Do she like me?

[tmmyjames]

I don't have many crushes or alot of girls, but this one girl is my second one. I met her in class. My friend was tryin to get at her and she started sitting next to my group, next to me. When he was rejected or gave up since she had a boyfriend she still sat next to me. I had no intrest in her then. We started hanging out in class and I started to kick it with her around place like my house, IMing each other, and talkin on the phone for hours then one day she came to my house til night. She trusted me and told me she had these feelings about dating other people before she met me becuase she only had one boyfriend so far. She wanted to date and chose me but everytime she would say yes she would think about it and reject me later. She told me in her mind when she is with her boyfriend somehow I pop up in there. She called me one day and told me that she doesnt know if she likes me so she decided to stay with her first love and keep me as a friend. I dont know whether she still likes me or not because she cant make up her mind about things.

[Dark_Clown]

sorry to tell u but u are only a friend most likely never anything else ...

[Rina Touin]

DC don't be harsh haha, hmm have you ever though about kissing her ? Why not try that and see if she will accept it or not, that is how you will know, most females need a little bit of out going guys, I myself like guys like these, i don't prefer shy guys. too boring :O I need someone that knows how to handle situations like these and know what they are doing, i guess it is all up to your characteristic.

[Dark Akuma]

The girl seems like she can't make up her mind. Either that,or she just sees you as someone she can confide in.

[tmmyjames]

Its true, she cant make up her mind. I remember one time where we went to go eat and she took like 10-15 minutes just to figure out what she wanted to eat. As for being shy I remember one time we were hanging out, we were sitting around a table and she was sittin next to me and she grabbed my hand for some reason and I grabbed her hand and put it on my theigh just to see what she would do. Well, she didnt smack me or get mad. Her hand was still there for like 5 seconds.

[Kenadian]

Don't bother screwing around with it anymore, it sounds like you'll only give yourself more trouble and possibly get fucked over in the end.

[ANBU]

DC don't be harsh haha, hmm have you ever though about kissing her ? Why not try that and see if she will accept it or not, that is how you will know, most females need a little bit of out going guys, I myself like guys like these, i don't prefer shy guys. too boring :O I need someone that knows how to handle situations like these and know what they are doing, i guess it is all up to your characteristic.

whaaa! im a kind of a shy person >:(, havnt u ever heard the saying "the shy ones are the worst" we are the ones that turn out more flexible in any situation that most people because if u give us something to feed off of, u might regret it xD.

but anyways to adress the topic i say try admin-san's theory though i do think it sems a bit anime-ish lol (saw something lik that in peach girl xD) try being more seductive w/ her, be more touchy feelly and then through all that build up lay her a big wet one

[Silmeria]

how about pressure....i tend to manipulate people with pressure sometimes normally it backfires 60% of times...but if it works you will be happy..its never good to put pressure on a girl but make her decide and stop beating around the bush.

[redschythe]

She called me one day and told me that she doesnt know if she likes me so she decided to stay with her first love and keep me as a friend. I dont know whether she still likes me or not because she cant make up her mind about things.

...i gues when they say if a girl see you as a friend then you'll always be a friend...
i'm in the same boat as u. she also dated one of my friend now she's hanging out with me...i prolly try to ask her out on a real date and if she said no we'll prolly stay friends.

[dragoncrusher]

well you'll just have to wait and see what happens next

[daniel2]

sorry to tell u but u are only a friend most likely never anything else ...

Your right..

DC don't be harsh haha, hmm have you ever though about kissing her ? Why not try that and see if she will accept it or not, that is how you will know, most females need a little bit of out going guys, I myself like guys like these, i don't prefer shy guys. too boring :O I need someone that knows how to handle situations like these and know what they are doing, i guess it is all up to your characteristic.

Sorry I have to agree with him. He wasn't being harsh he was actually being nice..

You should try for someone else man or do something rash to prove that you want her. It seems like your not giving her many signs that you want her back, which is why it sounds like she wont break up with her guy. You have to tell her how you feel about her in order for her not to dump her guy and then be half rejected by you.

