(girls only) Tell me what u think

[Fyucku]

Women aren't attracted to men

Women are not actually attracted to men. There is a vague idea of what a man is physically, and some are better than others aesthetically speaking, but the purely physical appearance of a man is almost inconsequential unless he is horribly ugly or outrageously attractive.

Women are attracted to status, money, how much a man smiles and laughs, how many friends and resources a man has, how full a man's life is--how many "cool," "exciting" and prestigious things he is doing or connected to.

They are interested in how other people view him--how many people want to be around him, how other people interact with him and whether their interactions convey that he is special and amazing. They want him to be extremely outgoing and aggressive, they want him to demonstrate his status over other people by dominating them in various non-violent ways.

A woman's attraction to a man is a function of her jealousy at the thought of another woman having that man. She doesn't care who he actually is or EXACTLY what he looks like physically, she only cares about the VALUE of the life he has constructed around himself.

A woman basically is a greedy materialistic prostitute. Although that sounds vulgar, it's true. She trades her physical self to buy into the success a man has created for himself.

As a man, I fall in love with how a woman is physically. I fall in love with simple parts of a woman. Like the way her hair falls around her face, the line of her neck, her shoulders. They way her ears might peek from her hair. Her eyelashes. The size and shape of her hands, her fingernails. The way she walks, the way she looks when she is tired or annoyed, the sound she makes when she sneezes, coughs, or cries. The way she sits in a chair. The way she breathes while experiencing different emotions. The way her lips move. A million little things.

Sure, a huge part of my attraction is mental, but the powerful seed of love that builds within me and crystallizes is based greatly on visual things that set off torrents of emotion and need.

It seems to me that women almost cannot think for themselves. Their estimates of worth are based on other peoples' estimates of worth. They don't really find an object beautiful on their own. The object becomes beautiful when other people let her know that it is beautiful.


I'm completely unable to reconcile the differences between men and women. It seems like success with women is equal to spending half of your life working to create a giant illusion, something vastly tiring and annoying, while sacrificing your own true self and your own interests. We construct our lives around nest-building. We're like male birds building nests and showing them off to attract mates. It's pathetic. Everything we do is to get women. It is a fucking shit deal.

Someone needs to invent a drug which has no hormonal imbalance side-effects but is able to erase a man's sex drive and attraction to women. It would increase productivity rates to incredible heights. I'd be free and happy. I'd feel complete. I'd be able to concentrate on my biochemistry studying.

Note: i didn't write this, but I would like to see what u ladies think about it. Some of the info given here I do agree with but not all of it.

Please give me an honest opinion. :em020:

[playkid]

so u said girls r heartless?

[Fyucku]

so u said girls r heartless?

No of course not, i didn't write this.
I just wanted 2 know what girls thought about it

Maybe they are:JFBQ00208070428A:

I wonder why there weren't much replies.......:kukukuh:

[Rina Touin]

I don't really care about what is said in that thread ^ I am who I am. Simple.
The person who wrote this is a nerdy btw :3

[dragoncrusher]

so your saying, that woman are heartless?! well im a man, but i will have to disagree with this, well, yah i support woman as well as men, but woman have right too. and some may say that woman use their sex appeal to attract and escape problem. still most woman do have their right and their own choice they follow.

[toak]

ionno what to say except duh

men are physically attracted to women, then after that personality comes into play

women are attracted to a man's ______ whatever it may be from money to status to personality to whatever. physical attraction is almost at the bottom of the list (yeah unless ur drop dead ugly or something). and yes, women are attracted to personality, but note that it doesn't say "good" personality, it certain types of personalities

[Fyucku]

I don't really care about what is said in that thread ^ I am who I am. Simple.
The person who wrote this is a nerdy btw :3

Glad i didn't write it XD

[Fyucku]

so your saying, that woman are heartless?! well im a man, but i will have to disagree with this, well, yah i support woman as well as men, but woman have right too. and some may say that woman use their sex appeal to attract and escape problem. still most woman do have their right and their own choice they follow.

I agree:em041:

By the way, im not saying this some LOSER is
Just wanted your opinion

[dragoncrusher]

i may not be a girl but i know how girls feel, and most men may not be able to see deep with in a girls heart like i do :), its a strange ability i have.
so yah, only judge a girl by their heart that is if you know what they are thinking deep in their heart

[ZephyrBlack]

Wrong gals are not being heartless but if she do not see you as a guy worth her attention then you do not see her too often but keep your friendship. just look for someone who have the same interest as you and it will workout but sometimes gals are playing hard to get, so do not give up.

like they say, till the wedding bells, I will try my best to woo her. if she say no, so what.

love is not fussy but the person who looking for love are fussy.

