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*Hachi*
01-06-2008, 07:19 PM
did you lose yours to another virgin? or someone that was experienced? have you been with a virgin after being more experienced?
do you think it makes a difference?
a friend and i were briefly talking about this today.
i don't think it really matters. my first was with another virgin and then my 2nd was a virgin. Both of them had no clue on what they were doing. shit one of them still doesn't.
Discuss.
Fate Linegod
01-06-2008, 07:19 PM
I lost mine to a much older woman
well being 14 and she was 19...... thats what it felt like. She took complete advantage of me. I LOVED EVERY MINUTE
doubt she was a virgin, she rode it like a pro
did you lose yours to another virgin? or someone that was experienced? have you been with a virgin after being more experienced?
do you think it makes a difference?
a friend and i were briefly talking about this today.
i don't think it really matters. my first was with another virgin and then my 2nd was a virgin. Both of them had no clue on what they were doing. shit one of them still doesn't.
Discuss.
me and my GF were both virgins so yea i did loose it to another to another virgin. im still with my her so i guess its a no lol..
I dont think it matters as long as the moment is special to both of them.
Silmeria
01-07-2008, 12:27 AM
lost it to someone older and was like heaven well it matters if you like the person or not i believe in love its different to have sex than having sex with someone you love
SeVIIn
01-07-2008, 12:39 AM
I was a virgin, she was a virgin, then neither of us was a virgin anymore lol. It was a lot of fun but the best nights came awhile later.
daniel2
01-07-2008, 08:10 AM
me and my GF were both virgins lolso yea i didnt loose ot to another virgin. im still with my her so i guess its a no lol..
I dont think it matters as long as the moment is special to both of them.
So your still a vergin?
As for the whole "does your first fuck have to be with a vergin"
I don't think so, it has to be with the person you love.
Having sex for the sake of it is never a good thing.. Well thats just my opinion.
Sex is something you should consent to when you have a partner that wants and feels the same way. As well as your both in love.
Colino
01-07-2008, 08:32 AM
I lost mine with a girl who was 1 year older at the time, she was 16 and I was 15.
She was a virgin aswell and I was in love with her a year before that though I wan't very succesfull in hooking up with her.. After all my efforts she decided to get with me and that's how it happened.. we have been together for 3 years now and we are happily engaged.. ^^
Shikigami
01-07-2008, 10:50 AM
did you lose yours to another virgin? or someone that was experienced? have you been with a virgin after being more experienced?
do you think it makes a difference?
a friend and i were briefly talking about this today.
i don't think it really matters. my first was with another virgin and then my 2nd was a virgin. Both of them had no clue on what they were doing. shit one of them still doesn't.
Discuss.
I lost mine 2 years ago with my gf who is the same age as me. We both were virgins but not anymore ^_^. It was fun, but other times was way a lot better.
YoungMike
01-07-2008, 01:41 PM
I'm Still a Virgin but got a Virgin girlfriend and she said when the time is right I'm going to get in there and man she is thick I can't wait well I waited till I was eighteen and still waiting so yeah I guess I can wait
So your still a vergin?
As for the whole "does your first fuck have to be with a vergin"
I don't think so, it has to be with the person you love.
Having sex for the sake of it is never a good thing.. Well thats just my opinion.
Sex is something you should consent to when you have a partner that wants and feels the same way. As well as your both in love.
no no i just messed up my dam post...sigh...we lost our virginity.
and whats wrong with doing sex outta love, if its a person u love then why it should be outta love. Having sex for fun all the time is gonna get boring, because if when one day u don't feel like doing it then what are u going yo do, take out aa deck of cards and start playing gold fish? xD
ValGaav
01-07-2008, 03:39 PM
I'm Still a Virgin but got a Virgin girlfriend and she said when the time is right I'm going to get in there and man she is thick I can't wait well I waited till I was eighteen and still waiting so yeah I guess I can wait
same, except for that im 16 and my gf is 15, and just 2 more weeks, man it's longest 2 weeks for me ever xD
daniel2
01-08-2008, 04:22 AM
So your waiting for her to be legal? Why bother.. honestly. && also it sounds like you want to screw her more then you love her.
MysticEdge
01-08-2008, 11:17 AM
I must admit I regret my first time. It was rather rushed and I know it sounds sappy but it didn't feel right. I also disagree with the whole saving it though just make sure your happy with who you losing it to I suppose?
Christie
01-09-2008, 12:46 PM
It was horrible losing my virginity >< I don't think he was a virgin either.
daniel2
01-09-2008, 06:58 PM
Thats unfortunate..
redschythe
01-10-2008, 10:54 PM
i might be a little old fashioned but i'm a virgin and i would like my gf to be one too...(keep in mind i don't have one yet...:monk:)
i just think it would be nice to be in the same boat u know...
Silmeria
01-11-2008, 01:05 AM
i might be a little old fashioned but i'm a virgin and i would like my gf to be one too...(keep in mind i don't have one yet...:monk:)
i just think it would be nice to be in the same boat u know...
are you really serious or thats your mentallity because you havent got a chance?
krnxknight
01-11-2008, 01:22 AM
hmm, i lost mine two years ago. my bf and i were both virgins; it definitely wasn't something i regret...but it definitely wasn't the best sex in my life lol. i didn't mind that at all though because he's a great guy.
happier he's improved a lot. happiest that it was with me and not something you inflate.
