darkzero45
01-05-2008, 08:23 PM
Is anyone masochistic? I'd like to know if there's anyone besides me. I don't know many ppl that are.
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ANBU
01-05-2008, 08:31 PM
lol usually when i think of those kinds of people i think of them not knowing how to be able to how have sex properly and just relying on pain as pleasure, lol so that rules out the chance of me being a masochist
darkzero45
01-05-2008, 08:37 PM
Well.... I know how to have sex properly. I don't rely on pain as my pleasure all the time. Pain is pleasing for the most part for me. I also like pleasure that isn't pain. So, I guess you could say I'm not completely masochistic.
daniel2
01-05-2008, 09:33 PM
Yeah you could call me a masochist. Everyone knows how they like sex, but for me the pain has to come when I am not having sex. Because if it does while I am then it gets annoying and sorta in-the-way.
For me its really only mass biting or things like that, I don't want to end up with scars on my body.
I see alot of people who sorta enjoy the same things here..
For me its really only mass biting or things like that, I don't want to end up with scars on my body.
I see alot of people who sorta enjoy the same things here..
darkzero45
01-05-2008, 10:26 PM
Same. I like when I get bitten on the neck mostly but not just the skin. It it's just the skin then it hurts a bit. It has to be a bigger bite. No teeth piercing my skin though.
daniel2
01-05-2008, 10:27 PM
I'm cool with a girl biting my neck until it bleeds quite a bit..
Other then that some hard bondage is nice pain.
Other then that some hard bondage is nice pain.
darkzero45
01-05-2008, 10:32 PM
I haven't really done anything that's bondage. With the bleeding, I like it not caused by biting, but, by a razor, or needle. (like the pins that you use when sewing to hold things together. i can take on that's this long:
+------------------> actual size, and put it into my arm horizontally all the way up to the head.) When I bleed, I let someone clean it up for me, or, if there's no one else, I'll do it.
+------------------> actual size, and put it into my arm horizontally all the way up to the head.) When I bleed, I let someone clean it up for me, or, if there's no one else, I'll do it.
daniel2
01-05-2008, 10:34 PM
Just don't scar yourself kay?
And don't bleed to death...
And don't bleed to death...
darkzero45
01-05-2008, 10:39 PM
I won't. And if it bleeds too much, I clean it up and stanch it. After it stops, I put peroxide on it and put a band aid or something on.
miyu333
03-28-2009, 03:39 AM
many people dont acutally call themselves a "masochist" because it has been badly publicised in things like family guy..... but i dont care they make fun of everything. Im totally into pain, its my major turn on. usually light through out and a little heavy mixed in. I do bondage and i would like to do cutting but my partner doesnt want to.
Vegeta Himura
03-28-2009, 04:14 AM
I'm more on the light end of the masochistic spectrum. I have some masochistic tendencies, but they aren't very strong.
Though I love biting and being bitten. Especially on the neck. A big help to that is that I like to consider myself a vampire, but eh. Only because humanity sucks. ^_^
Though I love biting and being bitten. Especially on the neck. A big help to that is that I like to consider myself a vampire, but eh. Only because humanity sucks. ^_^
yusa yuuichi
03-28-2009, 09:24 AM
same thing as the guy above
except the vampire thing
except the vampire thing
Taser
03-28-2009, 02:52 PM
Errr, interesting. for me, I need gentle handling lol. the only time someone is allowed to get a bit rough, is if I start getting a bit rougher.
dkeehoe
03-28-2009, 07:34 PM
I'm not but my gf tends to bite T.T
Pike
03-28-2009, 09:11 PM
I am a Sadist.
miyu333
03-28-2009, 10:07 PM
I am a Sadist.
yah! exactly what the rest of us need! someone who feels the reverse! :inlove2:
yah! exactly what the rest of us need! someone who feels the reverse! :inlove2:
hesqueliata
03-28-2009, 10:35 PM
minor sadist. gunna be hard for you to get me to cut you... ugh
anyone else think sadist is used too generally? I mean, I'm into a little bondage (tying, not being tied) but that puts me in the same group as some random serial killer who gets off on strangling people? there should be a tier system...
discomfort tier((me) bondage, toying,tickling)
owner tier(casual sub/dom play, (me to a slight extent))
blood tier( minor cutting, ect)
danger tier(nooseplay, serious sub/dom relationships, shit that could kill your partner)
insane tier (stuff that's MEANT to kill the partner)
any improvement ideas?
