Convincing girl to anal

[Fate Linegod]

Edit: DAMN, someone hacks my Account and making thread like this...?!
Oh geez, and I just realized this just NOW...?

Dammit.

[Rina Touin]

If she doesn't want it , don't force it, I am not a fan of anal at all, it seriously hurt a lot. Other females might find it hot but most, I am sure, they don't like it, unless there is a lubricant then again if she doesn't want to do it, you can't really force it because it will hurt if she doesn't have the desire to do it.

[daniel2]

Why exactly do you want anal from her?
Also have you had sex with this female before? Like penis-to-vagina penetration. Because if your convincing a "friend" to let you fuck her anally (sp?) and you haven't even had regular sex yet then your a bit out of your depth. As for anal sex I would have to think that it would be pretty painful.. So yeah don't force her. Theres really nothing you could say or do to convince her otherwise really.

[*Sniper*]

I've never had this problem, since my girlfriend is completely comfortable with Anal. And it's so awesome. She wants it in the ass more than in her pussy even. Guess you gotta butter her up first if you know what I mean. Also, pull out the "You won't get pregnant if we do it like this..." card on her and see what she says.

[Yukina]

You shouldn't have to convince a woman to do anything she doesn't want to do.

Try something that she is into and you will find the experience enjoyable for both of you.

If you still want anal, go and find a gay hooker [Only registered and activated users can see links]

[alucinor]

I dont have a girlfriend :th_SadPuppyEyes:

[Rina Touin]

I dont have a girlfriend :th_SadPuppyEyes:

Blow up doll? :)/8:

[ElderKain]

Just say, "at least u won't get Knoked up" lol.
I did that, and a girl I knew went along with it, lol

:monk: :monk: :monk: :monk: :monk:

[Rina Touin]

Just say, "at least u won't get Knoked up" lol.
I did that, and a girl I knew went along with it, lol

:monk: :monk: :monk: :monk: :monk:

I can clearly see threw you!! haha

[Shikigami]

My politic in this case is simple. Man should give pleasure to woman not a pain. If she don't want it just do it in her way. And she is happy you should be happy too if you truly love her but if you not then it's a different story...

[SeVIIn]

Lol good luck with that. If she really doesn't want to do it you shouldn't try and push it or you will just screw everything up. Like meme said its a lot more fun if you find something both of you enjoy. But if you do end up doing it make sure you go real slow at first and use a lot of lube.

[temoaroar]

give her a sleeping pill:em0129:a strong one:JFBQ00208070428A:she will go along with anything:em001::hahaha:

[krnxknight]

Blow up doll? :)/8:
I love you!

My suggestion is this, be sure to use lube and don't ask for oral afterwards

[daniel2]

If you still want anal, go and find a gay hooker [Only registered and activated users can see links]

+1

Nothing further

[Christie]

If she doesn't want it, don't do it. Seriously, it's that simple. I *like* anal, it's a fetish of mine, but most people DON'T like it. If you are fully aware that it isn't pleasant for her then you shouldn't be trying to convince her. That is selfish of you.

[Rina Touin]

If she doesn't want it, don't do it. Seriously, it's that simple. I *like* anal, it's a fetish of mine, but most people DON'T like it. If you are fully aware that it isn't pleasant for her then you shouldn't be trying to convince her. That is selfish of you.

I had some chat with someone i know *Not mentioning any names!* about anal few month ago but for me it just hurts so bad. My friend said "it is ok , decent but she didn't like it much , not worth it" , other say they like it. U sure it was pleasant the first time you try it Christie ?

[Christie]

I had some chat with someone i know *Not mentioning any names!* about anal few month ago but for me it just hurts so bad. My friend said "it is ok , decent but she didn't like it much , not worth it" , other say they like it. U sure it was pleasant the first time you try it Christie ?