It was horrible losing my virginity >< I don't think he was a virgin either.
/comfort
you have fun now though right?
i havent got a chance.. and i would definitely prefer a first time wid a first timer
Epacs
01-11-2008, 08:13 AM
I don't see why sex is that important...
yes obviously i'am a virgin lol
BUT why do you need to lose 'it' its called 'making love' for a reason because its an act of love, and the act of giving life (just for those who didn't know =P)
i plan on waiting till i have a stable girlfriend or even marriage from the christian side of me
redschythe
01-11-2008, 08:51 AM
are you really serious or thats your mentallity because you havent got a chance?
i guess maybe its because I've been friend with the girl i like for too long...i just don't see her as sex machine...anymore
darkzero45
01-13-2008, 01:35 AM
I don't see why sex is that important...
yes obviously i'am a virgin lol
BUT why do you need to lose 'it' its called 'making love' for a reason because its an act of love, and the act of giving life (just for those who didn't know =P)
i plan on waiting till i have a stable girlfriend or even marriage from the christian side of me
What's that? I think I see sensible words!(not that I haven't seen a few already)
I think there's three stages of it. Fucking, Having Sex, and Making Love. The latter is the best I would imagine. I've only had sex, I haven't made love yet. Whether your partner is a virgin or you are or whatever the hell it doesn't matter. What's important is that you do it. Either for love or cause it's human nature.(as is, we need to reproduce)
Vader
01-14-2008, 02:32 PM
For me, it doesn't make a difference a virgin or not. What's the point anyway?
But some people consider it as their fetish, so they wouldn't mind do some virgin hunting in prostitute place and willing to pay a lot for a night with a virgin.
Lol anyway ... ;>
Silmeria
01-14-2008, 06:08 PM
i guess maybe its because I've been friend with the girl i like for too long...i just don't see her as sex machine...anymore
you never see them as sex machines...since sex is something that both enjoy so both gain something out of it :P.
Sparkemus
01-15-2008, 12:12 PM
So your still a vergin?
As for the whole "does your first fuck have to be with a vergin"
I don't think so, it has to be with the person you love.
Having sex for the sake of it is never a good thing.. Well thats just my opinion.
Sex is something you should consent to when you have a partner that wants and feels the same way. As well as your both in love.
I agree I think you should love each other before sex and both should be ok with it.
Me myself Ive never really had a girlfriend or boyfriend (and yes I'm bi) I've never gone so for as a kiss maybe its because I'm alway told "your a really nice guy I'm happy your my friend" :sic: but hay I'm happy with my life most of the time but I do believe its good to share that life with someone.
Suigintou
01-15-2008, 08:30 PM
I lost mine to a much older woman
well being 14 and she was 19...... thats what it felt like. She took complete advantage of me. I LOVED EVERY MINUTE
doubt she was a virgin, she rode it like a pro
LUCKY. Ugh, I HATE BEING IN AN ALL BOYS SCHOOL!:em033:
daniel2
01-18-2008, 07:29 AM
LUCKY. Ugh, I HATE BEING IN AN ALL BOYS SCHOOL!:em033:
Owned.. lulz.
Kitami-chan
01-23-2008, 12:33 PM
Lost it to an older, more experienced person.
zatanaslover
01-28-2008, 01:04 AM
Both virgins. We hooked up after hanging out for a looong time. Lots of heavy groping and near nakedness and doing practically everything but led us to have a decent clue to what we were doing.
I don't think it matters overall if you're looking for a loving connection. If you're looking for a good lay and that's it, it only matters if you like *ahem* "taking advantage" of a virgin.
rockaknock
01-28-2008, 01:37 AM
My virginity was taken when I was raped by...
my right hand... jokes.
I feel bad about it but I lost it to one of my best friend's ex-gf... I was ashamed afterward I told my friend what had happened... and I found out the reason they broke up was that she was saving it for "that special someone"...
I guess that makes me "special"...:XD:
Silmeria
01-28-2008, 01:49 AM
My virginity was taken when I was raped by...
my right hand... jokes.
I feel bad about it but I lost it to one of my best friend's ex-gf... I was ashamed afterward I told my friend what had happened... and I found out the reason they broke up was that she was saving it for "that special someone"...
I guess that makes me "special"...:XD:
or she was just horny......or did it to make your best friend mad....who knows.
rockaknock
01-28-2008, 01:56 AM
Aww... there goes my hopes and dreams...
daniel2
01-28-2008, 09:40 AM
or she was just horny......or did it to make your best friend mad....who knows.
OH SHI--
The truth hurts..
No ssrly. Thats harsh. But funny none the less. :maikka:
I want it to be with the girl who I am in love with now, though I have mixed thoughts on it really. I kinda don't know seeing as we are 'just friends' now. But if she comes over again, (which she most defiantly will) many orgasms are to be had, and she'll beg me for it once again.
kiziroglu
01-28-2008, 04:35 PM
why would it matter, as long as your relationship won't be built on casual sex...
