Need Help!!!!!

[gamenern]

Alright. Here's my problem.

There's this girl in school I like. She's a mixed, dirty blond, really cute girl who is in one of my classes. I have attempted to ask her out, but I never got the words out, (I'm really shy) so I haven't been able to have her. I am afraid that she has a boyfriend by now, so I haven't atempted to ask her. But any help thet you guys can give me, I will take it. Please!!!! This is, sadly:sob:only my second atempt at any form of romantic relationship. So, PLEASE!!!!!!! HELP!!!!!!!!

[gakidou]

1st mistake many people make in high school:

Asking a girl out directly almost never works... unless u're pro or super good looking, it will come off as desperate or inappropriate.

Just make a few jokes here and there (only when the moment is right), try to catch the girl's attention first. Show her you're an interesting person to talk to, and just make conversation. BE CONFIDENT! Talk about anything... i.e complain about shity teacher or school gossip... or listen to her conversations /w other ppl to find what makes her tick and then talk about those things /w her

Do that step first... then come back and report your status ;)

P.S. the fact that u already attempted to ask her out like that, probably pushed her away from you... so don't talk to her for 2 weeks or so unless she talks to you. That will confirm that u are over her and u just wanna talk. Either that or move onto another girl ;p

oh yeha, i've also never asked any GF out before (except my first). It's all about getting to kno what makes that person tick, and then exploiting that knowledge and when the time is right just make a move... dun even need to ask, just go for the kiss or whatever (only if the opportunity arises!!!). For my current gf, i just told her i was gonna take off my pants and that i expected her to follow, and bammmmm... i was set haha... (altho she didn't follow... but we made out... and 1 month later i got to homebase)

[peacock]

Yup yup, start with "Hello", the lines and crap are terrible. Just say hello, and see if She's interested... ( or interesting ), and see what happens...

[Silmeria]

dont go like that find a way to make her a friend, now that she is a friend or you can have a normal conversation you can ask indirect questions thats your way to know if she has a BF or not, like for example in one of your conversation a thursday or friday go like "gahhhhh i have nothing to do this weekend and you? will you go out with your Bf?" now this is a crucial momment where will you know if she has a bf or not when you know about it you can act accordingly.
also if you have no ideas how to hook her in a conversation, you said she is in one of your classes is she smart on it? go and ask her about it, like what was homework or if she understood what the teacher said and make her explain you if she takes the time to means she is nice or she is interested in you as a friend at least.

[AmSidar]

I have to agree whit both pancock and silmeria, take you time learning about her, as by us sayd "dont break in the house whit door in your hand".

[daniel2]

I don't know how we can help. Helping would be to ask her out myself lol for you.

But I don't ask anyone out for anyone.

If you don't ask her out and get the courage, you don't deserve her. So your going to have fun living with the fact you messed up when shes with another dude.
If your smart and you really want her you'll get off your ass and go ask her.
If she says yes, then your set.
If she says no then at least you tried, theres always a chance she'll change her mind.

Like I said, if you don't then your not the guy for her.

[txcforever]

Well if she is in one of your classes you could approach her regarding homework or a test or something. That's the best way to approach her (even though you've said she is a blond) because it has the less chances for her to just ignore you (unless she hates your guts).