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Do you Ladies think its ok to date a guy that is younger than u?...like around 3-5 years younger or more....
I think a lot of the ladies decisions will depend on the actually ages are we talking teens still or 20's 30's type deal?
I think a lot of the ladies decisions will depend on the actually ages are we talking teens still or 20's 30's type deal?
around the 20's and 30's
ryoko_neo
01-02-2008, 07:03 PM
Well...for girls under the age of 30 I would say most like to date older men. Though once they hit fifty and such the younger the better.
I would love to date an older woman, not like 40 years and higher (no offence) but lik around 20s-30s im 16 btw :monk: though i doubt that would happen to me in a million life times
dragoncrusher
01-02-2008, 10:31 PM
i prefer to date girls younger then me around 10-15
i prefer to date girls younger then me around 10-15
LMFAO!!! umm dude... im not talking about drawn girls if thats what your thinking, and if thats not what your not thinking sbout i fear the worst for the girl ._.
Silmeria
01-03-2008, 01:44 AM
its ok to date younger + older woman nowdays preffer young is not rare to see a 35-40 year old woman with a 25 year old man, i think i read somewhere that at the 30's woman start to get more horny (sexual appetitte starts)
playkid
01-03-2008, 07:10 AM
i think its normal nowadays
Darth_FT
01-03-2008, 07:16 AM
i prefer to date girls younger then me around 10-15
around 10???....mhh kay...
Shikigami
01-03-2008, 11:38 AM
i prefer to date girls younger then me around 10-15
OMG! 10... I don't have what to say...
I prefer girls about the same age as me.
dud3meister
01-03-2008, 12:29 PM
If dragoncrusher doesn't have perverted intentions and plans to have relationships with abstinence, I don't see why 10-15 is wrong. Love doesn't depend on age after all. In due time they will reach the 20s-30s where it doesn't matter anymore (at least by society's standards)
Anyways I prefer 1-3 years older then me.
its ok to date younger + older woman nowdays preffer young is not rare to see a 35-40 year old woman with a 25 year old man, i think i read somewhere that at the 30's woman start to get more horny (sexual appetitte starts)
lol they reject us when they like 20 but when they hit 35 and above thats when they start wanting younger men.
Silmeria
01-03-2008, 03:18 PM
lol they reject us when they like 20 but when they hit 35 and above thats when they start wanting younger men.
not exactly reject just not interested for the moment so bassically you need to impress her or have something they like in you.
not exactly reject just not interested for the moment so bassically you need to impress her or have something they like in you.
ummm...yea...impress them u say?.....how about i dont know...lets c ENERGY the youthfull spirit of a man! isnt that a good impression?
Shikigami
01-03-2008, 04:11 PM
not exactly reject just not interested for the moment so bassically you need to impress her or have something they like in you.
Or just be yourself like me ^_^
Or just be yourself like me ^_^
lol for some reason girls who r in they're 20s arent really interested in males younger than them :\ its a mystery
3-5 NOOO HELL NO 2 is maximum 3 is way to much
but then again it depeneds on how mature the guy is
and as for me my bf is 2 years younger than me but heis way mature than I am ><
loves him ^^
Shikigami
01-03-2008, 04:38 PM
lol for some reason girls who r in they're 20s arent really interested in males younger than them : its a mystery
yes mystery for men indeed
3-5 NOOO HELL NO 2 is maximum 3 is way to much
but then again it depeneds on how mature the guy is
and as for me my bf is 2 years younger than me but heis way mature than I am ><
loves him ^^
..... i envy ur BF....[Only registered and activated users can see links]
..... i envy ur BF....[Only registered and activated users can see links]
why O_o.............
Carnage
01-03-2008, 04:50 PM
..... i envy ur BF....[Only registered and activated users can see links]
Why envy me? We love eachother and I don't really look at her age... 2 - 3 years is maximum though... ^^
:1:[Only registered and activated users can see links] u wouldnt understand it from a teenager's perspective
Carnage
01-03-2008, 04:58 PM
Just explain why.