Silmeria
01-29-2008, 02:01 AM
why would it matter, as long as your relationship won't be built on casual sex...
thats what we call love at first glance.....two horny people calling it love.
rising crescent
02-01-2008, 01:57 AM
For me, it doesn't make a difference a virgin or not. What's the point anyway?
But some people consider it as their fetish, so they wouldn't mind do some virgin hunting in prostitute place and willing to pay a lot for a night with a virgin.
Lol anyway ... ;>
no...
I think its very important.
because we must know Life through about the girl will be selected by us.
what do you feel when your girl betray behind you.....without You never know it
what are you gonna do when everything become big mess...
you must know we cannot give Loading task to them..
Trusting is one most important things between neverending couples...
I believe it does matter, you should at least care or trust the person enough to be able to share that experience with them.
I don't care myself whether I lose mine to a virgin or non virgin. Of course I would prefer a fellow virgin for comforts sake so I don't feel like a complete loser or something. But I could easily lose it to a non virgin just would be a bit more awkward then it already is.
~SPIRIT~
02-09-2008, 10:05 PM
did you lose yours to another virgin? or someone that was experienced? have you been with a virgin after being more experienced?
do you think it makes a difference?
a friend and i were briefly talking about this today.
i don't think it really matters. my first was with another virgin and then my 2nd was a virgin. Both of them had no clue on what they were doing. shit one of them still doesn't.
Discuss.
Well to be honest I've yet to check the V-Card.... unfortunately. Some chicks probably think that this is showing how "good" you are. I don't want to be labeled as "straight edge" especially since I don't do drugs/smoke/drink. I don't to be labeled as bad, but I want to have some bad tendecies lol
What to do.... -___-
Slayden
02-10-2008, 01:56 AM
I don't care myself whether I lose mine to a virgin or non virgin. Of course I would prefer a fellow virgin for comforts sake so I don't feel like a complete loser or something. But I could easily lose it to a non virgin just would be a bit more awkward then it already is.
My advice is read. And read. And read. Read all about the ins and outs of it (lol) so that your first time isn't so awkward. Of course there is a difference between being book-smart and actually experienced, but it can still go a long way, which is a hell of a lot better than being totally clueless.
My advice is read. And read. And read. Read all about the ins and outs of it (lol) so that your first time isn't so awkward. Of course there is a difference between being book-smart and actually experienced, but it can still go a long way, which is a hell of a lot better than being totally clueless.
Well it's not that it would be awkward because of my inexperience, just stuff like that makes me really nervous. I just need more confidence in myself... :abandoned2:
daniel2
02-11-2008, 12:57 AM
Don't we all. At least your not over confident.
Slayden
02-11-2008, 02:01 AM
It's a fine line that gets thinner as women age. When they're young, being a jerk is a quick way to get a girl, but when they're in their 30's, you need to have the confidence paired with being alluring and kind to get them. Women in their 20's fall somewhere in-between, but will still fall for the guy that is confident and alluring without being a jerk.
kpoeira
02-11-2008, 03:01 AM
im 16 lost my virginity last year, with my ex gf, she was a virgin too, havent had sex with another woman except her until now
It's a fine line that gets thinner as women age. When they're young, being a jerk is a quick way to get a girl, but when they're in their 30's, you need to have the confidence paired with being alluring and kind to get them. Women in their 20's fall somewhere in-between, but will still fall for the guy that is confident and alluring without being a jerk.
Wow, I don't even know what to say!! I'm a woman myself, and I ALWAYS look for men who don't behave like childish jerks and are intelligent. Maybe many of the women are like you describe them, but certainly not all! That's why I'm still a virgin, I look for older men who don't behave like kids anymore. But since dating older men would be kinda "wrong", I'll just wait a few more years ;P.
Slayden
02-13-2008, 08:10 AM
No not all women are like that, but many are. Women cling to confident men, and unfortunately, this desire for a confident man is confused with attraction to arrogance and jerks. This is especially common among girls that come from broken homes, or the opposite and have been isolated throughout their childhood.
And when you refer to older men, just how much older are you talking?
Flying Piggy
02-13-2008, 08:41 PM
I'm still a virgin not that I'm waiting or anything it's more just a no one I really like is around here and what not. -_-
emersedsin
02-16-2008, 11:18 AM
come to think of it, is there a way for us guys to cause none or little pain when taking they're virginity? im curious cos as far as i know, there first time is all pain to the girl. Still does until after a few times i think...
Slayden
02-16-2008, 06:21 PM
Lots of foreplay. And I mean LOTS of it. I mean 1-2 hours of it. You want the vagina to expand and become so flexible that there is little pain upon penetration. And before actually penetrating, give her oral until just before she cums, then a moment before she cums, penetrate her. What little pain she may feel will be washed away in pleasure.
daniel2
02-16-2008, 06:32 PM
Just give her Oral, and she'll love you for ages. Then you can have sex.
kiziroglu
02-16-2008, 06:36 PM
wanna learn about those, go ask your father! It was my father who gave me all required knowledge.