great-sasuke
03-27-2008, 10:46 AM
I want so advices to stop being so shy with girls, plz.
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Rnanaka
03-27-2008, 10:48 AM
I'd like a bit more detail on that =P .
AdamLong
03-27-2008, 10:56 AM
Beyond "shy" how do you generally act around girls? Can't really give you any advice if I don't know anything about you personally.
Blu
03-27-2008, 10:59 AM
All I could really say is ball up, You will usually feel alot better once the conversation or whatever you did was over.
great-sasuke
03-27-2008, 12:11 PM
I´m trying to say that when I´m with a pretty girl I feel so nervous that I cant say anything, and when i kenw new girls I dojnt have the courage to aproach them cos I dont know what can i talk about with her.
Rnanaka
03-27-2008, 01:05 PM
Write notes, IM, then when you know alot about her interests/confortable talking with her in person, then yeah...
Queenie
03-28-2008, 02:44 PM
does any of ur guy friends know any Girls why don't u try to get to know some :o then u can talk to girls easier :D
txcforever
03-28-2008, 09:20 PM
I know a great girl for you. You know her, she is always there for you. Her name is Your Palm. Seriously now I used to be shy around girls and the best (and for some the only) way to approach them is through a friend that's more open character. Being with a friend you feel less awkward you can learn more about her through talking to him (e.g. she asks something, he answers, you comment on his answers)
krnxknight
03-28-2008, 10:25 PM
I´m trying to say that when I´m with a pretty girl I feel so nervous that I cant say anything, and when i kenw new girls I dojnt have the courage to aproach them cos I dont know what can i talk about with her.
do you have any girl friends? if not, do what queenie said and find some friends of a friend.
but if ya do, and they're not interested in ya, try asking them to introduce ya to a friend of theirs. at least with blind dates you can start by talking bout the person who set you two up ;3
see where that takes ya but usually a friend of a friend who is single usually has something that makes her single.
do you have any girl friends? if not, do what queenie said and find some friends of a friend.
but if ya do, and they're not interested in ya, try asking them to introduce ya to a friend of theirs. at least with blind dates you can start by talking bout the person who set you two up ;3
see where that takes ya but usually a friend of a friend who is single usually has something that makes her single.
daniel2
03-29-2008, 12:13 AM
Why don't you look around on some of the threads before spamming?
AmSidar
03-29-2008, 05:27 PM
I´m trying to say that when I´m with a pretty girl I feel so nervous that I cant say anything, and when i kenw new girls I dojnt have the courage to aproach them cos I dont know what can i talk about with her.Maybe this will sound weird, but try to go to her whit some reason (not so pick up reason btw) thats always worked by me, i also feel myself awkward in the present of new ppl, if i don't have that reason then i let my partner chose the topics, and try to work whit it.
The first meting is always jumping into the black night.
I would advice one stuff however, newer be an actor (if your act is an act and not yourself then sooner or later it will blow up into your face) so be yourself that's the best way to make good relationships.
The first meting is always jumping into the black night.
I would advice one stuff however, newer be an actor (if your act is an act and not yourself then sooner or later it will blow up into your face) so be yourself that's the best way to make good relationships.
rising crescent
04-05-2008, 12:21 AM
I must admit.
I am shy person too.
perhaps lack in knowledge and experiences contacting communication with girls
I am shy person too.
perhaps lack in knowledge and experiences contacting communication with girls
great-sasuke
04-07-2008, 12:31 PM
I must admit.
I am shy person too.
perhaps lack in knowledge and experiences contacting communication with girls
I know how you feel
I am shy person too.
perhaps lack in knowledge and experiences contacting communication with girls
I know how you feel
Otaku Ichise
04-09-2008, 08:46 AM
Some few males ofen fear being rejected, you just need to see more your reality, look more around you, see how girls and males react and how they are not so much diferent as you think, nobody is a saint in this world eitheir, just put confidence in yourself that your a good person and you dont need any pride for yourself, i know its an hard battle with those close feelings and requires time, best luck to you and dont think so much about it, theres lot things in this world other than girls, you need to find the answer for yourself.
daniel2
04-10-2008, 11:25 PM
If you want to be not so shy. Change your whole life, it starts when YOU make the first step.
Hunter L
04-14-2008, 03:50 PM
that's easier said than done my friend but you're right on the money i'm just the King of shy I cannot get a conversation started till after the girl left it's just way too hard and then being the first one to speak =super nerve buster but after I tried though (it didn't end so well) I feel great!
tvesrb
04-15-2008, 01:21 AM
just think to yourself whats the worst that could happen
if she complies, +1self-esteem
if she rejects, theres always other girls to talk to
and if she blows you off, chances are she wasn't worth it
if she complies, +1self-esteem
if she rejects, theres always other girls to talk to
and if she blows you off, chances are she wasn't worth it
Hunter L
04-15-2008, 01:10 PM
I agree the hell with being scared just go for it and have fun! besides you only live once
daniel2
04-16-2008, 11:38 AM
Thats simple and very true.
Devil_Jin
04-23-2008, 08:57 AM
I'm a little bit shy too... Sometimes girls are attracted from me, but I never know what to do exactly. Well, to be more precise, I know what to do, but I don't know when do I have to do it.
However, there are two little tricks that are quite good for me:
1) it could be strange, but when I try to hit on a girl in a language that it's not my mother language (english, for example) I have much more chances to succeed. Unfortunately, it works only with foreign girls and/or in other countries.
2) when I drink a bit and there are other friends around me, I can easily approach every girl... Maybe I feel like they're supporting me in some way.
Hope that they could work for you... Ganbatte!
However, there are two little tricks that are quite good for me:
1) it could be strange, but when I try to hit on a girl in a language that it's not my mother language (english, for example) I have much more chances to succeed. Unfortunately, it works only with foreign girls and/or in other countries.
2) when I drink a bit and there are other friends around me, I can easily approach every girl... Maybe I feel like they're supporting me in some way.
Hope that they could work for you... Ganbatte!
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