My girlfriend wants a THREESOME

[Elyamina]

My girlfriend wants a THREESOME :
Help him out



I think my girlfriend wants me to arrange her a threesome.
My girlfriend Dana and I have been dating for 4 years. A couple months back, we were sharing our fantasies with each other. It turns out that both of us think threesomes are hot. I obviously want one with two girls and she wants one with two guys. We also talked about a bunch of other fantasies. So at the end of the night, we made each other a promise: She fulfills one of my fantasies on my birthday, and I do the same for her.
So on my 25th birthday, she said she had a surprise for me at night. She brought me to a hotel and tied my arms to the foot of the bed. She put a blind fold on me and told me that she was going into the bathroom to change. I was pretty excited; one of my fantasies was to have sex while I was blindfolded. Anyways, she came out after a few minutes, climbed onto the bed and started giving me oral. It wasn’t until I was about to climax that I told her to stop. She pulled my blindfold down. The first thing I saw was Dana sitting on the chair facing the bed. I realized that it wasn’t her giving me head, but it was actually her best friend Stacy… And the rest of the night is history.
So now my girlfriend’s birthday is coming up (January 17), and I don’t know what I should do. The thing is, she’s not the jealous type but I am. Seeing her have sex with another guy would kill me on the inside, but I think I should do it for her. Also, she knows I’m physically attracted to her friend. If I were to arrange a threesome for her, I would also have to bring a friend that she thinks is hot, which is even worse. Out of all my guy friends, the only one that she thinks is attractive is my friend Greg, whom she actually dated before she met me. I would rather bring my former roommate Marc, I trust him the most out of all my friends but the problem is my Dana isn’t attracted to him.

So my questions are:
1) Is she expecting me to arrange a threesome for her as a birthday present?
2) Should I arrange a threesome for her?
3) If I should, which friend do I bring?
So far the only person that I asked was Stacy, and she does think I should arrange a threesome for Dana. Thanks, I really want know what you guys thinks ASAP. This is actually my first post because this forums seems like a really good place to get advise about awkward situations.

I think you should have thought everything through before you told her that fantasy. Sorry, but even though your the jealous type she is going to be expecting you to go through with your promise, if she wasn't jealous of you, then you shouldn't be of her.

[Christie]

I think threesome's with people whom you committed with are disgusting. There are bigger issues at stake here that need to be addressed for the relationship to last.

If I ever truly commit to someone, this would quite definitely be an instant relationship killer.

[zerox]

sorry dude looks like you're in deep shit huh

[darkhunter]

the easiest way to get out of the mess is just to go around it. so she told him that she has a fantasy for a threesome but from what i read it seems she has other fantasy's, so the easiest way is to fulfill one of her fantasy but not the threesome if he is so possessive. But hell if i really know how this will turn, the mind of a woman is tricky, us, man en general are easy to understand but woman hell if i can understand them, if they say they want something and you don't give that thing to them they will get upset and if you give them it depends on the situations you could make them happy or even worse (happend to me once). so the best thing in my opinion is to explain her the problem and decide then.

There was a joke kinda related to this: one day a guy has an accident and loses his pennis it it, but the doctor quickly finds a new one and replaces the damaged one. after a few mounts the man comes to the doctor for a check up and every thing is ok but only with one problem. when he sleeps with his wife he has a nasty fealing in his heart because of the new pennis he received.

I think threesome's with people whom you committed with are disgusting. There are bigger issues at stake here that need to be addressed for the relationship to last.

If I ever truly commit to someone, this would quite definitely be an instant relationship killer.

depends on the people Christie, i have friend which i know from kindergarten and he and his wife love group sex, i personally don't know how they do it and when they started but they are happily married for 2 years (they are young like 22 my friend and his wife has 20) with one baby girl.

but i totally agree with you on this aspect but like i sayed there are people and people.

[Sword]

Well that the mother of all problems I have heard this year, but it depends on you for the solution. Your girlfriend will be expecting something for her birthday and as the last dark said fullfill her other sexual fantasy (depending if she has any other better than a threesome). But this might as well caused problems since you all ready had your threesome fantasy and may want it as well. As Dark said you could make things worst or the better, but in my opinion it only for the worst either for her or for you.

[flomaster_chan]

have fun *lol* .... *haha*

[daniel2]

Hmmm threesomes are dangerous. They kill relationships easily. I'm not lying when I say I would like one with 2 girls but honestly... with 2 guys and 1 girl it wouldn't exactly be the smartest thing to do. If your girl wants a threesome you can do this. Grab a gay friend of yours that doesn't have the hots for you and have fun with your girlfriend. Chances are shes not going to go for the other guy if hes good in the sac because hes gay.

Problem solved aye?

[Kiddu]

*sigh* not a good thing... she wants a threesome... give it to her... forget jealousy, it's no good... I bet you liked that head... you owe her man... you had a deal...

and probably she won't like it... I mean... maybe she won't like it... I'd like a threesome with two girls... but then again... I'm perverted...

