Masturbating on Cam?

[daniel2]

Wondering about your thoughts an opinions.

I use myspace and sometimes my girl and I go on the chatrooms to just pay the horny people out. Fuck with a few peoples heads and just troll and spam the chatroom. Theres always a few people saying, come masturbate on cam with me blah blah blah, funny how I used to think to myself god I'll never do that.

Anyway so I did tonight. For my girl, we were mucking around on the phone and she said something along the lines of "I wish I could see you right now" and I just said "meh I've got a webcam and your holding the phone with me"... so she said jump on the cam, and I did. Things got heated etc, I ended up masturbating on cam for her. I was a little anxious at first because you know its a private thing and all but shes seen me do it before in person and I WAS trying to turn her on all night.

So I succeeded in that and I got to hear her as she touched herself as well... Yay bonus for me.

Now I bet your thinking well ImI thats all very well and good so WTF is this thread about? Are you gloating?

No. I'm not. Not at all. Today (or tonight actually) my girl sorta pushed me outside my comfort zone. However in the end I liked it, I enjoyed it and I thought wow that was interesting I've never seen myself naked in any sort of motion or movie clip or anything.

So what I'm asking is would any of you? (Guys and Girls of course) have the courage to do it for your loved one? Or just for any reason at all? Would you do it if it meant the person you were talking to would as well? etc.

So tell me your answers and opinions. I'd love to hear them.
Btw I'm a 16 year old male (almost 17). So thats if your wondering my age and gender and all.

Lastly, this is a sensitive topic so I'm hoping everyone is as mature as I think they are.

Anyway, post away! :em038:

[qscd]

well, I'm kind of shy, I won't do this

[daniel2]

Thats how I felt as well, I started off thinking hmm I wont do this. I told her a few days back I would if she wished it of me and if I got something out of it or if I'd get some sort of Good Karma.

Then basically well I had the motive and the equipment. I didn't want to make an excuse and make it look like I was shy. So I did.

[Slayden]

How droll. I was just going to do something similar in the next day or two and you post this.

I see it as a way to break down barriers and personal restraints in favor of control. The difference between having barriers and control is barriers are self-induced mental shackles that prevent one from taking action. Control, on the other hand, is the free-willed choice to follow a course of action or not. Control is strength, but barriers is weakness. Barriers such as these are usually mixed with fear which is why it is a weakness.

Actions such as these are great for breaking these barriers in favor of self-control, but more importantly, it has tentacle effects in other areas of one's life. Just as conquering one's greatest fear can give a guy the confidence he needs to talk to girls, actions such as these can affect other areas to better of one's life too.

[daniel2]

Thats not the point Slayden. You can still make your thread.
What I'm asking people here is would they do it and if so for what reason? And providing what good Karma that they get?

[Slayden]

Then I'll make my answer short and sweet, but I did answer two of those three questions.


What I'm asking people here is would they do it

For me, yes.


and if so for what reason?

Breaking down personal barriers.


And providing what good Karma that they get?

Huh? :6:

[Silmeria]

i wont do it....we can see each other some other time and well get things done for real if she wants to do it for me go ahead.....but wont be different at masturbating at porn...just only with the person i love...since i cant touch her..wich is a big letdown...if she really wanted to see you sneak out of your house and go see her or viceversa.

[daniel2]

Well Sayden your right, for me it was a fantastic way to get my girlfriend to be more open about her sexuality and for me to break a few barriers.

I think now things are going alot smoothly because I made a small sacrifice that turned out to be a major plus in the end! and it's far from over.

As for the last thing you said "huh?" to. Basically what would you like in return for masturbating on cam Slayden?

[toadvine]

Ooh, I've done this one before (at the girl's suggestion as well) and it turned on the lady I was with a LOT. I honestly never considered it to be anything too unusual or *needing* compensation - I certainly enjoyed myself and she did too, which is forever the main thing when playing sex games. Then again, all the ladies I've been with have wound up being fairly adventurous (or maybe I inspire that in them - either way, it works out to the same thing.) It's always been my policy to do whatever the girl wants in bed, and that's pretty much always been reciprocated.:one:

[emersedsin]

We grow by pushing our limits and moving beyond our comfort zone.
I would most probably do it cos im a fun loving guy and even if its uncomfortable i'd still do it for the hell of it...hehe

[Souryumaru]

i wont do it i mean there are other ways and besides i think i is more fun together and not trough the Cam

[daniel2]

But would you do it on Cam if she would? That would be pretty fair and hey what if you couldn't see her for awhile and she was horny.. are you going to be a man and step up?

*cough* lol Peer pressure

[toadvine]

But would you do it on Cam if she would? That would be pretty fair and hey what if you couldn't see her for awhile and she was horny.. are you going to be a man and step up?

*cough* lol Peer pressure
Exactly - just like phone sex, only you actually get to see each other. It's not for everyone, sure, but if your lady requests it, I can't imagine why you wouldn't. Not like she hasn't seen you naked before anyways:yawn:

[daniel2]

If you wanted errr.. maximum effect you could use the phone and a cam at the same time I guess.. or if both cams had a microphone.

Lol what are cams for these days anyway, except for masturbating in front of?

[shahice]

if that make u happy just do it then no one will stop u.....i will make sure of it

[Trisket]

Id do it with my girl if she was actualy doing it at same time so i could at least get off on her doing it too. im 18 normaly dont talk much lol(in this forum but this caught my eye somthing told me to click it. i dont get off on cams really tho. Who knows maybe im pyschic n i knew this was a discussion.O_O) well Trisket out. heres my trade-mark double flick u off toon.(u can use it but dont claim it thanks just say some guy trisket thought me. t('-'t)
yay its puting up middle fingers. *clears throught* i act like a kid to much lol.

