Ruined chances?

[Kaibitsu]

Well, there's this girl at school who I think is pretty attractive. My friends and I all like her and we've most definitely made an impression on her although I think if anything it was more negative.

One of my friends likes to speak about perverted things but he doesn't realise he's far too loud when he does. He tried talking to her once and made a complete fool of himself. My other friend and I aren't as bad but she just happened to catch glimpses of us at the wrong time. One time I put my head through the sleeve of my polarfleece and acted like a retard, sure enough she turned around just in time to see my solo comedy routine. Another I was freeing up :31056: and I turned around to see her walking past giving me a queer expression. Finally just recently I confronted her and she looked at me full of hatred.

So, basically, we've screwed all chances, right?

[Caspiel]

It's so true. I'd know because i'm the other friend, the one who hasn't made a fool of himself yet.

[daniel2]

No I don't think you have. You just need to convince her differently now. Try making a good impression on her/

[demoniclsayer]

Maybe not yet. But as bad impressions are really hard to be forgotten, it will take a lot of efforts to set things right. You all would need to be mindful enough not to repeat those mistakes again (if she does dislike you due to those actions).

[Kalamadea]

Yeah, once she gets to know you I'm sure she'll be able to look past the sleeve thing, there's far worse things you can do to make a person dislike you. Of course everyone's different but it's worth a try.

[krnxknight]

i wouldn't push it, it could be that she just hates your friends and doesn't mind you except that you hang out with them. even if that's true, it's really awkward to have a gf that hates your friends cause when you have to decide between them...who you going to choose?

but if that doesn't bother you i'd give it a shot.

[tvesrb]

its obvious you like her, so just talk to her
reassure her that you're not as imature as she might think