how would you ask a girl out ???

[jiaqi]

yea im the kind of shy guy dono what to do i heard its good to ask it like a joke and see what you get as a responce but i wanna know if i can get som advice:sigh:

[Silmeria]

if she is your friend just tell her you are bored on "instert day here" and if she wants to go out to cinema or to eat, ok now if she says yes dont tell her but you will be paying for all, when you are paying after eating or before entering cinema tell her its her reward for keeping you company.

[daniel2]

Just normally. No beating around in the bush.

Will you go out with me? Or will you go on a date with me to (the movies, dinner etc.)
A good appearance and a wallet full of cash will defiantly help (no don't go showing her all your money).

[tmmyjames]

Just normally. No beating around in the bush.

Will you go out with me? Or will you go on a date with me to (the movies, dinner etc.)
A good appearance and a wallet full of cash will defiantly help (no don't go showing her all your money).

Yea, I agree. Flossing money is like trying to buy her. Only girls that often go to the clubs and gold diggers would be attracted to that. A joke is always a good start.

[ZephyrBlack]

You all give a wrong advice, if you are shy why not send her a letter and see if she reply back.
girls do not like shy guys that is too shy that they cannot talk at all which is boring.

[dragoncrusher]

well if it were me, i would scream at her saying that i like her! *joking*, really if you wanna know, just ask her, what she thinks of you and see if she would like to go out with you.

[kpoeira]

if you really want to impress her you can buy some really expensive clothes and jewelry, buy some protection and v pills(know what i mean?), and a lamborghini and ask her "hey babe wanna go for a ride" you put on some sexy tunes and theres where the action begins ohhh yeahhhh!!!!all night long!!!

well just a little joke!:em0129: jajaja,actually its not that difficult just say "wanna go out?" the answer is the more simple one:JFBQ00213070516A:

[dragoncrusher]

nah it wont work that much... just being yourself is better, it shows who you are inside

[Silmeria]

i migth thinkg NOT beating around the bush for him would be kinda hard, so my advice is doing it "directly" without telling her directly, if you know what i mean meaning use a excuse(more like an indirect) to inviter her out if she is enough clever she will notice it rigth away, and there you you did it without saying "lets go out, out of the blue"

[daniel2]

You all give a wrong advice, if you are shy why not send her a letter and see if she reply back.
girls do not like shy guys that is too shy that they cannot talk at all which is boring.

Ummm you say we are 'doing it wrong' and then you start talking about shy girls <_<

Honestly, the best way to get a girl is to do something incredibly romantic at the cost of your reputation. It might be embarrassing for you but it'll win her over.
eg. Getting up on stage at your school and singing "I just wanna love you" (to the girl). Yes it might dint your reputation but she'll love you for it, as long as your totally serious when your doing whatever it is your doing to try and grasp her, if your not you'll make an ass of yourself.

[Stone]

Well ... You shoulden't really "ask" a girl out... If she is attirated by you too, she will do everything too, and it shoulden't be hard to just kiss her... "Asking" is too old school ..

[daniel2]

I think just suddenly "kissing" is too full frontal.

[Silmeria]

I think just suddenly "kissing" is too full frontal.
yup that can get you a big no and a slap in the face

[eksuterru]

haha yea dont beat around the bush and dont be too direct either! moderation people...
n no offence i notice some of the advice is a little kinda fantasy driven i mean yea it would b great if u can do those feats.... n i think the girl would rpolly b pressured to giv a yes too~ but if its no thn.... ouch!

on topic, i support those which say casually ask her out, being urself and leave a/some hint(s) to score some points~

[wbz115]

if she is your friend just tell her you are bored on "instert day here" and if she wants to go out to cinema or to eat, ok now if she says yes dont tell her but you will be paying for all, when you are paying after eating or before entering cinema tell her its her reward for keeping you company.

but dont say cinema it sounds nerdy say movies or somethin, and if u asking how to talk to a girl on the internet... kill yo self

[Silmeria]

but dont say cinema it sounds nerdy, and if u asking how to talk to a girl on the internet... kill yo self
since when cinema sounds nerdy.....i am not asking i am giving a example..also your poor choice of vocabulary shows enough of you, just because you think cinema is nerdy doesnt mean it is, good god why i have to deal with the ones like you, do us a favor a jump off the bridge with your "cool" vocabulary.

[daniel2]

The Cinema's is a great way to get a girl! Especially if its the first time your going to ask someone out. The cinema is a magical place, many-a-girl has let their guard down when the movie gets loud hehe.
As for that being nerdy? I highly doubt it, quite the opposite infact.