Arika! *licks*

Oh yes. Very <3 But it's a fetish...the feeling that your partner wants to fuck you so bad he doesn't even want to wait...just slide your skirt up and fuck you from behind...that is very hot. It's the idea that's exciting, not the experience itself. As all fetishes are :)

But hey, I'm a weirdo :P

[Rina Touin]

Arika! *licks*

Oh yes. Very <3 But it's a fetish...the feeling that your partner wants to fuck you so bad he doesn't even want to wait...just slide your skirt up and fuck you from behind...that is very hot. It's the idea that's exciting, not the experience itself. As all fetishes are :)

But hey, I'm a weirdo :P

No you're not haha! <33 Well it is fetish i know, but hmm lets put it that way, did you enjoy it when you felt a little bit of pain ? Or you didn't feel any pain at all !

[Christie]

No you're not haha! <33 Well it is fetish i know, but hmm lets put it that way, did you enjoy it when you felt a little bit of pain ? Or you didn't feel any pain at all !

It hurts a bit. Just ask your partner to be slow putting it in, and savor it. Feel the cock sliding in, filling your ass, and savor that. It is definitely hot. The rest is just pleasing your partner. I get a kick out of that.

The way I see it, I do something for you, you do something for me. I like my breasts fondled, I ask them to go down on me, I ask to be on top, etc. It's a give and take game :3

[daniel2]

Sounds like Christie has a lot of fun...

As for the anal.. I did some research and it says here:

In 2006 a survey was conducted to see if females would ever consider "oral sex" with their partners. 29% Yes 51% No 20% If they would give me something in return.

So I think if the thread starter wants to possibly give her girl anal he should offer her something non painful later on.

[wbz115]

u cant be no little boy when it comes to that shit vato, you gotta show her your a man and just sneak that shit in. ay

[wbz115]

(*edit* double post)

[Kenadian]

u cant be no little boy when it comes to that shit vato, you gotta show her your a man and just sneak that shit in. ay

Er...no. No surprise buttsecks, that may actually get you arrested...

[Fappy]

Er...no. No surprise buttsecks, that may actually get you arrested...

Surprises are the best, just simply *miss*.


Hell I've only had about four girls tell me no anal. I've been with 50 women exactly, and 3 men. For me, I think the secret is this. Mention it, then if she says no - talk about how you liked it with some other girls. It incites jealousy and hatred towards other females for her, so she "attempts," most of the time to simply please you for your sake.


Also, if she says no. Remember, there are more women than men in this world. Your odds of finding one that won't say no are high. Her odds of finding someone who isn't a total jerk/complete asshole are very slim. So try to compromise, find something she likes..... And go from there. My girlfriend likes to get on top alot, but she likes it better when I do things in different positions and pick her up, stuff like that.


And she knows I like anal, so she tosses me a bone every now and then and I happily take it. ;)


For me, anal hurts with a guy. Doesn't mean I can't enjoy it myself though! :JFBQ00213070516A:

[shougo]

In my experience it takes a little while to get a girl to concider it if at all. If the girl says no, I drop the matter. If she says she'll think about it, I give her time to do so. For a lot of girls in my situations they're mainly afraid of it hurting so I go slow and if they say to stop I do so.

If your "friend" considers to do anal do things to please her while you're doing it. Ask her if there is anything she really likes and do it. If she's being pleased then she'll pay more attention to that than to if she's hurting or not.


But like I said, if she says no then just drop it.

[Agnus]

its bad >< pleasure only goes for the guy :O dont you think?

[Aplus]

It appears to be pretty damn painful.

[daniel2]

I bet its damn painful!

[Slayden]

I can't believe my first post is in this thread...

It seems to me that very few people know how to perform anal correctly. Girls, you should feel absolutely NO pain AT ALL when receiving anal. Arika, you, and even you Christie, are doing it all wrong. The pain is obvious evidence of that. Christie, you sound like you're getting close, but you shouldn't be feeling any pain in the least. It's all about foreplay, technique, and leading up to it. It's so sad to hear about a woman who had a painful experience with anal, especially if it was her first time.