[daniel2]

Threesomes suck. Period. Maybe try and coax her into something else, tell her its way harder to do then what she did to you, and that you would have issues later on with it...

Take her out to dinner or just make love to her. Don't pressure yourself to do it man, they really aren't as fun as they sound, they are for people who don't care about the people they are doing it with.

[Darkest]

Ok, what's is the point of this? The guy who posted that question probably doesn't even know we're discussing it here.

I know that question is from a section of another forum which I go to which deals with these sort of questions.

I will understand if this was a general discussion about threesomes but it seems it isn't and everyone who has replied to this thread has made comments that the person (who wrote the question) will probably never read. >_<

If someone goes to the other forum with the answers that have been replied in here I may be lenient to this, but so far, I haven't seen not one.

But apart from my rant, Merry Christmas Everyone! :3

[Christie]

Ok, what's is the point of this? The guy who posted that question probably doesn't even know we're discussing it here.

Treat as you would a hypothetical question. It's pointless at its core but interesting to discuss.

Merry xmas :beautifu2:

[Darkest]

Treat as you would a hypothetical question. It's pointless at its core but interesting to discuss.

Merry xmas :beautifu2:

Well, since you put it that way.................. :em0129:

[lucifer]

Ok, what's is the point of this? The guy who posted that question probably doesn't even know we're discussing it here.
This is the best anwer I have ever seen lol
Merry X-mas

[temoaroar]

another way around this is using some of the other fantasies she might have or even combining them to make a better fantasy

[ANBU]

dude give her what she wants, its every man's dream to have sex w/ 2 women. i kno its one of my dream:41:

[EviL]

Hate to sound like an after school special, but I believe that love is between one man and one woman. But then again in Japanese society they can have sex with other women while they are married as long as they don't love the woman.

[Darkest]

Just to inform you guys, the guy who asked the question in the other forum is going ahead with it regardless. He's involving Greg (her ex).

[ryoko_neo]

threesomes are relationship killers

[EviL]

Just to inform you guys, the guy who asked the question in the other forum is going ahead with it regardless. He's involving Greg (her ex).

I think it was pretty much a go ahead thing either way I don't know of any guy thats ever turned down the possibility of having a threesome personally I would. Also I totally agree they are relationship killers.

[Sv3nt3k]

Sorry, but I could never negotiate a threesome. Completely ruins the relationship. If anything, if she's requesting, that tells me something. I'm a bit of the jealous type so I can't fathom the idea of sharing my girl with someone else.

[daniel2]

I think its good to discuss anything and everything. Can we just leave it at that?

[Christie]

threesomes are relationship killers

Topic won right there.

[Dark Akuma]

I wonder how the situation turned out. Anyway,i would NEVER have a threesome. I'm not the type to share my woman.

[doesthislookinfected]

.. well.. i guess each one with their own..
i would have a threesome-- to be honest its one of my fantasies..
since i'm bi-- i wouldln't mind if its a she or he..
tho.. i know my bf and its the most jelous guy i've ever meet-- i'm sure he wouldnt let me D:
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idk how things ended-- but the problem in threesome is the "with who" --
seriusly.. i'm not good giving advices but hope this situation turned well

[krnxknight]

whenever you consider a threesome, think of this.

What if your partner enjoys it more with the third person than you?

food for thought and possibly discussion

[Kenadian]

whenever you consider a threesome, think of this.

What if your partner enjoys it more with the third person than you?

food for thought and possibly discussion

Moral of the story is, threesomes are only good if you are not in a relationship.

[leito]

so far there would be another girl, lol congratulations^^

[maplel3av3s]

I wonder how the situation turned out. Anyway,i would NEVER have a threesome. I'm not the type to share my woman.

Agreed. I neva liked to share my gf as well.

[BurningSoul]

Fuck no . I would never ever "share" a girl with anyone : d NEVER . It's a complete taboo.

[ellymate]

So my questions are:
1) Is she expecting me to arrange a threesome for her as a birthday present?
2) Should I arrange a threesome for her?
3) If I should, which friend do I bring?

As i see it, u both had fantasies about a threesome and from each ones point of view u have to bring a new guy or a new girl in.She made ur fantasies come true so she really aspects the same, women are clever when they want something and she was really fortunate the fact that ur b'day was before hers...so i bet she wants the same. now abot ur Q

1) yes and i answered already.
2) yup, u should...but...there's always a BUT >__<, if u say ur very jelous this experience might broke smthg in ur relationship, cos if u'll see Dana in pleasure with the other guy it's only normal to be very gelous and after, each time u hold her, u'll might think who does she think of or if u offer her the same pleasure as that guy... If u are preared to get over this feelings and control urself, then that great! if not..she might be disappointed, angry and maybe she'll still want to try it even without ur agreement [u know her the best]
3) U say she's atracted by her ex-bf Greg... but i don't think it's a great idea to bring him... since they had a relationship and so it's not 'healthy' to dig up in the past and bring a previous lover to make love with you >.> so maybe it'll be better to bring Marc.