If you don't I can't even try to understand... ^^"
Just explain why.
If you don't I can't even try to understand... ^^"
ok ok.... [sigh] ill try to mak a summary out of this..here goes..
The reason why i envy u is because im like older women or chicks my age T_T because they're just better in my opinion there is something about them that just turns mah "jackhammer" on (yes i did name it, so what... -_-'')
so yea thats pretty much it i guess
Carnage
01-03-2008, 05:13 PM
ok ok.... [sigh] ill try to mak a summary out of this..here goes..
The reason why i envy u is because im like older women or chicks my age T_T because they're just better in my opinion there is something about them that just turns mah "jackhammer" on (yes i did name it, so what... -_-'')
so yea thats pretty much it i guess
Ok then. ^^ Good luck in search of a older woman I guess. :em0129:
Don't give up and you probely will...
Just stay the hell away from mine!! :1:
Ok? :wakuwaku:
I'm 2000+ miles away from yours, i doubt that will happen[Only registered and activated users can see links]
Carnage
01-03-2008, 05:25 PM
*twitches* *cough*.... Goood! *twitches and walks away*
is something in your eye?
Silmeria
01-03-2008, 10:11 PM
Ok then. ^^ Good luck in search of a older woman I guess. :em0129:
Don't give up and you probely will...
Just stay the hell away from mine!! :1:
Ok? :wakuwaku:
are you really that jelaous? would be a shame if you are you could lose your girl for a rant like that
are you really that jelaous? would be a shame if you are you could lose your girl for a rant like that
i feel honored that an older male is threatened by me, a 16 year :wakuwaku:
Agnus
01-04-2008, 12:20 AM
depends on the feelings u have right ^^
care to elaborate on that for me?
Silmeria
01-04-2008, 12:37 AM
i feel honored that an older male is threatened by me, a 16 year :wakuwaku:
is more like when you really care for someone you love if you are unexperience you want to monopolize their time you want all the day of her for you, and that person eventually starts getting tired for not beign free, what we need to learn is our loved one have family, friends etc.... and well he seems that way unsless he was kidding(wich prob he was tottaly kidding) beign jealous over nothing kills your relationship but sometimes it helps to better it but dont overdoit.
Carnage
01-04-2008, 04:26 AM
I don't feel jealous! :1:
How can I be jealous for you?
What the heck is it with jealousy... -_-
Couldn't you see I was joking?
(That's why I did a :wakuwaku:) >_>
Geesh, why am I always taken so damn serious when I'm joking.
Cataro_666
01-04-2008, 05:02 AM
I don't feel jealous! :1:
How can I be jealous for you?
What the heck is it with jealousy... -_-
Couldn't you see I was joking?
(That's why I did a :wakuwaku:) >_>
Geesh, why am I always taken so damn serious when I'm joking.
The internet is serious business.
Silmeria
01-04-2008, 05:03 AM
I don't feel jealous! :1:
How can I be jealous for you?
What the heck is it with jealousy... -_-
Couldn't you see I was joking?
(That's why I did a :wakuwaku:) >_>
Geesh, why am I always taken so damn serious when I'm joking.
i think the same how can you be jelaous of someone who isnt even friend of your gf and lives 2000 miles away XD
Carnage
01-04-2008, 05:10 AM
Right... I'm off with jokes... -__-
Screw you. -__-
Sv3nt3k
01-04-2008, 05:54 AM
I'd much rather date a girl my age, but my window at this point in time is around 2 - 3 years, both ways.
>< stop teasing my bf *get a dagger*
Silmeria
01-04-2008, 04:48 PM
>< stop teasing my bf *get a dagger*
his fault for beign so easily teasing.
