushing on all of them well thats just my opinion

[Versatile.]

I think you're just crushing on all of them like someone said. I'm the type that believes you don't find love at first sight so the fact that you've only been in friendly contact with these people sort of throws me off.
Until you go out with them and get to truly know what it feels like to be around them all the time I'd say you just have a love complex. I mean we all have them, sometimes we feel important, sometimes we don't.
Wait a little bit of time and look back at it again some time. Then you'll know.


Of course I could be wrong... XD

[Pb10]

You're infatuated, not in love.
Don't worry about it, it usually passes without very long.

[daniel2]

Wow... someones confused. Your not yet mature enough for relationships mate.

[Pervy Sage]

I think you're just crushing on all of them like someone said. I'm the type that believes you don't find love at first sight so the fact that you've only been in friendly contact with these people sort of throws me off.
Until you go out with them and get to truly know what it feels like to be around them all the time I'd say you just have a love complex. I mean we all have them, sometimes we feel important, sometimes we don't.
Wait a little bit of time and look back at it again some time. Then you'll know.


Of course I could be wrong... XD


i've actually benn around the senior girl alot..she doesn't leave m side sometimes...like shes all up on me and we hang out after skool with friends and junk at times and shes still all up on me...and when her ex is around she lets go so we dont get caught or whatever...now explain that


*by all up on me i mean touchy feely

[premeba]

i have two things to say.

1.) your life is a harem... lucky:iamdead:
2.) before you start thinking about love, get to know all of them first.
until then i can't really say that you're in love with any of them.

thats all i have to say.

[Pervy Sage]

thank u...though after considering all u words i gave up on the first four...if it happens it happens...not sure bout the last one...shes a little bit tricky

[Phrozen]

lol dude, first off i respect your descriptions, it wasnt loaded up with "OMG SHES SO HOT I WANNA F*** HER!!!1"
second, i understand, im in highschool and theres plenty of girls to like.
and also, make sure it isnt a phase, just because theyre cute doesnt mean you love em right? and your motive to ask one on a date should be for the stuff if you know what i mean
with me i'd go with the bossy one, im a quiet guy, i hate small talk. i love conversations 1 on 1 though. bossy girls go on forever and im comfortable with that.

lol, have anymore discriptions? its hard to see it from your view from just theyre age and that theyre cute XP

good luck mate, i hope it works out!

oh ya, good poem, it can relate to every guy out there, its pretty universal. i like it

:3

[himekuma]

i think you should just forget about it until you've hit a certain mental age in maturity otherwise you wont be able to handle it

[Phrozen]

^i think he's a'ight. just needs one goal that he can focus on. but he cant have like 6.

[lsley]

If he converts to a moslem he can at least have 4 :hahaha:

[Phrozen]

XD i guess so!
but ya, go for it man. you'll go far

[superblob88]

nice poem but i think you have two troubles

first you got a heart the size of a mansion and second you dont know what true love, love is something that rarely comes at the first sight you only are a little impressed by all that girls first of you should try too go put with em then try reflex about your true feelings and the feeling of the girl then maybe you will know if were in love or only dazzled

[Pervy Sage]

lol dude, first off i respect your descriptions, it wasnt loaded up with "OMG SHES SO HOT I WANNA F*** HER!!!1"
second, i understand, im in highschool and theres plenty of girls to like.
and also, make sure it isnt a phase, just because theyre cute doesnt mean you love em right? and your motive to ask one on a date should be for the stuff if you know what i mean
with me i'd go with the bossy one, im a quiet guy, i hate small talk. i love conversations 1 on 1 though. bossy girls go on forever and im comfortable with that.

lol, have anymore discriptions? its hard to see it from your view from just theyre age and that theyre cute XP

good luck mate, i hope it works out!

oh ya, good poem, it can relate to every guy out there, its pretty universal. i like it

:3

thats what im saying...its not that i love them..i like them..the poem is a bit misleading...they're those girls that i like being around cuz when i am it reveals a different side of me...especially when i'm near/with the last girl...even though i only known her for a few months i can open up to her...unlike a lot of my friends she's seen a side of me that i don't normally show...i'm more of the rough exterior kinda guy but when im close to a girl that i might have feelings for i tend to smile more often and mellow down a bit...also i have a ton of respect for girls to not say degrading stuff like I WANNA F*** HER..in my opinion..women are like goddesses to be treated with respect so i'm not like that...also im into girls with a personality...i mean yeah i check out girls that have idol figures but i prefer girls that are cute..have a nice personality...and a moderate figure...im more into normal chick..not insany hot girls

[daniel2]

i have two things to say.