[temoaroar]

seems like a pretty conceited assumption about women.more like an analysis of a personality of one person

[ryoko_neo]

Well I find myself a helpless romantic...When I fall for a guy I fall hard, loving everything about them...I do admit that some women are after status but, hey all girls are different.

[daniel2]

No thats stupid, while I know that I look really good (: the majority of my previous girlfriends have told me they either:

A) Like how a guy is IN THE SACK! more then anything else.
B) Like how romantic the guy is more then anything.
C) Don't give a hoot really about what the look like, unless they are really ugly.
D) Don't really care about their age unless its waaay older or waaay younger.

I could go on

The guy who wrote that garbage is a troll.

[Pablo]

I think that man who wrote first post is absolutely right! That also explains to me, why my GF is so excited when some girls are jealous about me. She likes that like hell xD

[Zechti]

i think whoever wrote that is an arrogant sexist bastard.

please excuse the language but that is the truth.

[zerox]

i think about 95% of it is not true i think some parts are

.....................it was geek how never had a girl friend in his life

[Talyana]

yes of curse, girls heartless and cold, we play with guys and think man have only a authority in this world for make money and us happy =3

[G-Tank]

yes of curse, girls heartless and cold, we play with guys and think man have only a authority in this world for make money and us happy =3

i knew it ....

[goldensun695]

You got that right mate ^_^ You hit the mark!!!:shoot2:.
Some are heartless at least.....

BTW fcyuku, the more you deny you posted this message, the more i get suspicious. By continuing to deny that you wrote it constantly, you are condemning yourself.
Be honest and tell the world " I DID IT!!!!! SO WHAT!!!!! BRING IT ON PPL".

[vaporized]

look what i found..

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there is a wise commect...sounds very very reasonable to me :P


Ever notice the female sense of humor is purely political?? If she likes that person, all of his humor is funny, no matter how silly or unfunny. If there is no personal connection, it is impossible for the female to find it funny (3 Stooges?) No matter how funny guys find the 3 Stooges (VERY!!) women see NO humor in them; no personal connection!! Laughter in a female is a way of expressing personal approval, not humor!!!

Wow if this is true...I have to face some people with this :P

[Prplrabbit]

I actually wasn't even going to respond b/c that is so ridiculous but I have to b/c of the same reason. Who wrote this? It would seem like a guy who was totally hurt by a woman that was w/ him for the reasons listed. The woman described in that diatribe makes up a small percentage of gold digging and heartless women out there. It's definitely not something you can apply to all women. As Zechti said, the guy is a sexist bastard.
BTW I find the 3 Stooges very funny.

[vaporized]

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its from there

[Allithus]

you know this article might be quite accurate 500 hundred years ago, but the human races have changed much, so now days it's only applicable to a tiny tiny proportion of the population

And more importantly the guy who wrote this got dumped.

[vaporized]

you know this article might be quite accurate 500 hundred years ago, but the human races have changed much, so now days it's only applicable to a tiny tiny proportion of the population



Seriously...this is stupefaction, bullshit. Or do you have proof? lol...no offense...

[Allithus]

I'm just saying that in ages past, people were more simple minded and there was social structure which puts males on top, and didn't give females much power. Now days people are way more complicated or simpler. I'm just saying that this article reflects the old social structure.

I'm not saying i'm supporting nor against this article

[vaporized]

I'm just saying that in ages past, people were more simple minded and there was social structure which puts males on top, and didn't give females much power. Now days people are way more complicated or simpler. I'm just saying that this article reflects the old social structure.

I'm not saying i'm supporting nor against this article

We don't know such things about the "old social structure". It's impossible.

[SharonValerii]

I find the implication that a being attracted to a person (and not his wealth/power) means being physically attracted rather offensive. Being attracted to a person, in my book means finding a compatible temperment, personality, and sense of humor. Looks are nice, but let's face it, once you get old, you're all ugly.

Yes, men are more visually cued than women, This does not mean that men are solely visually cued, or that women pay no attention too looks. That's a horrible exaggeration. Even with greater attention to physical appearance, men don't neccesarily choose based on looks, or consider looks firts among a women's attributes. Plenty of guys I know have "must be a nerd/otaku/gamer" as the first on their list for what they want in a girl.

Power is attractive to everyone, not just women. Plenty of men will be attracted to a woman who has wealth and influence as well.

[Taser]

ohhhh if i ever find who wrote that, his ass will be on his face before he can say, "holy mother of jesus shes gonna kill me." this guy obviously knows jack shit about girls. probably doesnt get out much and writes this to justify his own failure with women.

[BurningSoul]

Now , such idiots bring shame upon the male part of the population . It's pretty clear he got dumped , or worse - he never got to be with a woman : /
Other than than he deserves what Taser said : d

[goldensun695]

Its cases like these that make me uncertain about trusting girls, if such a terrible traumatic experience could cause a person to develop such ideas then who knows if it'll happen to one of us one day. I sympathize with the person rather than outright flame him like most ppl here. Who is to know whether such a thing will happen to any one of us.

