Are these true?

[Rnanaka]

Well... I'd like to ask what girl's would like in a letter from a guy confessing. I've gotten two responses and they were:
-not to write in vibrant colors
-don't write any clues of myself being a punk
-use common abbreveations
-Don't write every single thing you like about her. (apparently because its like a stalker o.o)

So my question is what should I write? and I'd really appreciate it if the responses wern't from guys... since yeah...

anyways... thanks!

[txcforever]

Α love letter? Do people still do that?

[Rnanaka]

see, thats what i said, but then....... five people already told me to do it.

[DDv]

Α love letter? Do people still do that?
It depends who are you confessing to.
This is the answer to lazykida0's question too.

[Rnanaka]

still... not what I was looking for xD .

[AmSidar]

Rephrase the question, i am not 100% sure what you are asking for.
...Do you want to know what a girl wants from a love letter?

[Rnanaka]

yeah. that'll work.

[DDv]

still... not what I was looking for xD .

I know, I know. Sorry, but I'm not a girl. :P

[Sunset]

you people think too much on this matter. Why can't you be more simple instead of being complex?

[Rnanaka]

Because I have no guts and I'm scared to see what happens.I need to go buy some off of ebay....

[Sunset]

lol, it's not life and death, go ahead find out. If you don't proceed, you won't know.
*sigh* human.... so hard to understand.

[AmSidar]

I usually ask ppl be direct whit me, also probably not bad idea if you keep the letter short. For example i would never read a very long letter.
Love letter is about what you feel about the target person not your intro letter... duno who told you that shit.

[Rnanaka]

Eh, every girl is differnt... thats what sucks....

[Serugi]

a love letter mean that you have no guts just go up and say what you need to say NOT whoops uhh wrong person sorry (runs away)

[daniel2]

Α love letter? Do people still do that?

Yes sadly.

see, thats what i said, but then....... five people already told me to do it.

Negatroy my good man.

Because I have no guts and I'm scared to see what happens.I need to go buy some off of ebay....

Then your not ready for a relationship. So your question is answered right there.

[Rnanaka]

yeah... then I am screwed...

[daniel2]

Just gather some more guts bro. Shit it's not like shes the only girl you'll ever like. She might say yes. Notes look pathetic and they dampen your image.

Christ I don't get why people tear themselves over asking a girl out.
Walk right up to her and tell her how you feel. Sif you should care the fuck what anyone else thinks.

[Rnanaka]

Thanks. I might do that tommorow.

[link99912]

The best info I could possibly give you is this... Burn the message, and talk to her straight forward. Why? Because it's faster and theres no suspense.

[txcforever]

Love letters is so 70s-80s man. Send her an email at least ;p.
Seriously what can you accomplish with a love letter? If you tell her your name (in most animes they never reveal their identity) she will probably ignore it (unless she is a b*tch and rub it in your face) unless you know each other and talked before. If you don't then with a little bit of luck you can get a first (blind? it depends) date but in most cases it would also be the last (again unless you talked, hanged out before).

[tvesrb]

I'd recommend the direct aproach, but if you must write a letter then just write what you feel. btw the key to having guts is to let yourself go and forget about what might happen if ya screw up, cause if ya don't you'll always be stuck in neutral

[lamunphs]

Love letters is so 70s-80s man. Send her an email at least ;p.
Seriously what can you accomplish with a love letter? If you tell her your name (in most animes they never reveal their identity) she will probably ignore it (unless she is a b*tch and rub it in your face) unless you know each other and talked before. If you don't then with a little bit of luck you can get a first (blind? it depends) date but in most cases it would also be the last (again unless you talked, hanged out before).


i agree with this dude, best idea so far

[Versatile.]

The answers are right in front of you... now what you need to do is go ahead and do it! I can especially relate with you there because I have a low amount of confidence. You just got to get in the game...

[bushidomizer]

ive never written a love letter to my gf. before haha. well once during valentines day :] a little cheesy but its the thought that counts. anyways to the OP, just chillax man. youre worrying too much. just go for the letter ! if you fail on this one, then theres plenty of other girls out there. if i had thought of this approach before i met my gf, then i most likely wouldve given it a shot.

[daniel2]

Lol I think we should all know, letters just suck.

[Akazaji]

my advice:
write more than 1 letter, secret admirerer style. and put in in her bag or someplace. ALWAYS THE SAME PLACE. watch her reaction and see if she asks around.

[Viperus]

Lol I think we should all know, letters just suck.

Too impersonal in my opinion. That would work only if she's very shy as well.

[krnxknight]

I think love letters are cute and I've gotten quite a few of them in the past few years but I don't do the whole "meet me at [place] at 4" deal unless they ask me face to face.

So just walk up and ask to talk to them later if you're too scared to confess in front of people. Just don't use a proxy, most girls find that you don't like them enough to try and ask them yourself through letter, email, face2face etc.

[Aimless]

just go ahead and tell her face2face.

anyway, if u insist on writing a love letter, I believe there's no such thing as "rules to writing a good love letter". It depends on the girl. What matters most is your sincerity. I believe even though u end up with a letter that really sux, if the girl sees your sincerity in it, she'll appreciate it.

Cheers

[leizar]

From personal experience: Love letters don't work. I write few letters to girl I got crush on. I was straight <and I also wrote my name so she knew from who they were> in those letters and she dumped me via letter. I would say it was less painful. BUT LOVE LETTER GIVES GIRL MORE OPENINGS TO DUMP YOU THEN DIRECT APPROACH. That is what I think now.
I also want to say that I'm not very experienced in male-female relationships and i don't have girlfriend.

[daniel2]

I still quote myself when I say if you don't go up to her and ask her face to face then you don't deserve her and you better get out of the way so someone else can have her.

[Craz_Boyz]

ah dude my advice is to NOT leave any evidence behind you. the best way is talking because you can always deny it if it goes wrong. ANYTHING that involves the internet is really NOT advisable cuz if someday she decides to screw you up she'll have some pretty humilliating material on her hands, so no videos and no e-mails. an actual letter is not so bad cuz not many ppl would go through the trouble of scanning the letter to post it on the internet :P

but really, the best way with the best results is the straightforward talk face-to-face, eye-to-eye and (maybe if u're lucky) tongue-to-tongue talk

[Azmy]

I'm in total agreement with the face to face approach. I like things to be open and honest, so I guess that's why I like this. The only thing I might add would be to, maybe, try and get her alone or mostly alone. Then she won't have any distractions. And when you finally do something please tell us what you did. Of course if you don't want to, I understand, but now I'm dying of curiosity. :imd:

[chrizao]

my mistake delete.sorry

[chrizao]

Bro you've got some really good tips here , my opion is that love letters sometimes work sometimes don't, it all depends on the girl and her personality she may find it sweet or . . not. You knowing her the best (i hope) should know what to do. Let us know if you get some action.

I predict: :mlfy:(she's so cute-gains guts!):hi::am:(will you go out with me?):onion10:(if we go out we can have sex. .) :yabai::dies2:(regains composure):hahaha:(i mean fun) :lovelove:(Yes!) :relief::kaiasu03::31056:

nothing to do xDD