anyone else think sadist is used too generally? I mean, I'm into a little bondage (tying, not being tied) but that puts me in the same group as some random serial killer who gets off on strangling people? there should be a tier system...
discomfort tier((me) bondage, toying,tickling)
owner tier(casual sub/dom play, (me to a slight extent))
blood tier( minor cutting, ect)
danger tier(nooseplay, serious sub/dom relationships, shit that could kill your partner)
insane tier (stuff that's MEANT to kill the partner)
any improvement ideas?
mikoxkikyo
03-29-2009, 12:24 AM
well there are different types of masochism i myself am not into giving myself any type of physical pain but i have been called an emotional masohist because i always go back to old relationships that i know im going to get hurt but still do it anyways. so in a sense i subconsicienly like being under emotional pain
Tenshi Sins
03-29-2009, 02:46 AM
I think I'm a little sadist caus sometimes I really say bad things to other people on purpose to make them suffer.*slaps herself*I know it's a bad thing...
And another proof is that when I was small I liked tying up my dolls like they were tortured,xDD.Don't think it counts though.
And another proof is that when I was small I liked tying up my dolls like they were tortured,xDD.Don't think it counts though.
NightSwan
03-29-2009, 07:00 AM
Kind of.
I like bondage... Nothing to extreme for me, but I enjoy it being a bit rough.
I like bondage... Nothing to extreme for me, but I enjoy it being a bit rough.
Vegeta Himura
03-29-2009, 02:00 PM
Funny how this thread used to be dead..... Yay for Necrophilia!!
(Not really. :P I'm just a fan of Cradle of Filth. More of desensitized to it. :P)
(Not really. :P I'm just a fan of Cradle of Filth. More of desensitized to it. :P)
Mojoe
03-29-2009, 04:16 PM
Does masochism only have to do with getting joy from pain during sex? Getting handcuffed is a form of masochism right? So should be all forms of bondage. Bondage doesn't hurt at all.
OT: Tried a little candle wax once. Was a really big shock so haven't tried any sensation methods since. I don't really enjoy getting tied up either, makes me feel helpless. My wife thinks I respond wilder while tied up. But I'm going to have to answer no. Never tried anything extreme because I don't know what to do. I am looking for information on extreme stuffs in this category.
If anyone is an 'expert' at this, mind sharing some knowledge and methods my way?
OT: Tried a little candle wax once. Was a really big shock so haven't tried any sensation methods since. I don't really enjoy getting tied up either, makes me feel helpless. My wife thinks I respond wilder while tied up. But I'm going to have to answer no. Never tried anything extreme because I don't know what to do. I am looking for information on extreme stuffs in this category.
If anyone is an 'expert' at this, mind sharing some knowledge and methods my way?
miyu333
03-29-2009, 06:12 PM
Does masochism only have to do with getting joy from pain during sex? Getting handcuffed is a form of masochism right? So should be all forms of bondage. Bondage doesn't hurt at all.
OT: Tried a little candle wax once. Was a really big shock so haven't tried any sensation methods since. I don't really enjoy getting tied up either, makes me feel helpless. My wife thinks I respond wilder while tied up. But I'm going to have to answer no. Never tried anything extreme because I don't know what to do. I am looking for information on extreme stuffs in this category.
If anyone is an 'expert' at this, mind sharing some knowledge and methods my way?
I dont know that anyone is an expert but i can give you some ideas if you want. its hard to be extreme without bondage but some common less extreme things are whipping and paddling, pinching even like clothespins especially on thee chest, for some people anal works because it can be more painful...
OT: Tried a little candle wax once. Was a really big shock so haven't tried any sensation methods since. I don't really enjoy getting tied up either, makes me feel helpless. My wife thinks I respond wilder while tied up. But I'm going to have to answer no. Never tried anything extreme because I don't know what to do. I am looking for information on extreme stuffs in this category.
If anyone is an 'expert' at this, mind sharing some knowledge and methods my way?
I dont know that anyone is an expert but i can give you some ideas if you want. its hard to be extreme without bondage but some common less extreme things are whipping and paddling, pinching even like clothespins especially on thee chest, for some people anal works because it can be more painful...
Mojoe
03-29-2009, 06:57 PM
I dont know that anyone is an expert but i can give you some ideas if you want. its hard to be extreme without bondage but some common less extreme things are whipping and paddling, pinching even like clothespins especially on thee chest, for some people anal works because it can be more painful...