Right... I'm off with jokes... -__-
Screw you. -__-
ummm is that directed towards me?
daniel2
01-05-2008, 10:07 PM
It doesn't matter.. I would say tho honestly. At 10 - 12 (meaning from her 10th birthday to the end of her 11th year alive) that girls are not capable of knowing what a true relationship has in store for them. Not to mention they are too young for pleasurable sex.
Sorry if any of you females disagree with me.
As for me I would never date anyone older then 18. Perhaps not sleep with anyone older then 17... maybe 18... and never go out with anyone younger then at least 13 and a half.
Any guy that goes too far and dates girls like 6 years younger i.e (17 Year old male with an 11 year old girl) they have something wrong with them, obviously they couldn't been seen in public.
Shikigami
01-06-2008, 04:14 AM
Any guy that goes too far and dates girls like 6 years younger i.e (17 Year old male with an 11 year old girl) they have something wrong with them, obviously they couldn't been seen in public.
I completely agree with you. For my and my gf we are almost the same age, but in my country is a little bit a mess.... For example i always see in newspapers that some rich guy just married a woman 20 or even 30 years younger than him... I know thats probably just for money but it just doesn't seem normal to me. And with young people the same thing...
It doesn't matter.. I would say tho honestly. At 10 - 12 (meaning from her 10th birthday to the end of her 11th year alive) that girls are not capable of knowing what a true relationship has in store for them. Not to mention they are too young for pleasurable sex.
Sorry if any of you females disagree with me.
As for me I would never date anyone older then 18. Perhaps not sleep with anyone older then 17... maybe 18... and never go out with anyone younger then at least 13 and a half.
Any guy that goes too far and dates girls like 6 years younger i.e (17 Year old male with an 11 year old girl) they have something wrong with them, obviously they couldn't been seen in public.
lol i only feel comfortable dating girls 1 year younger than me, because if they're too young it feels like im dating my little sister :\
Shiki
01-07-2008, 02:52 AM
Hmm...well, going from my experiences i'd have to say around 3 years difference. The max would be 21, min of 15. The oldest gf I had (she was 21 at the time..and I was 14) broke my heart and I kinda turned away from older women relationship-wise. Because of my age at the time, maybe I should have seen such a thing coming but *shrugs* oh well. Is ze past. My current girlfriend is 15 and I love her very much, and things between us are running very, very smooth. IDK I like younger girls more. (especially as just friends, I enjoy talking with them about just random stuff, whatever comes up, you'd be surprised lolz) I will be turning 19 on the 21st of this month & it'll be a 4 year difference between us soon so, preference subject to change O.o And uh...for others I say, "Whatever floats your boat." ^_^
daniel2
01-07-2008, 08:12 AM
Hmm...well, going from my experiences i'd have to say around 3 years difference. The max would be 21, min of 15. The oldest gf I had (she was 21 at the time..and I was 14) broke my heart and I kinda turned away from older women relationship-wise. Because of my age at the time, maybe I should have seen such a thing coming but *shrugs* oh well. Is ze past. My current girlfriend is 15 and I love her very much, and things between us are running very, very smooth. IDK I like younger girls more. (especially as just friends, I enjoy talking with them about just random stuff, whatever comes up, you'd be surprised lolz) I will be turning 19 on the 21st of this month & it'll be a 4 year difference between us soon so, preference subject to change O.o And uh...for others I say, "Whatever floats your boat." ^_^
Well as long as you love her... I would say that 18 > 15 is still a little to young to be together but like Misuzu said (I think it was her) you love who you love.
Geekozoid
01-07-2008, 02:31 PM
The standard formula for avoiding the creepiness factor is [Your Age]/2 +7. So if you're 30, then 22 is the youngest you can go without looking like a dirty old man/woman.
For me, the formula would say 24, but honestly, 25 and below kinda gives me the ick at this point.
daniel2
01-08-2008, 04:19 AM
That sounds like a formula that could work. < 40
wrathblight
01-08-2008, 02:19 PM
around here there's actually quite a few couples where the female is 2-3 years older than the male, so i guess it's pretty normal