Hmmmmmm.....
I'd show you how it's really done if we were using the same computer... [Only registered and activated users can see links]

The advice of "take it slow" is scant and rather misleading. I'll give a quick tutorial on how it should really be done. And no snickering. We're all adults here; well, most of us are. If you're underage veer your innocent (HA!) eyes away from this post, even though by telling you this, I'm just giving more incentive for you to read on.

How to give a woman PAINLESS anal (Ugh, my first goddamn post)

Okay listen up, 'cause you are about to receive a little "ejumacation". ;) ;) First off I want to say that there will be no penile penetration the first couple of times. Four or five of these sessions, however, should suffice to prepare a woman to receive a penis there, so be patient. Good things come to those who wait.

Guys, the cock's little sister, the clitoris, is your friend. Treat her well and all your fantasies will come to fruition, no matter what they may be. Keep this in mind throughout your undertaking, or better yet, keep this in mind period. To start, begin as normal with a lot of foreplay to get her in the mood. 45 minutes or so should be good, or however much time you usually take to get her aroused. Lots of kissing, lots of rubbing, messaging, and nibbling... Actually, foreplay techniques deserve it's own tutorial, but that's another topic. Basically, do what you have to to get her really really, wet, softened up, breathing hard, bouncing off the walls, and doing that sexy unconscious habit of undulating her hips in different directions.

After giving her oral for a while (oral is par for the course; I'm rather shocked that some members don't think it is), get your lube and spread it over her butthole. Get a latex glove, put it on, and lube up one of your fingers. The roughness of the inside of the fingers on a bare hand can cause soreness after a while despite the lube.

Now just trace circles around the hole with your finger pressing very lightly. Have her keep a regular, deep breath pace too since it will help significantly. Another key is to have her "push" out or down as though she's having a bowel movement. Trace far on the outside of the hole then trace your way closer to the entrance, then trace your way out again. Do NOT stick it in at all at this point, and especially don't poke. This is called anal rimming. Do it a lot the first few times you experiment with anal. For the first few times, this is best done on her back with her knees up to her shoulders so that her pussy is in a convenient licking position.

Shortly after, you should see a surprising size difference as she will "wink" at you a lot at first. The expansion and contraction of her butthole will become increasingly infrequent and slow down over time. Once she stops winking at you, the hole will expand more and more only a little bit at a time. When her anus stops expanding on its own, rim your finger closer and closer to the entrance. It's a good idea to have a vibrator in her vagina at this point so that you can see what you are doing while keeping her stimulated.

This is where we will begin the penetration. Continue rimming to her entrance and finally press against her hole with the flat of your finger, not the tip. Poking her with the tip of your finger is uncomfortable, possibly make her seize up and you'll have to go back to rimming for a while to loosen her up once again. Perform a light, gentle message against the hole, then do a little rimming again, then go back to the center and press *slightly* harder. Go back to rimming and return to the center again pressing slightly harder again, but now don't do any more rimming unless she begins to seize up.

Keep your finger there, applying constant pressure, and you should see her butthole expand a little more in a kind of "reverse wink." You might need to remind her to keep breathing as well. Your finger should slip in with ease, but don't go any further than the first digit. Curl your first digit a little and put tension against her anus by pulling straight out, but don't pull your finger out of her. You've "hooked" her anus and are lightly pulling against it. This should be pleasurable to her.

Begin a small rimming motion, but don't go any more than a few millimeters in any direction. In fact, vibrating your finger or pressing a vibrator against the palm of your hand is a good idea. When she cums from the vaginal vibrator, take the opportunity to slip your finger up to the second digit mid-orgasm.

Viola! You've done it! And no pain at all. It's best to leave it at that the first time, the second time work up to two fingers maybe three (and also experiment with soft thrusting), the third use a small toy, and the fourth time a penis. If you are a well-endowed guy, you'll have to continue to use larger dildos each session until she can comfortably fit your penis in her butt. Personally I had to wait for round seven on my girlfriend before I could even attempt it with my penis. But hey 7 is the golden number right? Why does the movie Goldmember come to mind all of the sudden? Anyway, have fun exploring.