I'm not trying to hurt her or get hurt. Cloth pins sound so painful. Any ideas that doesn't involve pain?
I'm not trying to hurt her or get hurt. Cloth pins sound so painful. Any ideas that doesn't involve pain?
PaulRotterdam
03-29-2009, 07:24 PM
I'm not trying to hurt her or get hurt. Cloth pins sound so painful. Any ideas that doesn't involve pain?
You could try bondage and then feathers, tickling is a strong sentation.
I am a (mild) spanker, but could not find in my relations a willingly spankee...
That's one of my bummers in relation-live.:kaiasu03:
You could try bondage and then feathers, tickling is a strong sentation.
I am a (mild) spanker, but could not find in my relations a willingly spankee...
That's one of my bummers in relation-live.:kaiasu03:
dkeehoe
03-29-2009, 07:36 PM
having sex in a public place...like a public bathroom, library, etc is exciting
but for me, i wouldn't think bondage or whipping :1:would be satisfying
but for me, i wouldn't think bondage or whipping :1:would be satisfying
miyu333
03-29-2009, 10:35 PM
one thing we do is instead of bondage you cant get out of yourself we use a pair of play handcuffs so its a medium feeling. you can still relese yourself if you feel you need to but still have that slight bondage affect. what i do is i tell him if he takes them off i will tickle him and he has a reason to keep them on. its just a different way and can become very playful plus the handcuffs release underpressure so you dont get hurt.
hesqueliata
03-30-2009, 01:40 AM
I'm not trying to hurt her or get hurt. Cloth pins sound so painful. Any ideas that doesn't involve pain?
simple bondage, like what i'm into. bondage doesn't need to hurt. I've heard that if you buy some good cotton rope and are careful, you won't even have to worry about ropeburn.
just don't tie it too tight, and keep it simple untill you know both parties like it. then you can go for more complex stuffs.
I can post a pic showing some steps for non-restrictive bondage, if you want...
simple bondage, like what i'm into. bondage doesn't need to hurt. I've heard that if you buy some good cotton rope and are careful, you won't even have to worry about ropeburn.
just don't tie it too tight, and keep it simple untill you know both parties like it. then you can go for more complex stuffs.
I can post a pic showing some steps for non-restrictive bondage, if you want...
Naynay102090
03-30-2009, 03:05 AM
I haven't really done anything that's bondage. With the bleeding, I like it not caused by biting, but, by a razor, or needle. (like the pins that you use when sewing to hold things together. i can take on that's this long:
+------------------> actual size, and put it into my arm horizontally all the way up to the head.) When I bleed, I let someone clean it up for me, or, if there's no one else, I'll do it.
I know this is old but, me personally I love biting and drinking blood. I also love being bitten and having my blood drank. I have used razors and I used to be a cutter. I only did it cause I like the pain. Yeah I'm weird.
+------------------> actual size, and put it into my arm horizontally all the way up to the head.) When I bleed, I let someone clean it up for me, or, if there's no one else, I'll do it.
I know this is old but, me personally I love biting and drinking blood. I also love being bitten and having my blood drank. I have used razors and I used to be a cutter. I only did it cause I like the pain. Yeah I'm weird.
Mojoe
03-30-2009, 12:54 PM
having sex in a public place...like a public bathroom, library, etc is exciting
but for me, i wouldn't think bondage or whipping :1:would be satisfying
Sometimes we make love at her office. although the door is locked it should count right? Think I'd be too nervous to try it in any place more public than that.
simple bondage, like what i'm into. bondage doesn't need to hurt. I've heard that if you buy some good cotton rope and are careful, you won't even have to worry about ropeburn.
just don't tie it too tight, and keep it simple untill you know both parties like it. then you can go for more complex stuffs.
I can post a pic showing some steps for non-restrictive bondage, if you want...
We use handcuffs every once in awhile. Never tried anything with ropes. A picture with steps would be perfect. Share it if you can. Thanks!
I know this is old but, me personally I love biting and drinking blood. I also love being bitten and having my blood drank. I have used razors and I used to be a cutter. I only did it cause I like the pain. Yeah I'm weird.
It's more exotic than weird, to me anyway. I dream of being more exotic and having bedroom techniques that people never even imagined. but I squirm easy S=.