[tmmyjames]

Yea, but what sucks is that we haven't seen or talked to each other in weeks. What do I do now?

[darkzero45]

Im or call or something and start talking.

[Silmeria]

or let it be and get another girl :D

[tmmyjames]

or let it be and get another girl :D

Its hard for me to find another girl. This is my second crush. This has been the closest I been with any girl. I don't wanna cockblock, but it looks like their relationship is shakey because they been on and off and wouldn't one get tired of each other?

[Silmeria]

Its hard for me to find another girl. This is my second crush. This has been the closest I been with any girl. I don't wanna cockblock, but it looks like their relationship is shakey because they been on and off and wouldn't one get tired of each other?
ok ill put it simple.....she leaves the guy..you get her as a gf...she still likes the guy....you ask for her love...you lose she goes back with her old bf, has a high chance of happening.
is not hard you just need to look i mean hell there is 3 woman for every man on the world i am sure you can find one.....that you dont want to make the effort is another thing.

[reminder]

I'll only repeat what others have said - forget her. It's not like she can't decide - if she couldn't, she would've stayed alone instead of going back to her current boyfriend. She chose, but it wasn't you... so there's no future for both of you. You can always try and hope for the best, but if she sees you as a friend, it'll be hard as hell to change her opinion.

[Dark_Clown]

I'll only repeat what others have said - forget her. It's not like she can't decide - if she couldn't, she would've stayed alone instead of going back to her current boyfriend. She chose, but it wasn't you... so there's no future for both of you. You can always try and hope for the best, but if she sees you as a friend, it'll be hard as hell to change her opinion.

ahh i see ...thats the nice way to tell him that he has no chance in hell and should just give up ^^

[darkzero45]

I don't think you should give up. Keep trying.

[Silmeria]

dont give up sometimes makes you a stalker or a bother for the person the fact you have happy feelings for that person doesnt mean that person take it happy.

[darkzero45]

True. If the other person starts acting like you bother them then you just talk about it though. That's what I would do.

[Dark Akuma]

I don't think you should give up. Keep trying.
Don't give the kid blind hope. That's dangerous.

[Silmeria]

True. If the other person starts acting like you bother them then you just talk about it though. That's what I would do.
wich it would leave him at the same spot...get another girl...you are gonna get rejected if she thinks you are bother now..... XD

[darkzero45]

Dark Akuma
Don't give the kid blind hope. That's dangerous.

I'm not giving him blind hope. It's a suggestion that may or may not work.

[Silmeria]

its not exactly a blind hope but still has a very low success rate so almost same thing, you are better finding a fresh girl.

[amaibiru]

Dude you have sorta the same problem as i do, i had met this girl long time ago and we were hella chill and chattin on the phone and hanging out and stuff. till she got a bf (lol) but that still didnt get me to stop liking her. well what i wanted to know is if she liked me even though she had a bf.. she said yes but shes a real commited to a relationship so she wont break up with her bf to go out with me. even though she had a bf ( i may be the bad guy in this situation) i had ask her several times if i can go over and see her. she said sure and we ended up making out and have sex. but that just made stuff worse after the bf found out.. so our relationship (friend) wasnt really working out and still isnt. we just talk off and on when were comfortable. SO ask her if she likes you or if it seems like shes ignoring you i would say forget it.. you lost but if you really like her that much and you think you may have a chance.. stick with it till you really know..

[VectorBoard]

In my experience girls who have a shakey relationship with their BF and end up breaking up, most likely they will get back to him.
Forget the girl and save yourself the heartache.

BTW asking a girl/boy is she likes you is the mother of all bad ideas, not only does it break you but you won't be able to face her/him in quite some time; specially if they're a classmate.

[tmmyjames]

Well, its over. She chosed him. School started and we have the same class. She aint talked to me in class. The next day I asked her what happened and why isnt she talking. She said she feels weird around me even though nothings happened between us. I offered my friendship and she rejected it. Yea so im done wit her. I got rid of everything that reminded me of her.