Oh, and when she gets used to it, assume doggy-style and stab downward with your penis in her butt. You'll press her vaginal wall against her g-spot and can even give her g-spot orgasm this way. ;) You can do this vaginally instead of course, but it's a different experience both mentally and physically. There's just something... lusty, and primal, about making a woman cum from anal. It's hard to describe.

One last thing. You're satisfying a sexual desire, not making a conquest. Treat her well, not as an object. She may be yours, but she is not your property.

[Darkest]

It appears to be pretty damn painful.
I bet its damn painful!

It IS painful! Geez! How would you feel if you had a cock up your butt. >_<

As for this thread -> :onion10:

[Junior666]

Slayden, wow. Just wow.

You know what you're talking about.

But Anal is just not my thing. It's so...just no.

[Dexter32]

Slayden got a Point there. With a little Patience and alot of Sensitivity, Analsex can be good for both Partners. BUT...where is the Sense in doing it, if one of the Couple completely rejecting it?

Don´t embarass your Girlfriend by trying to persuade her to do it.

[Slayden]

How to give a womon PAINLESS anal

I misspelled "woman." :em0113: And in a title no less. :em0143:


It IS painful! Geez! How would you feel if you had a cock up your butt. >_<

Didn't you read a word in my post? Do you know how long it took to type that?? IT'S ONLY PAINFUL IF YOU DO IT WRONG! Damn...

As for this thread -> :onion10:

You know, it's only from Japanese anime that I even found out about the nosebleed reaction. I've never even heard about that going on in the States here or in Europe. Is that a reaction that only Asian guys have?

Slayden, wow. Just wow.

You know what you're talking about.

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But Anal is just not my thing. It's so...just no.

*singsong* You don't know what you're missing...

Some girls think that it's "dirty" or it's "just not made for that." Well, under normal circumstances, you're right, just as mouths were not made to fondle the genitals of either sex. Many women have gagged from having too much dick pushed to the back of their throat, and many guys' tongues and lips have gotten sore from too much pussy licking. Again, it's all technique. Do it improperly and somebody's going to hurt.

As for the hygiene issue... You go to the bathroom using the front, but still like that area pleasured. You clean your vagina well in the shower right? It's a simple thing to move move the soap a little further back and clean that area too.

Don´t embarass your Girlfriend by trying to persuade her to do it.

Depends on how you present it. And I'm not talking about "striking deals." This is love and sex, not accounting. *holding his head* I could just see it. "Okay on Saturdays we do anal. In return I fondle your breasts on Tuesdays and go down on you Thursdays. And every other Wednesday it's girl-on-top. On Mondays you give me a blowjob and Friday is my dreaded whips-and-chains day where you get to do anything to me because you know how much I like anal on Saturdays. And Sunday is a day of rest away from this ridiculous schedule."

Like I said, it's in the presentation. In fact don't even mention it in a flat, deadpan conversation because it is more likely that you will get a "no" from her without her even trying it once. You need to be sexy guy. Sultry and romantic, working your way up to it, and technically not even asking.

This is, in my opinion, the best way to present it:

Slide your arms around her waist and deeeeeeply kiss her. Cradle her. Hold her. Give her lots of attention, shower her in love, and pour it on thick. Keep your body pressed against hers at all times save for the few moments it takes to remove an article of clothing. Now go into a long foreplay session. I like to go 45 minutes to an hour. And remember: passion, passion, passion. Keep it intense. Make it a profound experience (as always).