I'm envious
but for me, i wouldn't think bondage or whipping :1:would be satisfying
Sometimes we make love at her office. although the door is locked it should count right? Think I'd be too nervous to try it in any place more public than that.
simple bondage, like what i'm into. bondage doesn't need to hurt. I've heard that if you buy some good cotton rope and are careful, you won't even have to worry about ropeburn.
just don't tie it too tight, and keep it simple untill you know both parties like it. then you can go for more complex stuffs.
I can post a pic showing some steps for non-restrictive bondage, if you want...
We use handcuffs every once in awhile. Never tried anything with ropes. A picture with steps would be perfect. Share it if you can. Thanks!
I know this is old but, me personally I love biting and drinking blood. I also love being bitten and having my blood drank. I have used razors and I used to be a cutter. I only did it cause I like the pain. Yeah I'm weird.
It's more exotic than weird, to me anyway. I dream of being more exotic and having bedroom techniques that people never even imagined. but I squirm easy S=.
I'm envious
Kenpachi God
03-30-2009, 12:56 PM
if any 1 has seen my album on the site they have seen my masochistic pics of me cutting my self so yeah i don't do it to get my jollies off it's a coping mechanism
miyu333
03-30-2009, 08:33 PM
if any 1 has seen my album on the site they have seen my masochistic pics of me cutting my self so yeah i don't do it to get my jollies off it's a coping mechanism
If you just use it as a coping mechanism then you are just a cutter not a masochist. masochism has to do with a sexual perversion.
If you just use it as a coping mechanism then you are just a cutter not a masochist. masochism has to do with a sexual perversion.
hesqueliata
03-30-2009, 09:20 PM
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here's the instructional pic on non-restrictive bondage, as requested. I can probably find examples of stuff in my stash, if you wanna see something just ask and i'll look-gives me something to do other than mope:dark:
here's the instructional pic on non-restrictive bondage, as requested. I can probably find examples of stuff in my stash, if you wanna see something just ask and i'll look-gives me something to do other than mope:dark:
Mojoe
03-30-2009, 10:19 PM
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here's the instructional pic on non-restrictive bondage, as requested. I can probably find examples of stuff in my stash, if you wanna see something just ask and i'll look-gives me something to do other than mope:dark:
That's what I'm looking for, Thank you!. If you have any more and got some time, please share them. Pm me them if you don't want to post here.
here's the instructional pic on non-restrictive bondage, as requested. I can probably find examples of stuff in my stash, if you wanna see something just ask and i'll look-gives me something to do other than mope:dark:
That's what I'm looking for, Thank you!. If you have any more and got some time, please share them. Pm me them if you don't want to post here.
hesqueliata
03-30-2009, 10:44 PM
I made a post in /r/ on 4chan, and BEHOLD! someone delivered!
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Rabcor
03-31-2009, 12:11 PM
errrrrrrrr pleasure in pain ? hmmmmmmm... would be useful for me to be able to do that :P since pain can happen to me randomly on thursdays, tuesdays and saturdays if i bother to go on saturdays that is... unless it only works the way if you're torturing yourself... thats no good then =C anyways masochists shouldn't cut themselves and beat themselves... let others do the job and go for martial arts ! you'd be the best !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! enjoying to get the crap beaten out of you i mean an opponent like that in a wring (wrestling, muay thai, boxing, whatever) would be scary ! so go masochists !!!!!!!!!!! i'd always bet on the masochist *nods*
pgbig
03-31-2009, 02:06 PM
there is a huge... HUGE difference of being a masochist a a person that mutilates them selfs
right of the bat i am a masochist, and also a bit sadist, but there are some extreme cases i want to be far away...
when some one mutilates them selfs, is a sign of depression and a real disturbance on their mind,
people that uses blades to cause serious wounds are really problematic people and i would recommend them to see a doctor...
for me is biting, leather, wax, ropes, and few other minor things, nothing to violent that could really hurt a persons body...
personally if you are using a blade to cut yourself, i would recommend a doctor, but it is up to you what you do with your self
right of the bat i am a masochist, and also a bit sadist, but there are some extreme cases i want to be far away...
when some one mutilates them selfs, is a sign of depression and a real disturbance on their mind,
people that uses blades to cause serious wounds are really problematic people and i would recommend them to see a doctor...
for me is biting, leather, wax, ropes, and few other minor things, nothing to violent that could really hurt a persons body...