[darkJester]

mmmm, i remember those days.... as i was reading your post and all the replies i thought of a similar situation that happened to me back in the day....

not sure how old u are, but i'm assuming you're in high school or or at least around that age... n e wayz, i know its a little late, but here's my advice... she's just as confused as u are, well either that or she gets a kick out of stringing people along.... either way, if it's meant to be, it'll happen on its own, and u shouldn't stress over it too much... its best not to take things too seriously at this point in your life, just have fun with your friends and at least devote a little bit of time to your studies.... (u know for the whole future thing) having a gf is nice, but don't go out of your way to find your true love, least not at that point in your life....

my past experience was very similar to what u went/are going through right now... i even did the same thing u did after it was over, ( the getting rid of everything that reminded me of her) thing... i just can't stress enough though that u can't let this sorta thing get to u too much, things like this situation are actually more common than not in junior high, high school, and even college.... and if u take things too seriously, it'll only cause u harm, and even maybe change u for the worst....

hmmm, this may just sound like rambling from a crazy person, or maybe u might find what i said helpful, either now or maybe later on in life..... either way i felt i had to put in my 2 cents...

k thxs...

[tmmyjames]

mmmm, i remember those days.... as i was reading your post and all the replies i thought of a similar situation that happened to me back in the day....

not sure how old u are, but i'm assuming you're in high school or or at least around that age... n e wayz, i know its a little late, but here's my advice... she's just as confused as u are, well either that or she gets a kick out of stringing people along.... either way, if it's meant to be, it'll happen on its own, and u shouldn't stress over it too much... its best not to take things too seriously at this point in your life, just have fun with your friends and at least devote a little bit of time to your studies.... (u know for the whole future thing) having a gf is nice, but don't go out of your way to find your true love, least not at that point in your life....

my past experience was very similar to what u went/are going through right now... i even did the same thing u did after it was over, ( the getting rid of everything that reminded me of her) thing... i just can't stress enough though that u can't let this sorta thing get to u too much, things like this situation are actually more common than not in junior high, high school, and even college.... and if u take things too seriously, it'll only cause u harm, and even maybe change u for the worst....

hmmm, this may just sound like rambling from a crazy person, or maybe u might find what i said helpful, either now or maybe later on in life..... either way i felt i had to put in my 2 cents...

k thxs...

Hah! Yep you sure are late, but its all good. I related to your post the most. I also thought that she was confused or liked messin wit people's emotions. Im good on my end. I aint the suicidal type cuz Im too goofy to be that way and plus I drown everything out with music just until I meet another...dont know how long that its gonna take. Im still the fun goofy person before this happens.:bingo2::JFBQ00213070516A:

[ANBU]

Well, its over. She chosed him. School started and we have the same class. She aint talked to me in class. The next day I asked her what happened and why isnt she talking. She said she feels weird around me even though nothings happened between us. I offered my friendship and she rejected it. Yea so im done wit her. I got rid of everything that reminded me of her.

dont worry about it brow there a plenty more women that hav higher standards than here :bingo2:

[daniel2]

She rejected your 'friendship' even just the friendship?
Wow what a weird chick.. shes.. umm.... a bitc- honest?

[rockaknock]

Stand up in the middle of class randomly, point at her, and yell "[her name] has a stinky vagina" then sit back down...
You'll fell a hell of a lot better after the stinging sensation from the slap subsides...

[tmmyjames]

Stand up in the middle of class randomly, point at her, and yell "[her name] has a stinky vagina" then sit back down...
You'll fell a hell of a lot better after the stinging sensation from the slap subsides...

Damn, thats too far thats like goin up to her and sayin, "Bitch, I'll kill you!"....Anyway Im done with her......I think? Im movin on, but theres a part of me sayin wait for her or somethin like that.

and ANBU whadda mean by higher standards here?

[baottosai]

Stand up in the middle of class randomly, point at her, and yell "[her name] has a stinky vagina" then sit back down...
You'll fell a hell of a lot better after the stinging sensation from the slap subsides...
wew...that's will be too harsh dude.
better not do that.

@tmmyjames
thats right my bro :10:
juz forget her for now...n start going out with your fella', hiting on another girls maybe.