[BlueBlooded]

A woman basically is a greedy materialistic prostitute. Although that sounds vulgar, it's true. She trades her physical self to buy into the success a man has created for himself.
Ohoho....I didn't see this one earlier...And what would u man say if u would know that I was feeding, dressing and taking my bf on concerts,clubs etc for more than half of year...and that he was broke when I met him??? Would that make me a prostitute too???Or is he prostitute? LOL...

[wolf]

I read the "hartless" comment, I am deffinately not hartless, sure I've hit my new boyfriend over the head with a few glass bottles but it was for his own good :megane:

[mybunnysuit]

Some women do look for 'profit' in a guy. On a cover of a cosmo magazine it had a title saying 'How to snag a rich guy' and I was so offended.

[BurningSoul]

Some ? It's not some . There are maaaaany women just after the money . Many !
And no ladies , i'm not saying you are such women . But you can't deny that the world is full of them heartless bitches who do everything for money now , can you ?

[Tessu]

Ohoho....I didn't see this one earlier...And what would u man say if u would know that I was feeding, dressing and taking my bf on concerts,clubs etc for more than half of year...and that he was broke when I met him??? Would that make me a prostitute too???Or is he prostitute? LOL...

Manwhore?

Some ? It's not some . There are maaaaany women just after the money . Many !
And no ladies , i'm not saying you are such women . But you can't deny that the world is full of them heartless bitches who do everything for money now , can you ?


There are many men aswell... I date girls with BMW!

[CatAlin]

oô
O .. kay. Weird thing.
Might say the same about guys, guys want a woman, or at least a human thing with tits.

I don't really have anything to say in this, but I do know that some people choose their partner for their looks, because they look similiar to themselves.
What makes me hot is me - or something like that I read once.

C-A

[onydja]

I won't even bother to tell what i think about it...

[qazxsw0]

I don't really care about what is said in that thread ^ I am who I am. Simple.
The person who wrote this is a nerdy btw :3


Yah really...........

Guys find girl attracting and girls don't find guys attracting?????Phail...:cowboy:

[Syusuke]

Women are attracted to status, money, how much a man smiles and laughs, how many friends and resources a man has, how full a man's life is--how many "cool," "exciting" and prestigious things he is doing or connected to.

Alright if thats true, How many women are attracted to:

[Only registered and activated users can see links](Thats Sam Cassell, Millionaire, NBA player, tons of popularity, ect..)

Yeah theres girls whom are about the cash, ect... and guys are the same.

[KeepItSimple]

LOOL! This made me laugh, why is this person(I know you didn't write this) generalizing all women in the world as a single being? This man(pretty sure it's a man) has definately NOT met all the women in the world and cannot generalize them as all the same, it's just biased.

[falios]

I won't even bother to tell what i think about it...

i restate this statement.

and by the way to the oriiginal poster of this thread.

your a virgin arent you....well atleast youve never been in a relationship bout actually love...oh and GROW UP.


damnit did i just state my opinion?


or fact i let you decide, muhaha muhaha

[BurningSoul]

Ugh . . . deluded people . The one who started the thread DID NOT write this piece of shit ! Got it ?

So stop flaming you haters : d

[YuKo-Chan]

Ugh . . . deluded people . The one who started the thread DID NOT write this piece of shit ! Got it ?

So stop flaming you haters : d

Agreed. major flamage, go watch some shoujo and get back your warm fuzzy feeling for eachother........:38109kt:
(ok, so I'm tired)

[Vordreller]

Loving someone for their body and loving how something/someone looks are perfectly normal things for both men and women...

I'm never gonna go for a girl if she's not in some way attractive to me physically. Couldn't live with that. How can you say you love someone who can't even keep her own body fit? Who doesn't care about how she looks, who doesn't care about the fact that her body is hers to maintain.

[qazxsw0]

Loving someone for their body and loving how something/someone looks are perfectly normal things for both men and women...

I'm never gonna go for a girl if she's not in some way attractive to me physically. Couldn't live with that. How can you say you love someone who can't even keep her own body fit? Who doesn't care about how she looks, who doesn't care about the fact that her body is hers to maintain.


The flames of war has......stopped?

Vordreller loving someone for their....however you described it is indeed natural......but not enough?you got to love the person's personality/hobbies/interest etc.....now that what i call LOVE........physical appearance is the main point of sexual attraction.......but that not the only point.....and loving someone for just that is not enough and in my opinion is not considered love<<<MY OPINION>>>>:inlove2:

[Vordreller]

The flames of war has......stopped?