personally if you are using a blade to cut yourself, i would recommend a doctor, but it is up to you what you do with your self
Naynay102090
03-31-2009, 02:51 PM
errrrrrrrr pleasure in pain ? hmmmmmmm... would be useful for me to be able to do that :P since pain can happen to me randomly on thursdays, tuesdays and saturdays if i bother to go on saturdays that is... unless it only works the way if you're torturing yourself... thats no good then =C anyways masochists shouldn't cut themselves and beat themselves... let others do the job and go for martial arts ! you'd be the best !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! enjoying to get the crap beaten out of you i mean an opponent like that in a wring (wrestling, muay thai, boxing, whatever) would be scary ! so go masochists !!!!!!!!!!! i'd always bet on the masochist *nods*
Actually Martial Arts is nothing compared to what some people do. When I used to cut I saw a therapist, and she suggested I go into Martial Arts. So I did and I was the only girl, so I was actually treated like one of the guys. Honestly in martial arts to me it was nothing compared to a razor blade. The only two things that ever hurt me while I was in martial arts was the healing cuts on my arms, and the one thing that ended my martial arts career getting hit by a car.
Actually Martial Arts is nothing compared to what some people do. When I used to cut I saw a therapist, and she suggested I go into Martial Arts. So I did and I was the only girl, so I was actually treated like one of the guys. Honestly in martial arts to me it was nothing compared to a razor blade. The only two things that ever hurt me while I was in martial arts was the healing cuts on my arms, and the one thing that ended my martial arts career getting hit by a car.
Naynay102090
03-31-2009, 02:59 PM
there is a huge... HUGE difference of being a masochist a a person that mutilates them selfs
right of the bat i am a masochist, and also a bit sadist, but there are some extreme cases i want to be far away...
when some one mutilates them selfs, is a sign of depression and a real disturbance on their mind,
people that uses blades to cause serious wounds are really problematic people and i would recommend them to see a doctor...
for me is biting, leather, wax, ropes, and few other minor things, nothing to violent that could really hurt a persons body...
personally if you are using a blade to cut yourself, i would recommend a doctor, but it is up to you what you do with your self
Believe it or not, most doctors where I live totally dismiss anyone who cuts with a razor blade, they do this because it is soo common now a days. However they do look at where the person is cutting and how deep, if it is a very vein filled area such as your wrist close to your hand. Then they intervene, however if it's further down the arm where the veins aren't as visible and the cuts aren't deep, only deep enough to bleed then they pretty much leave you alone. The reason why I know this is because I've had friends who have cut their wrist deep enough for stiches and have been locked away in a Psych hospital on several occasions. Where as with me the crisis intervention person gave my legal guardian a chose at the time she said do you want to send her or no, because the cuts aren't deep nor are they in an area that is cause for concern. So I stayed home.
right of the bat i am a masochist, and also a bit sadist, but there are some extreme cases i want to be far away...
when some one mutilates them selfs, is a sign of depression and a real disturbance on their mind,
people that uses blades to cause serious wounds are really problematic people and i would recommend them to see a doctor...
for me is biting, leather, wax, ropes, and few other minor things, nothing to violent that could really hurt a persons body...
personally if you are using a blade to cut yourself, i would recommend a doctor, but it is up to you what you do with your self
Believe it or not, most doctors where I live totally dismiss anyone who cuts with a razor blade, they do this because it is soo common now a days. However they do look at where the person is cutting and how deep, if it is a very vein filled area such as your wrist close to your hand. Then they intervene, however if it's further down the arm where the veins aren't as visible and the cuts aren't deep, only deep enough to bleed then they pretty much leave you alone. The reason why I know this is because I've had friends who have cut their wrist deep enough for stiches and have been locked away in a Psych hospital on several occasions. Where as with me the crisis intervention person gave my legal guardian a chose at the time she said do you want to send her or no, because the cuts aren't deep nor are they in an area that is cause for concern. So I stayed home.
hanyou-elf
03-31-2009, 07:17 PM
i am a masochist. i hate hurting people no matter what, and i love to have my lovers hurt me. i find incredible pleasure from being beaten, from being bitten, from being made to endure pain. there's an elegance and a sensuality that comes from pain that can't be gotten from anything else. i have a hard time finding lovers who are up to the task of sadism, simply because they have an innate apprehension to the idea of s&m. it's something that comes along with being part of the BDSM world, but unfortunately, there aren't that many people involved in it where i am.
the one thing that always bothers me though is the assumption that people who are masochists are automatically self-abusive.
the one thing that always bothers me though is the assumption that people who are masochists are automatically self-abusive.
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