1.) your life is a harem... lucky:iamdead:

Anyones life can be a harem. I think it would actually be a bother. So it would be a no go for me. I can't have crushes on multiple girls at a time, its impossible for me.

[toadvine]

Yeah... either way (having multiple ladies after you or you wanting more than one lady) always ends up in insane amounts of grief.

[ermeyers]

Yeah... either way (having multiple ladies after you or you wanting more than one lady) always ends up in insane amounts of grief.

I would have to agree. In the beginning of my first semester at university, i went after 4 girls at the same time. It ended horribly. The first girl i stopped talking to for a little while and when i tried to get back in contact, i stopped because of the second girl. The second girl became a stocker and would appear in our lounge at odd hours of the day uninvited and unwanted (she even lives on the other campus of the university). The third girl was a real flirt. I was really into her and she was the hottest (and i mean HOT). She turned out to have a boyfriend (a year younger than me; I know, pooned). And the last girl fell out eventually because i eventually gave up. That one did the most physical stuff with me of the four, but in the end she was exposed as a slut and moved on to my friend after me, who rejected her just like i did in the end.

Anyway, my advice is to stick to one girl. Find the one that you are most attracted to or likes you the most in return and try with that one. DO NOT HAVE MULTIPLE GIRLS. You can't handle it, especially at your age. Your not a pimp. ;P

[AmSidar]

Anyones life can be a harem. I think it would actually be a bother. So it would be a no go for me. I can't have crushes on multiple girls at a time, its impossible for me.
To most of the normal ppl it is natural, ofc only if you grew up in a society what did not support harem. ;)

[HeavyArmsUnit01]

i'm really confused about my love situation...heres the situation:

i think i like this one girl - asian and 18/junior (i'm 17/junior) - who's new to my high skool and i dont know anything bout her yet i kida sorta have feelings for her cuz she's really cute.

i think i like this one girl - shes a year younger than me and a sophomore - and shes in my tech program. i only know her name and talk to her and her friends once in a while. shes also really cute.

i think i like this one girl - my age/junior - who's also in my tech program and i've known her for 3 years. shes kinda sorta bossy and cute. i'm not sure if i like her or if im just crushed up. she acts like my girlfried cuz shes reall bossy and stuff but on the flip side shes nice to me at times. again she treats me like her boyfriend by telling me what to and what not to do.

i think i like this one girls - my age/junior - shes also in my tech program. shes different than the one mentioned above. shes nice and not so bossy. she tends to be a bit annoying but in the cute sorta way. shes smart as hell but acts like shes dumb. shes fun to be around. she also like to treat me like her bf. shes also really cute.

or...

i think i like this one girl - 18/senior - but she's not in my tech program. i met her in the shakespearean acting club that my teacher dragged me into. at first i didn't want be in it but after hanging out with the girl i liked it.shes really really cute and she does more than just act like my gf. becuz shes spanish she scolds me in spanish and what not. she tealls me what to and what not to do and she sometimes does it in spanish which is cute as hell. unfortunatly her ex bf thinks that she broke up with him to go out with me. shes really different from the other girl becuz she is just WOW.

plz help ladies...thanks also heres a poem that i wrote and tell me which girl it belongs to.

Love?
Is it a feeling?
Is it what I'm feeling?
I feel
Empty inside.
Like somthing's missing.
Like I'm incomplete.
Yet...
When I see this girl
I feel
Funny inside.
My stomach hurts.
My head spins.
But I feel
Complete.
If only for a moment.
But the time comes,
When my feet leave
As I wanna stay.
I end up walking out.
Incomplete again.
Only to feel whole
The next day.
And the day I don't see her,
I die of insanity.
I feel as if the world will end.
Yet I can't muster up
The strength to speak to her.
As I try and approach her
My brain leaves me.
I walk away
Alone
Only to wait
For the next day
When I see her again
And I will be
Complete.
If Only For A Moment.

