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04-29-2008, 01:55 PM
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question for older adults...
Hey just a bit curious...
Let's say you find the "right and perfect" person for you early in life... and u're happy /w her. But you miss out on a lot of fooling around with other girls >.<... would you regret not being able to live the young life and mess around /w lots of girls?? or would it be better to just stick /w the perfect girl all the way? Altho u'd have urges to fool around some more, cuz you're so young... any older ppl got life stories to share about stuff like this?? Much thanks! |
    
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04-29-2008, 02:32 PM
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Re: question for older adults...
I don't have to be old to know that if you find the perfect person you should do everything to be whit him/her no mater what since there is no assurance that another one will come ever again.
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04-29-2008, 03:03 PM
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Re: question for older adults...
'Nuff said.
H-game, H-manga and H-series torrents + direct download doujin soft games  "Non omnis moriar." - Quintus Horatius Flaccus "There is nothing either good or bad but thinking makes it so." - William Shakespeare |
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04-29-2008, 03:35 PM
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Re: question for older adults...
howling for the moon
no matter what you do you should do it 100% and never try something you know your going to regret i think but wanting more than you can get then as i sed it becomes howling for the moon |
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04-29-2008, 07:53 PM
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Re: question for older adults...
Hi, everyone, this is my first post here. Besides saying hello, I want to give some advice to Gakidou.
Being about nine years older I can speak from experience. Playing around is not worthy, if you have someone really important next to you. Sex, even if it is great sex, after a while it is not enough to be really happy. If you still want to fall to temptation, just be careful so you significant other never finds out. |
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04-30-2008, 02:47 AM
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Re: question for older adults...
thanks for the advice guys =)
just to add to it... it's just sometimes i wish i had someone more active... and who has a variety of interests... one thing i really like about my gf is she is REALLY hard working... in fact... that's all she ever does... work + study... so she never has time to develop interests or have hobbies... she honestly has no interests or hobbies of her own... other than hanging out /w friends and family... I enjoy playing a lot of sports... and i'm always disappointed that she never has time for it... i enjoy playing music, singing, drumming, and piano... but she is not into music like that... also she doesn't have any clue about pop culture... and i'm really into that kinda stuff... so whenever i meet girls who are really into those stuff... it makes me think if i'd be happier /w someone that could attend to those needs... but i mean she has a lot of other things that i do like and enjoy... we cook 2gether... we're fair on house chores (we don't live 2gether but she's pretty much @ my house all the time)... she's passionate about her work (she teaches mentally disabled children)... she's very supportive of me and understanding... and most of all i can be COMPLETELY myself around her... and a buncha other stuff as well but to me, being active and having interests brings variety and excitement to life (which one of the things she likes me for... cuz i'm into a lot of things and everyday is a diff day /w me) but just her not really being into that or not having time for it... really drags things down for me sometimes... but sometimes i wonder... can i find someone /w all of that and the other stuff i need?? i would never cheat just cause i could never bring myself to that... |
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04-30-2008, 03:20 AM
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good things come to those who wait
thats all i can say and thats all there is to it |
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04-30-2008, 03:45 PM
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On the other hand, you can have friends with whom to share your activities and hobbies. Including female friends. It is possible to have a real friendship (no romance or sex) with someone from the opposite gender. You just need to tell from the beginning the kind of relationship you are looking for, so they don't get any wrong ideas. The good thing of sharing your favorite activities with friends, is if you ever break with your girlfriend, you still have a life, which make the recovery faster. |
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04-30-2008, 05:20 PM
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How would you know that the one next to you is the ONE if you don't live your life a bit? How can a man at his early twenties decides the girl he currently dates is the right one especially when from what you say you are totally incompatible. If now that you are young, she can't find time to share with you later what will happen when she has a big job, a couple of kids and a house to take care off?
How you can live your life with a woman that you don't share any interests with? To make it a little more general, rushing into things never makes anything better. How can you be sure that she is the one if it's your first one, or the first one that "gave you some", or the first that you saw seriously? I don't believe there is a man/woman that got married early and didn't regret it at some point in his life. Last edited by txcforever : 04-30-2008 at 05:24 PM. |
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04-30-2008, 08:39 PM
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Yea I agree... you don't know if she is the perfect one for you since you haven't had much experience with other women. Though if you do end going with other women and break up with her, you could end up losing the right woman for you. This is why you should talk to her to have an open relationship, that way you can date other women to find out that if she is really the right one for you. PS: This is why many guys cheat, cuz they don't have a clue.  |
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