What to do??

[keit4ro]

Hi people, this is my first post, and is kinda sad...
You see, there's this girl I like, she studies at the same school as me, same grade, but another room. Some weeks ago I got her MSN, and we started talking, in the internet we talk a lot, but in school she acts like she doesn't know me... For example, today she passed by me, and all she said was "excuse me", because I was in her way... And she never starts talking to me by herself, I have to start all conversations. By the way, I'm 17, she is 16, and I never kissed a girl before (yes, I know it's lame).

Please, Help me!!

[Trancend]

i dont think its really lame =]
maybe shes trying to keep her school rep?
is she even popular at school?
and most gurls dont usually start conversations they want guys to lol

[keit4ro]

She's not really popular, she's a normal girl. But why she does'nt even say "Hi" to me? I don't know what to do it's like hunting ducks at night...

[Trancend]

hmm have u ever tried to say Hi to her?
cuz im one of them i like other ppl to say hi to me xD
or maybe shes really shy some ppl like talking on the internet then in rl

[keit4ro]

Yes, I've said Hi to her many times. When I talk to her she answers, but if I don't go there to talk to her she just passes me by. And sometimes I'm afraid she is avoiding me -.-

[Trancend]

all i have to say is get to know her better so things can work out
it'll be easier to make frens wif her if u had 1 or 2 classes wif her =[

[keit4ro]

I'm trying that. I talk to her at every opportunity (Afraid that I'm being creepy, every time). And unfortunately, I can't have classes with her, I don't know how to explain, but I can't change my classes, they're not decided by me. And during breaks she's usually with her friends, and I'm too shy to go talk to her when she's with her friends...

[Trancend]

psssh i bets she trying to be hard to get lol

[keit4ro]

If she's trying that shes being reeeeaally successful... Last Week I tried to call her out, but she said she needed permission from her parents, I told her to tell me when she talked to them, but she didn't say anything. I didn't ask her about it to, I wanted to pass her the impression that my happiness wasn't depending on that (which is a lie). Should I try to ask her out again?

[daniel2]

I think you should confront her on MSN about why she shows such dis interest in you.
Thats the only way you'll truly find out.

[keit4ro]

I already tried that, or something like that. I asked her Why she never started a conversation with me on MSN, she said that she never starts conversations with anyone. I kinda doubt that, but I won't be pushy.

[daniel2]

I'd say piss her off then. If shes wasting your time. No point chasing after someone who seriously doesn't show any interest in you in person.

She sounds like my ex.

[keit4ro]

I tried that, but my mind kept coming back to her, and I thought "Well, I've got nothing to lose". Guess I'll keep on trying, the least that can happen is a rejection, but I'm already an expert on rejections, it's kind hard to break this hardened heart after so many times. :cowboy:

[tvesrb]

she probably has no interest in you
apparently she doesn't think highly enough of you to at least give you an honest answer
you might wanna stay clear of types like her, in the long run they'll just leave you alone and dissapointed

[Queenie]

I tried that, but my mind kept coming back to her, and I thought "Well, I've got nothing to lose". Guess I'll keep on trying, the least that can happen is a rejection, but I'm already an expert on rejections, it's kind hard to break this hardened heart after so many times. :cowboy:

For a girl to avoid u like this , she either has no interest or she doesn't want to go into a relationship. If u want to keep going i sugguest u Talk to her on msn more and when u guys get closer then ask her again why she wouldn't talk at school.
But i suggest u just forget about her . she may be like the most prettiest girl to u but she isn't doing much to be friendly to u. Don't waste ur time just to wait for a rejection. I don't think she's worth it :[~ And stop thinking about being rejected is nothing!! no matter what a rejection will hurt ! So either be patient and talk to her or Find a better girl than her =p plus ur only 17 Theres plenty of better chances out there for u to find a good girl >3<

[daniel2]

I say bar all of it before you fall too far in love. Seriously.

[keit4ro]

yeah... Guess you guys are right, better give up on her, there are many other girls in this world, one of 'em must like me =D. And if I keep wasting time with this one I'm just going to lose other opportunities. Thank you people for listening to my rambles.