Its a very lovely poem. Like everyone said. hehe ^^ I'm a hopeless romantic. As far as the poem goes to it wouldnt be the one in you tech classes. Since you Talk to her all the time. In the poem you talk about how you have an issue speaking to her. But then again I have been known to be wrong. =P So take my advise with a grain of salt. If I where you I would just get to know them and be friends. You learn alot more from the side lines. Since a heart is like glass. Its a beautiful work of art. But at the same time can be broke easily.

All I can say is I wish you the best of luck. You also have a lot of life to live. So theres no rush. ^^

[Pervy Sage]

thanks to all of u peoples...i have a clear set mind...though im still kida confused about this situation..i think i got it figured out...like the last girl...kher names Johanna...see today in our theatre arts class..my teacher was out and i was working on a script we had to write..she's siting next to me asking me what she should do bout her ex...(if she should try and talk to him to get him to understand that they are down)...and then all of a sudden she goes and put lip gloss on me...i told my friends this and they say that i'm whipped...but u know me..can't refuse a girl like that..i mean its just gloss...like if she said to kill someone that a bit over board but again its just gloss...so she put it on in class and said if its gone after skool then i gotta do it again...after skool she grabbed me and did it again but as we were walking her ex showed up and i had to dip...or else things would've gotten ugly...


also to thos that saud it...i doubt its the two girls that are in my class....i talk to them so they are just friends to me...the first girl i'm oer her...and the second is a mystery to me...she's just very quiet so idk what do say bout her...its just Johanna..the last girl...that makes me a bit stiff...no pun intended

[ermeyers]

like the last girl...kher names Johanna...see today in our theatre arts class..my teacher was out and i was working on a script we had to write..she's siting next to me asking me what she should do bout her ex...(if she should try and talk to him to get him to understand that they are down)...and then all of a sudden she goes and put lip gloss on me...i told my friends this and they say that i'm whipped...but u know me..can't refuse a girl like that..i mean its just gloss...like if she said to kill someone that a bit over board but again its just gloss...so she put it on in class and said if its gone after skool then i gotta do it again...after skool she grabbed me and did it again but as we were walking her ex showed up and i had to dip...or else things would've gotten ugly...

She put lip gloss on you? Jeez, you've got a little ways to go till you can get her.

She is obviously flirting with you. Whether she actually likes you or she just likes to play around (like my best friend, damn flirt >.<) is a mystery at the moment.

Next time she does something like that, try to lean closer to her while she is about to put it on. Get close to her face and look her in the eyes. If she likes you she may kiss you or just blush. If she does not get flustered and boldly asks "what are you doing" with no real emotion in it, then she prob doesn't like you that way or she could just not realize it yet.

My thoughts! ;P

[Queenie]

Lol, Its nice that u decided to like 1 girl~ but remeber not all girls are the " ONE" for you ~ When theres that special someone you'll know . The Girls before were just Crushes i think . Just get to know them more before you think you say u love them . Cuz just being in the same class and u like them off that bat ~ even if u guys get together =.= it'll become bad . So Cheer up =p !

[Pb10]

i have two things to say.

1.) your life is a harem... lucky:iamdead:
2.) before you start thinking about love, get to know all of them first.
until then i can't really say that you're in love with any of them.

thats all i have to say.

You can never know all of them.
The first thing to know about women is to know that they are unpredictable and no two alike. You just have to understand the one you're with. Experience helps, sure. But it will never provide you with a how-to guide as far as....communicating/dealing with women.

[Pervy Sage]

well...this helps..i kinda stopped trying to figure it all out...i got this far by acting how i did...so i'll do what i gotta do...u never know i might find that one special girl...though seeing as how i live in Jersey it might be hard to find a decent girl

thank you all...and to those who told me to wait..thank you doubled cuz i did and it became clear to me that i'm just a fool whos crushed up...i should wait and see what happns....thanks

[toadvine]

on an off-topic note, you need to change your sig 'cause it's too big psage:

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