When you're both nude and she's flashing those wicked-looking eyes (she might, in fact, have been flashing them for some time by now), make your bodies somewhat parallel. A perfect example is having her in the missionary position and you laying on your side next to her. Have her legs bent and spread with her upper back laying in one of your arms (like you're holding her), your genitals on her hip, and your other hand on her pussy. Kiss her and keep fondling her, but stretch one finger and make your way lower, pressing the palm of your hand against her pussy while your finger begins to rim her anus. As you do this, whisper in a sultry voice in her ear "I want to try something." She'll more than likely understand what you mean, but if she wants some clarification, don't say anything. Just look in her eyes, smile kindly, and briefly vibrate your finer against her anus, preferably with your thumb against her clit too.

Anal rimming is pleasurable for both sexes, regardless of whether or not you ultimately intend to penetrate. Present it like this and she will be so horny that she'll be far more willing to consider it than in flat, passionless conversation.

Instead of keeping a record of who's done what for who, just go with the flow and do what comes natural. Be willing to do most or all of the things that you might think you need to "deal" on, rather, be willing to do it on the spur of the moment. But most of all, HAVE FUN.

[daniel2]

Hmm maybe Slaydens girl has a big ass? I have no idea. But unless you used some sort of lubrication a lubricated condom and a bit of foreplay aswell as you didn't stick it too far in I don't think it would be any good for the girl. Even if she feels no pain I doubt it'll still feel nice for her.

[Slayden]

Hmm maybe Slaydens girl has a big ass?

She's not my girl anymore. We broke up over a love triangle a while back and I was the odd man out.

Anyway, she was actually very small. And I mean all over. She was 5'1", less than 100 pounds, and proportionate to her size; I'm 6'4" and proportionate to my size (though a bit skinny). Everything, and I stress everything about her was tiny. LOL I still remember her scarred reaction when we first got undressed... *sigh*

But unless you used some sort of lubrication a lubricated condom and a bit of foreplay aswell as you didn't stick it too far in I don't think it would be any good for the girl. Even if she feels no pain I doubt it'll still feel nice for her.

Lubrication, condoms, and foreplay are all part it. My first post addressed this.

Initially, it just feels odd to her, but after a few more sessions, it does feel good. It gives a different sensation than clitoral stimulation or vaginal penetration. In my case, I put vibrators in her butt the first few times while doing her vaginally. Now THAT felt great for both of us. It got her used to having something in there while getting her off at the same time. Later she didn't need any direct vaginal stimulation to get her off from behind, only the anal stimulation itself, though it takes a bit longer.

So to answer your post, yes it does feel nice for her. But the key element here is patience.

[Junior666]

*singsong* You don't know what you're missing...

Some girls think that it's "dirty" or it's "just not made for that." Well, under normal circumstances, you're right, just as mouths were not made to fondle the genitals of either sex. Many women have gagged from having too much dick pushed to the back of their throat, and many guys' tongues and lips have gotten sore from too much pussy licking. Again, it's all technique. Do it improperly and somebody's going to hurt.

As for the hygiene issue... You go to the bathroom using the front, but still like that area pleasured. You clean your vagina well in the shower right? It's a simple thing to move move the soap a little further back and clean that area too.



Well yeah...but it just sounds scary, even if you say it's not supposed to hurt.
You and your damn logical thinking. >.>:em0129:

[Slayden]

lol

Sounds like you need to be sweetly talked through it if you decide to try it out.

[Junior666]

And I'll have to be seriously bribed and showered with gifts.

=)

[EviL]

And I'll have to be seriously bribed and showered with gifts.

=)

I'm not hearing a no. :em056:

But yeah, I don't think you should have to convince her to do anything if she wants to do it, it will come natrually without begging and reasoning. Just let her decide, don't push it just present the facts I suppose.

[Slayden]

Ack! Read my second post in this thread! You don't have to beg or reason, and presenting it in a deadpan conversation can be a real turnoff.

"Uh, hey baby. Yeah, I uh-- I wanna have butt sex with you."

Pfft. The reaction is rather predictable in most cases.

The best time to talk about bedroom stuff you want to try with your partner is in bed, either during the peak of foreplay or just after sex during the afterglow of orgasm(s).