I think the "kill yo self" wasn't needed please.

[SHINO]

start out as friends then get to know each other well, girls like sense a humor in a guy so hope u have dat, always listen to her talk about w/e she has to say, that's very important to girls and keep her company, u can also treat her a movie sometimes by not being a date, dat works fine, just start out a friend and get to know more about her then ur in the game son

[vengeance]

When all else fails.....fall back on plan #2.
Which is...... have someone else do the talking for you. Ask one of her friends, or have one of your friends go and ask her out for you. You can't go wrong here. Unless you don't want anybody to know, then da plan is a failure.

[SHINO]

When all else fails.....fall back on plan #2.
Which is...... have someone else do the talking for you. Ask one of her friends, or have one of your friends go and ask her out for you. You can't go wrong here. Unless you don't want anybody to know, then da plan is a failure.

that sounds like the guy doesn't have guts to ask her out, she would be not happy with dat, i don't know how this girl is but mostly girls would not like another person to the talking for him, for being a guy who really wants go out with her with out being shy, is a great start, be yourself and if she's not interested then that's it, not your type, find a right girl for you

[daniel2]

that sounds like the guy doesn't have guts to ask her out, she would be not happy with dat.

You are almost 99.9% correct there.
Mainly females love it when guys show they can take care of themselves when asking a female out. Honestly if your going to be together then its important to actually introduce yourself (if you don't already know eachother). If you do already know the girl then you absolutely must walk up to her and do it face to face, if you don't your going to be shamed. No doubt about it, it would be a good move and she'll certainly expect less from you every time afterwards.

It might be hard for some, but honestly its not like its the end of the world. Saying this the only "safe" way to get around asking a girl face to face is to come to an 'understanding' that you BOTH feel the same way about eachother and that you would both like to be in a relationship together. That way no one has to 'verbally' ask the other person, however your still actually going out.

Though I really don't know what the difference is. Any man should be able to ask another girl out.

[Kaishe]

O.O indeed I completely agree, but i wish someone could've told me that back when I was in high school =_=

[rockaknock]

Dude... all time favorite... Write a note that says
"Do you Like me?
(Circle one)
YES NO"
Works all the time, 60% of the time

[daniel2]

Ummm works never?

What about:

Write a note that says
"Do you Like me?
(Circle one)
YES YES"
Works all the time, or never.

I think you should always flirt with the girl first.

[kiziroglu]

just ask her to grab a cup of coffee, after the lunch...
when you feel the confidence, lean forward, take a deep breath, and talk to her as if he's a friend of yours... you know, the kind of talks you do with your buddies : "man, I got such a crush on this girl" talks... if she's not a problematic girl, she'll take it cool, and even if she's gonna reject you, she'll do it nicely...

good lucks! let us know about how the conversation went...

[Aur0ra]

Asking a girl out can be daunting but always remember your capable, in school most girls take out a slightly different personality to get on with or impress their friends so usually outside of school is best, you'll find that their true personality is probably alot nicer than the one they put on for school, another point is if your shy don't just go up and ask a girl if they are surrounded by a group of 20 friends there is no self esteem damager like 20 girls giggling and laughing at you, if you ever get the opportunity to talk to her privately things will go a lot more smoothly than you thought possible, even if she has one friend with her go up and say something like "Can i talk to you" the friend will usually get the gist and back off for a bit and let you be alone

So your up to the part of actually popping the invitation, it will go better if you just ask casually "If your not doing anything on the weekend, how bout a movie", don't get nervous, don't stammer, Don't hold back, speak clearly but not forcefully and yes i agree with ImI don't beat around the bush about it. if your still nervous about approaching her try to sit next to her in class, get her into a conversation and in the conversation pop the invitation, THIS is by far the best way in my opinion.

So you've got it nailed huh, date on tuesday so what do you talk about, if its dinner once you've got your orders done, ask her questions "How was your day", "What have been up to lately", don't talk about yourself if she doesn't ask most girls will NOT be impressed by how many levels you got in WOW yesterday, most of time people enjoy talking about themselves and girls will like a guy that listens (BUT ACTUALLY LISTEN, don't pretend). So your dates over and your escorting her home, now about kissing, this is the hardest thing to do but i highly recommend that on first date its a big NO NO, just ask her if she had a good time and would she want to do something else sometime.

That's about all i can help you with
Good luck.

[jiaqi]

thank you for all your help iv got alot more confidence now, well see what happens and the result hmm mabe il tell ya :em0143: but not yet :em076:

[daniel2]

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