what makes a person "too young for a relationship"?

[faytoshana]

what makes a person "too young to have a relationship"?
is it because of their age?
their minds?
their mental state?
their physical conditions?
and btw...
is 14 years old too young to "start a relationship"? cuz im only 14...
:em04::nonono::iamdead:

[whiteday26]

I think it doesn't really matter.
Unless, you are talking about sexual relationships. Which, before morality problem comes in, the legal problems surrounding it might take effect.

[daniel2]

Your maturity is the only thing you should consider before you start your first relationship. Or any relationship for that matter.

[AmSidar]

The mind and mental state, in other world your maturity as Daniel said.

[Silmeria]

dont forget to put a line bewteen mature and bewteen being a old man who just complains about everything, and you are too young for a relationship when you are onesided and dont think about your partner at all.

[AmSidar]

There is an old Hungarian saying... A man is man until hes grave. ;)

Here where some guys who married a 18 year old girl in age 80th... and he was not senile...

[Cryper]

The fact that you have to ask is one sign your not there yet... BUT i'm not hatin'! just saying u might be too young in genenral.. i lost my virgiinity at 16 and regretted rushing into it. If you choose to have relations dont buy into peer pressure and DONT think if i date her/him u gotta sleep with her/him.. a relationship shouldnt derail your life in anyway (school work. family time, personal time u invest in yurself).. it should make it better... make sense? maybe u get me... maybe u dont..

[daniel2]

The fact that you have to ask is one sign your not there yet...

Truth hurts.

[Silmeria]

he was asking for the same reason i think he was aware of it already lol...thats why he was asking, but then again common sense normally doesnt apply.

[Cryper]

good point, better that he asked than not ask. but we were all 14 once too! lets not blackout every memory before the new years eve party that got us wrecked of '08!

anyway my point is its not like we were given relationship manuals and knew how and when to kick it to a girl automatically now... i remember drop kicking the first chick i was into to show her i like her lol good times.. sigh...
just keep in mind u may mess up but there will be plenty of girls by the time your ready.. work on making yourself special.. develop your talents.. think of yourself as a product... what's gonna wanna make a person buy into u? what's gonna make u better than the next product? can u draw? do u have superior video gaming skills? can u do stand up comedy at a moments notice? do u workout or play sports? and most importantly have fun becomming this awesome marketable version of yourself! and remember your gonna date girls down the line... not full fledged women expectin marriage! so dont rush to commit.. take your time ... make them bid for u..

[txcforever]

I don't know in my times at 14 relationships, never lasted long and it wasn't sexual (most of the times). Just hangin' together, go places together and maybe a kiss. But it wasn't such a serious matter that I would go around asking people if I should date her. Well maybe we were more innocent back then (not too far 10 years ago ;p).

[AmSidar]

same by me and that was only 7 year ago....

[Christie]

Yeah, 14 years old is too young to start a "relationship". It's not too early to start flirting and having boyfriends *within your age range* though.

[noirdeluna]

hm jeah i think it doesn´t matter how old are you its just importent that it feels good for the person ya love and you...

[shahice]

hmmm that true....14 is way too young to start relationship but still it can be done if both think that they will not cross that border....if that border crossed then they doom for sure.....

[C02M0]

well it depends on what youre idea of relats .
if you think of relationship as thet sweet pictuer of some 6 years old boy giving a kiss on the cheak to a 6 years old girl ,this is cute and nice ,nothing wrong with it .

if you think about serious realts , you shuold be mature physiclly and mentally .
lets not forget mentally prepared .

im not sure if im mature enough or ready enough for such thing , it dosent make me immature tho .

[tvesrb]

I get the feeling you aleady know the answer to this question, but I'll answer anyway
If you're gonna start a relationship, you're gonna have to take a good hard look at yourself (metaphorically of course), make sure you're aware of just what being in a relationship entails, & ask yourself if you're ready both mentally & emotionally.
If you decide you're ready, but she's not, & you really like her then wait & let her develop at her own pace

[Lota]

i thinks 14 years is not too young ...
i remember that my first relationship was when i have 14 years old ..... i was too stupid but i remembre that i feel that y was mature and my friends too
i thinks that 11 is too young ...
12 or 13 is okay

[ShenZhiXian]

Age of 16 you can start a relationship that's a perfect age.
Age of 18 you can start doing all kind of sexual things with your girlfriend/boyfriend.
I think that is most fair (18).
Boys are way to fast having sexual contact with a girl probably around 14, Girls mostly say no it's to early(I agree). But the boys have the ''I want it'' in their minds.

[Swamp Eyes]

I dont know you, so i cant tell if you are to young or not, and by "young" i do not mean age, but how mature you are.
Do you think you can handle a relationship?
Do you think you can have a girlfriend and handle the responsability?
If your answers are "yes", then you probably not too young to have a relationship in my eyes.

Oh, and dont get scared by some of the above posts, its not that scarey to have a relationship, its actualy pretty nice :wohoho:

[ShenZhiXian]

Most boys will say rather ''yes'' because they are scared, the girls will say he can't handle it if he says ''no''.
But when the boy says ''yes'' and can't handle it...
pffff love hurts.
you have to trust you partner first before you can start a relationship.

[daniel2]

A friend of mine one said "If they ain't got six inches then send em back and get a refund"