how to make a girl like me again...

[blazinguy213]

um...
back in september i dated a girl named tina...
after many months of pure love. my boss told me to go to china so i can trade products with united states. when i came back, i found out she was dating some guy i don't know and the bad part is that she won't talk to me!!! so how can i tell her that i still love her...:sob::abandoned2::189bbdde::imd::noooo:

[daniel2]

Move on... :cowboy: she obviously doesn't give a shit about you.

But I can't blame her, you did neglect her and go to another country.

[SailorRi]

hey you should talk to her about it, wait for a response, and just give her time to think about what you told her. just try not to sound whiney about it.

[blazinguy213]

thanks for the advice...
i might move on
but first i'll talk to her...

[Silmeria]

thanks for the advice...
i might move on
but first i'll talk to her...
it sucks when you hold onto hope to much
and the get rejected....you shoiuld just even move away if she is in a relation Obviously there is no space for a third wheel, so if you really like her you should just really sit out there is no need to make her think about you and create drama.

[baottosai]

yeap...it's better you move on dude.

cuz the girl is not waiting for you...and now she's having another guy that she love;it's better u not disturb their relationship....but it'll be more gentle if u talk to her and ask her to be your friend again ;)

[Christie]

As harsh as reality may be, everyone who posted here is right :( I'm sorry.

[beyazm]

maybe you have to forget her if she love another man,
but i think she is delinquent...

[peacock]

um...
back in september i dated a girl named tina...
after many months of pure love. my boss told me to go to china so i can trade products with united states. when i came back, i found out she was dating some guy i don't know and the bad part is that she won't talk to me!!! so how can i tell her that i still love her...:sob::abandoned2::189bbdde::imd::noooo:

Ahh, the fickle, frail, female heart....

I've had a little experience with this... and each girl really is different,

My advice would be to search your own heart and figure out what's really important to you. And "love" is such a hard thing to understand. What maybe you should do, would be to contact Her through whatever means is appropriate to your situation, since She's seeing another guy, it might be innappropriate to meet with her in person, you may have to write her a letter or something. However you contact Her, tell Her how you feel, wish Her happiness, and then let it go. what I mean by that is that once you let Her know how you feel, it's up to Her...

no badgering, whining, or manipulation allowed...

The trick is to give Her the respect to let Her make up her own mind, if She's interested now or at another time, she will let you know. And move on with your life... seriously.... keep the "door" open, just move on...

If you are sincere in your feelings AND trust Her to make up Her own mind, And move on with your life, You'll be better off, whatever She decides...

the single most attractive thing you can do, is to be worthy of her attention, whetther she ever notices or not... I mean, what are you really offering?

once again the keys are,

honesty...

trust...

being healthy...

being the best you that you can be.

After following this advice, I have found that either the girl will contact you back soon, OR.... something better will happen in your life... either way, it's a win!

-peacock-

[blazinguy213]

o.k i'll move on
thanks for the advice everybody...
:escape:

[Christie]

peacock spoke truth :)

[blazinguy213]

:wbl:thank you christie, peacock, and all of you guys for helping me.

[kentfucky]

that the spirit but sun kill urself ok...
not worth to die because of love

[blazinguy213]

i won't kill myself...
but it just hurt so much...:noooo:

[daniel2]

Sorry bro sometimes chicks just do that. Theres plenty more around. Distances blow.