[ska121]

my suggestion would be if you love...hell if you like your girl, don't even try. the problems that can arise out of anal sex far out way the 10 seconds of joy that might be had (incontinence, and having your girl's asshole fall our really aren't that sexy)

[Slayden]

Incontinence from anal is a myth.



What? I don't think you need an explanation for this one.

[ska121]

"Q:
Is anal sex dangerous? Can it cause damage to your body?



A:
This is a complicated question to answer as there are many people for whom anal intercourse is a regular and enjoyed sexual activity. But it is medically risky behavior nevertheless, even if condoms are used as a barrier for STDs.

The anal sphincter muscle is not anatomically designed to comfortably admit external objects--it is designed to relax and stretch when stimulated internally by rectal fullness from stool. The automatic reflex is for it to contract and tighten when pressure is applied externally. So relaxation of the sphincter for external penetration is learned over time because otherwise it is very uncomfortable, and must only be done with gentle continual pressure, and lots and lots of lubricant. The risks, even with gentle insertion, are laceration of the anal tissue, and rectal mucosa, resulting in pain, bleeding, and difficulty passing stool comfortably.

Any presence of blood can potentially expose the insertive partner to bloodborne STDs like Hep. B, Hep. C, and HIV. In addition, exposure to stool can result in urethral infections in a male insertive partner.

The receptive partner is at more risk for contracting STDs if there is trauma (even microscopic) to the anus or rectum due to the potential presence of virus in semen, if ejaculation takes place in the rectum. Human papilloma virus also is likely to be spread anally due to this trauma to the anal and rectal tissue, and some of the most difficult persistent HPV infections we see are chronic anal warts, both external and internal to the anal sphincter and they are exceptionally difficult to treat, often requiring surgery to remove.

Aside from the traumatic and infectious risks, there is the risk of sphincter tone (tightness) loss over time due to repeated dilation for insertive intercourse. Many receptive partners experience stool incontinence (leaking of stool or poor control) when they have anal sphincter tone decrease. This, needless to say, is very bothersome and uncomfortable and has to be surgically corrected if it becomes chronic.

Lastly, there is increased risk of spreading gastrointestinal pathogens through anal contact--whether it is bacterial infections like salmonella or E. Coli, or parasitic infections like Giardia.

The bottom line (pun not intended) is that having anal sex is a form of sexual expression enjoyed by some people, and that involves potential discomfort and risk to both partners.

~The Doc"



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[EviL]

Well their is always risks having any type of intercourse. But I do agree with the post for the most part that it is a dangerous act and could cause dramatic repercussions for both participants.

[p00ner]

slayden posts are spot on, anal can be a nice experience even for the girl.
Me and my ex both enjoyed it allot, It even made her cum.

So to all of you saying it will hurt allot, you're wrong! It only hurts when she is not mentally and physically ready for it.

TO those saying it could be dangerous, yeah walking down the street could be dangerous too.
The chances of tearing the skin with anal sex is almost 0 when done right.

[Slayden]

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You know, I have a Harvard Medical textbook that is the thickness of three stacked Bibles, and it is all written in small print. Skimming through this easily read little pamphlet, you begin to see the numerous conditions that can afflict the human body. But there is a section that can serve as excellent example for the point I'm going to make. This section regards the birth process.

Reading through a normal birth, it appears to be painful, but bringing a new life into this world seems well worth it. As I continued reading, however, I saw nearly everything that could go wrong during childbirth. Ripping/tearing, premature ruptures, abnormal presentation, episiotomy, Cesarean Section, etc., etc. can sound like scary words, and rightly so, because a LOT can go wrong with childbirth, and pregnancy sounds worse because there are even more conditions that can develop with both or either mother and child. After reading all of that, at first it sounded to me like having kids just wasn't worth it, but one of the things the textbook also mentions is just how uncommon any of these things are.