As for me...i'd never share my bf with another! what's mine it's only mine *grin*

[Chelinka]

wow this is such an old topic.

anyways, I'd NEVER EVER IN MY LIFE share my bf with anyone! threesomes in relationships are absolute taboo!

For me, sex is an act to show love and strengthen that bond of love towards your partner; bringing in a third party completely decimates that point for me. Then the value of sex drops to such a level that it only becomes a lewd act purely for pleasure only.

[qazxsw0]

Dump your girl friend she is not committed to you........three-some?....seriously when i saw the thread i avoided it......

Relationship is about romance.....if she wants a three some it pretty much mean she just want sex......who in their right mind would share their BF/GF with anyone???????no exception.....
Chelinka you're definitely right.....
Sex=love+pleasure

Love comes first.......

Does your GF rly l0ve you? I doubt someone who love you would want a three-some......<<<SICK....

[shadowtetsu]

You should do it but with a girl cuz watching how they fuck your girl is going to get you mad or something.
The other thing you can do is to take her to dinner easy and simple or go for the wild shit.

[qazxsw0]

Everybody would be mad to see their partner getting *&^%^&*&^* by somebody else beside themselves....

[crystalalien8]

dude im counting down the days lol.... but i think since she followed through you need to do the same...

[raginu]

My girlfriend wants a THREESOME :
I think you should have thought everything through before you told her that fantasy. Sorry, but even though your the jealous type she is going to be expecting you to go through with your promise, if she wasn't jealous of you, then you shouldn't be of her.


Elyamina said everything.... You should have thought... Should have thought once... twice.. three times.. four times... Before making such promise...
If You were jealous... Why did you come up with such idea ?
You were reckless.... Didnt think about the consequences of such promise....


You should do it but with a girl cuz watching how they fuck your girl is going to get you mad or something.
The other thing you can do is to take her to dinner easy and simple or go for the wild shit.


What the hell was that ?!.. o_o ...
As he stated... Its her wish... So he must do it the way she wants it..




...T-T.. I'm sinking even more!... each time I "refresh" nihonomaru's main page... there's something about SEX!... GRRRR!!!!

[Azaracus]

Really I think a threesome is a bad idea. In my view sex is a loving moment between you and your partner but it has developed into something that is just for pleasure in some people's minds. I would avoid threesomes, it's like cheating on you right in front of you. A big smack across the face:damn:

[raginu]

Really I think a threesome is a bad idea. In my view sex is a loving moment between you and your partner but it has developed into something that is just for pleasure in some people's minds. I would avoid threesomes, it's like cheating on you right in front of you. A big smack across the face:damn:

Well... I wouldnt call it cheating... Cheating to me is when someone in the relationship is not aware about a "third party member".. lOl!.... Okay.. sorry ... this is not the right time to laugh .. :| ... But that's what I think...
Well.. its not like that .. You cant say that there's no love in a relationship just because such thing happened.. I invite whoever knows what she was thinking at that moment to pronounce then...
Cause I dont know what she was thinking... maybe she was hurt inside too.. but she didnt want to break the promise... ?....
Everyone has fantasies... etc..etc.... That doesnt mean that there is no love in the relationship at all...
I just think that.... Having fantasies... etc..etc...etc is one thing... but being reckless is another one...
I still defend my point... That he should have reflected more about their promises...

[xian123]

Dude this bad lol
I have nothing left in me here in this thread

[Cayena]

consiring her bday is passed Im curious how it ended o.O"

I always date jealous guys like that xD I cant stand it. a 3some is nothing but a tool to spice it up a bit when things stopped changing and is getting dull not nessearly a relationship breaker if both agrees with it.

[BurningSoul]

Hell no . Spicer >? Lol , no . Sharing ain't caring . . especially if you share your partner . . : d

[nopnop]

ok just a little point of criticism from me but the guy said they had been going out for 4 years and only a few months ago they discussed their fantasies?? that sounds odd and weird since I only been going out with my partner for 2 years and I know his fantasies and have given him a few of them and he has done mine. So they mustn't of been very close and really intimate in the first and if thats the case a threesome will probably end bad.
It really depends on the individual relationship if threesomes should occur or not. I know for me its a hell no cause the site of my boyfriend pleasing another woman would drive me mad with jealousy and vice versa for him. I never want to share him or me for that matter with another.

[Tenshi Sins]

This proves me that the thread starter is selfish.Ay first he only thought of himself,so I don't really think he cared about her.If you didn't want to share her then why agree?You're responsible for it and have to face the consequences,so don't just answer without thinking next time.

[mikoxkikyo]

well first of all talk to her...if shes understanding she will understand that having another guy touch you would make u feel bad...like with my bf we had the same problem but we werent able to have the threesome yet and he told me that he would with a girl but wouldnt with another guy because he didnt want another man pleasing me... then ask her if there is another way to make it up to her. and if she says that its not fair explain y u dont want to...tell her tat u dont feel like u could compete with another guy...