[Trisket]

If you wanted errr.. maximum effect you could use the phone and a cam at the same time I guess.. or if both cams had a microphone.

Lol what are cams for these days anyway, except for masturbating in front of?



:megane: Well really there ment for video diaries but who the hell does that bullshit.
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[AdamLong]

The reason to do this would be if you were seperated from each other for a certain period of time. Otherwise what's the point? Just do it in front of eachother.

[daniel2]

:megane: Well really there ment for video diaries but who the hell does that bullshit.
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I agree all videobloggers should be shot. Youtube references.

[txcforever]

Yeah I believe it's ok as long as she doesn't release the video of me jerking off over the internet if we break up :p. Well as for me I did something similar with a girl (not a girlfriend) but with photos exchange through our cell phones. But know I don't think I would do it because the similar scene from American Pie keeps coming to mind and I just can't stop laughing.

[rycm86]

For me it was fun for the 1st few times, but after awhile it kinda get boring. I still prefer the real thing ;)

[zina188]

Why the heck would you masturbat in front of a camera? That's so retarded? If you want the whole world to see your "inside" why not get naked and run around the streets? Sorry but I'm so angry seeing ppl doing it! TT_TT

[daniel2]

Your angry? Why... and yes I've run around naked before. (In the dark, with friends). It's like a fun thing to do here. It's called "streaking".

I asked because I was wondering if people could do it if they got something in return. It was all about breaking defensive personality barriers.

[ralfgm04]

Im, Shy to do it <,<. Its really not fun for me. Its still fun to see the original that teh webcam.

[beyazm]

i think this is unnecessary and why?
here answer...

For me it was fun for the 1st few times, but after awhile it kinda get boring.

[Edom]

I wouldn't do it as of now, but then I don't really masturbate in the first place. Nothing wrong with it; just make sure to clear spyware off your computer!

[pyrokind]

i would do that in a non private web cast just to mess with people( yess i'm immature and i'm 17 big whoop)

[Shinobe]

I'm kinda mixed...

On one hand you are like blah blah blah I got virually laided...

But on the other

I'm very impressed that u came out of the closet and told may may may may pedos and praying eyes about this.

So im not sure if you're brave or stupid...either way I'm not going to judge you.

Only advice...if you need to "doet" make sure you are using protection, and know that the real thing IS nice.

Peace

[C02M0]

IMO , no matter how much you love somone , the internet isnt safe enough .
im not saying dont do it becuse it wont worth it , im saying dont do this becuse its dangerous .
even if the girl /boy keeps it to himself , with all the hackers and such , it can easily fall to the wrong hands, you dont want other people to see it , dont you ?

[daniel2]

Your computer wont be hacked at random. The chances of that are lower then the person your doing it to recording it and putting it on youtube.

[C02M0]

Your computer wont be hacked at random. The chances of that are lower then the person your doing it to recording it and putting it on youtube.

i didnt mean the computer getting hacked .
sides i never been in those webcam sites so i dont know if theyre hackble .
and yhe the chances the computer itself will get hacked is 1 to 1000000 .

[daniel2]

No I'm talking about doing it privately for someone you like (:

[Hobo Zombie]

If you are underage, and send nude pictures or videos of yourself over the interbutt, you can be charged the distribution of child pornography.

[daniel2]

If you are underage, and send nude pictures or videos of yourself over the interbutt, you can be charged the distribution of child pornography.

Not if its yourself. I'm very well aware of the laws globally.

[Shinobe]

Funnies Story Ever

I used to talk to "this person" a bit in HS, not so much after we were all in college...

Rumors started that "this person" was getting "busy" with her BF (at the time) on the webcam because it was "turning them ON".

Since all the comps in Res are linked on one network (to access internet and what-not)...someone smart enough got to her computer thru the network and stole the video files...

The haxxor even left a note in the directory saying: "LOL, Welcome to the world of Amature PORN"


never found out if it was true, even then, its a good food for thought.

Again...the lesson is "use protection" LOL

[daniel2]

I lol'd at the last line.

[Serugi]

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[Dantie Neit]

I'm a bit paranoid about some things. So I guess if I could be convinced it's not going to be used by a third party or anything, and the girl on the other end (I said I'm paranoid). Only at her request though.

Anyone know what thread to go to for help finding a girl. I'm easily beaten. Too easily. I can only say more and more.

[hochiminshii]

If It was my special someone I think I would give it a go when I was younger i did alot of things like that with my Girlfriends so Its not odd or out of place for me

[Andariel]

I write very often with my best friend Jamsin about sex and we play some kinds of cyber sex over the IM or Those things like "Simon sad" and so on. Every time its very close at this Point where we use cams, but i think i will do it.
But only cause i know her fantasies and thoughts since one and a half year we talk about those things. And with her ´best friend Sahra i will do it too xD
So I'm a pervert and no standard for this world >.>

[CrimsonRayn]

Humm.. well.. I probably would.. but it might take a little bit of convincing on her part.. I mean yeah knowing I was making her happy would be a nice reward. So.. in the end I probably would.
(Now if only I had a girl in the first place :dark:

[roadkill6000]

hey your not really shy if your telling everyone that you jerkoff on camera
i jerkoff all the time ur not the only one you aint special btw im 16.5

[Sakujo]

I'm Really surprised by all of the non-affirmative responses here. I've done it and I enjoy it greatly. Not only is it fun with girlfriends, but I enjoy doing it with strangers, too. Of course, I take precautions and measure the personalities of those I let view my cam before offering. I also do detailed cybersex and adult roleplay. So yummy.