On paper, these medical conditions sound scary and seems like one should avoid the unnecessary for fear of developing an unwanted or painful condition. But in practice, these consequences are very rare, affecting only a few people. To bring this down to anal sex, the preceding statement from "Doc" regarding the dangers of it's practice failed to mention a few things. STDs can be transmitted through normal intercourse as well as anally. OF COURSE you are supposed to use lube. Use a condom. Anal warts is a strain of genital warts, which can be passed on through normal intercourse. And incontinence usually only develops among those who practice anal fisting and other bizarre forms of extreme rectal stretching (like wine bottles, footballs, Mack trucks, and other things that shouldn't go in there).

All in all, if you play it smart, anal sex is a very enjoyable form of sexual pleasure. Thousands of people die every year in car accidents, and nearly all are from incompetent drivers. Does that mean you should never step into a car, despite the training and instruction you have been given?

[ska121]

while it is true that you could be hit by a car walking down the street, that is out of your control, while engauging in anal intercourse is a choice that you and your partner make and comparing anal sex(a choice made by you and your partner) and walking down the street, having stray bullet hit you in the face and taking you out(not your choice at all) is kinda, well silly...now if s/he has no problem with, much later in life, having his or her asshole fall out(really the worst case there and while it may never happen, really do YOU want to engauge in any kind of activity where your anus FALLS OUT of your body? hum do you?) or have poo stains in their undergarments, then that is between you and your partner, all i was trying to do is inform people of what can (and really most likely will) happen if they engauge in said activity.

as to the q&a that i used as reference, the "Doc" guy wasn't being asked about vaginal intercourse or oral sex, he WAS being asked about the complications that can come from anal intercourse directly.


far be for me to tell you how to live your life....really i don't care one way or the other, but you should still know the risks that are involved, that is really all i was trying to do

[Slayden]

while it is true that you could be hit by a car walking down the street, that is out of your control, while engauging in anal intercourse is a choice that you and your partner make and comparing anal sex(a choice made by you and your partner) and walking down the street, having stray bullet hit you in the face and taking you out(not your choice at all) is kinda, well silly...

You might be able to use that ridiculous example in response to p00ner's scenario of a car hitting you while walking down the street, but you can't do that with mine. Cars are more likely to hit other cars than to hit pedestrians, yet you can avoid most collisions if you drive correctly.

now if s/he has no problem with, much later in life, having his or her asshole fall out(really the worst case there and while it may never happen, really do YOU want to engauge in any kind of activity where your anus FALLS OUT of your body? hum do you?) or have poo stains in their undergarments, then that is between you and your partner, all i was trying to do is inform people of what can (and really most likely will) happen if they engauge in said activity.

The pot calling the kettle black. You cite an extremely unlikely example to discount p00ner's scenario, yet you cite an extremely unlikely example yourself to avoid anal sex. Besides, you utterly ignored this statement of mine:
And incontinence usually only develops among those who practice anal fisting and other bizarre forms of extreme rectal stretching (like wine bottles, footballs, Mack trucks, and other things that shouldn't go in there).
I was serious about the fisting and wine bottles, but I was joking about the footballs and Mack trucks. There are people that do some really crazy things to their bodies, and it's no wonder that they develop medical issues. But to use the consequences of inane behavior as a platform to argue against something that can be engaged in moderation is in and of itself, in your words, "silly" (though I prefer "nonsensical").

[ska121]

listen, all i was trying to do is point out the POSSIBLE dangers that COULD be involved in anal sex, but what i find really interesting is your lack of concern. if the shoe were on the other foot, and there was a small chance that you could get bacterial infection in your urethra and your penis would fall off because of it, would you continue to have anal sex?

[EviL]

listen, all i was trying to do is point out the POSSIBLE dangers that COULD be involved in anal sex, but what i find really interesting is your lack of concern. if the shoe were on the other foot, and there was a small chance that you could get bacterial infection in your urethra and your penis would fall off because of it, would you continue to have anal sex?

I already don't like the idea of anal sex and the facts you stated just make my dislike for it even more valid.