So my girlfriend is a virgin, never had sex before. I'm not, but that's not the issue. The issue is that (and I'm not quite sure how to say this so I'll be straight forward with it) I can't get it in. We've tried having sex but she is too tight. She always tells me to just force it in, but I'm sure that will cause more pain than it has to and I'd rather not do that. I'm really (really really really) small so I thought it would be easy, but I just keep on embarrassing myself. Any tips besides lube?

So my girlfriend is a virgin, never had sex before. I'm not, but that's not the issue. The issue is that (and I'm not quite sure how to say this so I'll be straight forward with it) I can't get it in. We've tried having sex but she is too tight. She always tells me to just force it in, but I'm sure that will cause more pain than it has to and I'd rather not do that. I'm really (really really really) small so I thought it would be easy, but I just keep on embarrassing myself. Any tips besides lube?




......................You lucky bastard.........................:damn:............ .........

Lots of people tried to help someone HERE (http://forums.penny-arcade.com/discussion/17701/cant...fit-sex-question). I hope it doesn't count as advertising to a different site. I just looked it up on google and that came up...

So, like they said over there, make her as comfortable as possible. Lots of foreplay. Use the fingers and everything you can to get her more wet and... Well, don't try to force it. =]

She might also have a very strong hymen like one of my best friends had. She went to her gynecologist to break it because it was too painfull/tight for normal penetration. Might be worth a try ...

To be honest, I don't think that an internet forum is the right place to discus such matters. To me, it sounds like a medical problem and should be handled by professionals (e.g. doctors, etc.)

And, as already recommended, FOREPLAY! That's what gets girls reeeeaaaally horny & wet. Oh and it's not just about rubbing the pussy. What's most important @ foreplay: the girl's mood. (Just in case you don't already know)

Stay safe! :)

It could be that she is really stressed about the whole situation and that's how her body is reacting. Are you guys doing it somewhere comfortable or are sneaking around to have sex? That extra sense of danger is alluring but, can backfire because of the perceived stress.
Or as others have mentioned, get her wet. Plenty of options, LOTS of LUBE and don't forget about making her feel LOVED, RELAXED and find out what she WANTS and see if you can do it (there might be something she wants to do that......YOU DON'T WANT! :PPP ).
And......You might NOT be HARD enough for her....... Just saying.....


She might also have a very strong hymen like one of my best friends had. She went to her gynecologist to break it because it was too painfull/tight for normal penetration. Might be worth a try ...

1. To be honest, I don't think that an internet forum is the right place to discus such matters. To me, it sounds like a medical problem and should be handled by professionals (e.g. doctors, etc.)

And, as already recommended, FOREPLAY! That's what gets girls reeeeaaaally horny & wet. Oh and it's not just about rubbing the pussy. What's most important @ foreplay: the girl's mood. (Just in case you don't already know)

Stay safe! :)

1. When one has listened and experienced a lot of these situations........One can HELP even though they don't have the SOCIALLY ACCEPTABLE form of experience that SOCIETY craves. Any place you can ask a question, where there are SOME PEOPLE with ACTUAL KNOWLEDGE of the subject at hand, is a good place to ask. :l

SOMEONE needs to go through the Threads in here and read up on them. They might then become MORE INFORMED. >:D

Like said before...Do NOT force it :/
It will be bad for her, and you...But(sorry) even more for her....
Look, she might be nervous, or maybe too excited. It's like Muck said~ You need to have a more...comfortable situation, if you are not in one already. Be sure she really wants to do it, that she is relaxed and enjoying the whole thing~
Some foreplay, like mentioned, is a "must". At least, it IS a great help.
I know this might be kinda weird (since dont know you nor you gf) but you should, hm, maybe ask her if she has ever masturbate~ That does make a difference D:

And well...just saying, I think its okay to ask here. Nobody will tell him to do anything...abnormal I think. And aasuming that his girl has some good sense, she will know that maybe asking a doc about it might be good. I really dont see anything wrong about asking that :3

Anyway, good luck D:

Im a virgin too so I wouldnt know too much.
I guess just lots of foreplay and maybe try fingering?

I am a virgin as weLL so what I'm thinking right now is that I hope I don't go through the same situation as yours. That's reaLLy troubLing. Hmmm. As I'm not knowLedgabLe enough, I think you shouLd just need to work it up more. As they say, get into the mood, as in reaLLy into the mood where the urge to make Love is strong but not to the point that what you have in mind is just to have SEX for the sake of doing it. WeLL, I don't know what the two of you think about this, but it shouLd be done with feeLings and yeah, be carefuL enough not to make her feeL awfuLLy hurt. ALso, if she wants to get over it, heLp each other. I can't say no more, I don't have much idea on this matter. O.o

I had this problem before. What you want to do is have her straddle you as you lie down. In this position, she can use her body weight for leverage and can control the pace. Use personal lubricant, but first and foremost, make a real effort to get her in the mood.

Call me a romantic, but I think a girl's first time should be memorable.

Even as a guy, mine was hardly noteworthy and left me feeling used. >.>

Mmmm hehe the first time should always be messy and painful. Especially if you have a pair of nice gloves. It's a ride no girl should forget. Do as she says and force it in!

Mmmm hehe the first time should always be messy and painful. Especially if you have a pair of nice gloves. It's a ride no girl should forget. Do as she says and force it in!
Since your name is FreddyKruger, AND you posted this... I cannot do other than quote Celph Titled. Just "fingerfuck bitches with Freddy Kruger gloves on" (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ssgroEK7YCk&t=234), and with that, all is said.





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