Vordreller loving someone for their....however you described it is indeed natural......but not enough?you got to love the person's personality/hobbies/interest etc.....now that what i call LOVE........physical appearance is the main point of sexual attraction.......but that not the only point.....and loving someone for just that is not enough and in my opinion is not considered love<<<MY OPINION>>>>:inlove2:
Physical appearance is indeed the main point of sexual attraction. I fail to see how that's a bad thing. It's like people don't want others to have opinions about their bodies, because they can't take criticism(or what they believe to be criticism)

I'm not advocating loving someone for just their body. I'm going against the idea of loving someone only for their personality. Like looks somehow don't matter anymore...

Both need to be present at the same time for me, it's your body, it's your responsibility. Goes for men, goes for women.

[Tenshi Sins]

Women aren't attracted to men

Women are not actually attracted to men. There is a vague idea of what a man is physically, and some are better than others aesthetically speaking, but the purely physical appearance of a man is almost inconsequential unless he is horribly ugly or outrageously attractive.

Women are attracted to status, money, how much a man smiles and laughs, how many friends and resources a man has, how full a man's life is--how many "cool," "exciting" and prestigious things he is doing or connected to.

They are interested in how other people view him--how many people want to be around him, how other people interact with him and whether their interactions convey that he is special and amazing. They want him to be extremely outgoing and aggressive, they want him to demonstrate his status over other people by dominating them in various non-violent ways.

A woman's attraction to a man is a function of her jealousy at the thought of another woman having that man. She doesn't care who he actually is or EXACTLY what he looks like physically, she only cares about the VALUE of the life he has constructed around himself.

A woman basically is a greedy materialistic prostitute. Although that sounds vulgar, it's true. She trades her physical self to buy into the success a man has created for himself.

As a man, I fall in love with how a woman is physically. I fall in love with simple parts of a woman. Like the way her hair falls around her face, the line of her neck, her shoulders. They way her ears might peek from her hair. Her eyelashes. The size and shape of her hands, her fingernails. The way she walks, the way she looks when she is tired or annoyed, the sound she makes when she sneezes, coughs, or cries. The way she sits in a chair. The way she breathes while experiencing different emotions. The way her lips move. A million little things.

Sure, a huge part of my attraction is mental, but the powerful seed of love that builds within me and crystallizes is based greatly on visual things that set off torrents of emotion and need.

It seems to me that women almost cannot think for themselves. Their estimates of worth are based on other peoples' estimates of worth. They don't really find an object beautiful on their own. The object becomes beautiful when other people let her know that it is beautiful.


I'm completely unable to reconcile the differences between men and women. It seems like success with women is equal to spending half of your life working to create a giant illusion, something vastly tiring and annoying, while sacrificing your own true self and your own interests. We construct our lives around nest-building. We're like male birds building nests and showing them off to attract mates. It's pathetic. Everything we do is to get women. It is a fucking shit deal.

Someone needs to invent a drug which has no hormonal imbalance side-effects but is able to erase a man's sex drive and attraction to women. It would increase productivity rates to incredible heights. I'd be free and happy. I'd feel complete. I'd be able to concentrate on my biochemistry studying.

Note: i didn't write this, but I would like to see what u ladies think about it. Some of the info given here I do agree with but not all of it.

Please give me an honest opinion. :em020:
It seems like you are leaving in your own little world.
How pathetic should someone be to blame everything to the others?and by others I mean the other sex.
I honestly disagree,cause it generalises ecery woman on the earth when the one who wrote hasn't even met the 1/10 of the women who live in this planet.I'm sorry but by reading that it created an image of a human being who has lost meaning in his life and sees women as monsters,not just heartless.I know they are females like that but aren't there guys like that as well?I mean come one,if you don't have a job and your girlfriend/wife is very successful don't you get jealous of her?Daaa,so it doesn't only have to do with girls but with men as well.Men too use women and throw them away cause they think of them as objects for sexual pleasure,and it's the same as a girl using a guy to achieve success,the only thing that changes is the goal.
Of course just as much as there are jerks and pretty nice guys,there are also bitches and girls that really care for the person next to them.Maybe you see that cause you really believe it and can't see further than the surface.
ex.A girl swears.What you think is that she has a big mouth,but ou never cared to think the reason why she happened to swear at the moment you were passing by.

[BurningSoul]

Another confused person who thought the thread starter wrote this ? It's getting banal. -_-
General talk about genders = F-A-I-L . Saying things like "all girls are like that" or "all guys are like this" automatically labels you as a complete idiot .

[Tenshi Sins]

I was referring to the one who wri\ote it,not the starter,but it's tiresome to say all the time "the one who wrote it" so I chose to replace it with "you".

[BurningSoul]

Nice , nice . Good to know .