[holy]

Originally Posted by Misuzu

60 Things Most Girls Don't Know


wrote by guys. :D
[*]Guys get jealous easily. (i know!! n we love it anyway)

Revenge!!!!!

that is true for me. I have many fights with my girl friend because I got jealous lol

[darkzero45]

Ummm........ Damn....... You got me. Most of those things are true with me. Most of them. I don't stammer on the phone though.

[Dark Akuma]

All are right concerning me except one. When i say i wanna be alone,i fucking mean it.

[Second_Best]

Eerily accurate list. Only one I'd really disagree with is the too skinny one. And for the ladies? Maybe you do enjoy it when we get jealous, but I assure you, we don't have that same enjoyment. It can lead to a heck of a lot of angst on our part.

[Chika]

1. Guys hate sluts even though they have sex with them. Sluts are fun for one night, but no guy in his right mind would ever date one. (Well, there are some men who love sluts…)
2. "Hey, are you busy?" or "Are you doing something?" are the two phrases guys open a conversation with to stop from stammering on the phone. (Not completely true, my honey says ‘how are you doing?” or “what’s up, you sound tired”)
3. Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about. (Men might look at it as; “hey, you girls eye men all day, well, we’re going to eye women all day.” What actually is happening, is that you’re admiring the opposite sex… what’s so bad about that?)
4. Before they call, guys try to plan out a little about what they're going to say so there isn't awkward pauses, but once he's on the phone he forgets it all and makes it up as he goes.
5. Guys go crazy over a girl's smile. (If the guy needs to go through all that, it’s because girls can’t talk well, or want to have the guy on his toes constantly)
6. Guys will do anything just to get you to notice him. (half-true, you ignore him, and he’ll get pissed and do it right back a few days later – it goes both ways)
7. Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend or ex love-interest. They may not admit it right away, but this drives them mad with jealousy. (We all hate it, why talk about the past when ‘hopefully’ you got something better right in front of you?)
8. A guy who likes you wants to be the only guy you talk to. (Not true, a sensible man like my bf says that I an talk to anyone, as long as I remain true to him.)
9. Boyfriends need to be reassured often that they're still loved. (Don’t we?)
10. Don't talk about your guy friends to your boyfriend. (If they can talk about their girl-friends, then you can talk about your boy-friends. No double-standard bs.)
11. Guys get jealous easily. (Umm, we do too, duh?)
12. Guys are more emotional than they'd like people to think. (Common to misunderstand, both genders are emotional – depending on the person, he/she can be stone-like or emotional.)
13. Giving a guy a hanging message like "You know what? Uh...never mind.." would make him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking. And he'll assume he did something wrong and he'll obsess about it trying to figure it out. (Well, that happens, why don’t you fix it instead of letting him feel like shit for the next few days?)
14. Guys are good flatterers when courting but they usually stammer when they talk to a girl they really like. (If a guy is smooth with his advances… Be cautious, he’s prolly a player.)
15. Guys hate asking parents for money to buy girls presents. So they come up with ideas like saving their lunch money for a week. But it never works because guys are always hungry so they end up asking the parents for money anyway. (Again, not completely true.)
16. Girls are guys' weaknesses. (This is a two-lane Street.)
17. Guys are very open about themselves. (Well, do you want them to be all clammed-up and a bunch of liars? Honesty FTW)
18. It's good to test a guy first before you trust him. But don't let him wait too long. (Test a guy… Is this some game? Give his a fleeting hope then shatter it if you don’t like what you see?)
19. Your best friend, whom your boyfriend seeks help from about his problems with you may end up being admired by your boyfriend. (1. The guy should be true to you. 2. Why didn’t you try and help? Give and take, eh’?)
20. If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don't need to give advice. (True, but few of us really understand the simplicity of that.)
21. A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you. (Yea, commonly known as flirting?)
22. Guys love you more than you love them if they are serious in your relationships. (Of course a good man will give 110% in a relationship, but in turn, you must return 100%, if not, he’ll feel unwanted by you, like you are withdrawn.)
23. Guys will brag about anything. Including their girlfriend. (Not everything, but, if they talk about you, well, you should be happy, he’s happy that he is good enough for you.)
24. Guys use words like hot or cute to describe girls. We rarely use beautiful. If a guy uses that, he likes you a whole hell of a lot. (When we compliment you, we’re casual about it, so you don’t feel like we mean it, right?)
25. Guys think WAY too much. One small thing a girl does, even if she doesn't notice it can make the guy think about it for hours, trying to figure out what it meant. (Well, yes… We tend to not think before we say something. And, if we said something wrong, we try to blame it on them and/or blow the situation up completely.
26. Guys seek advice from girls not other guys. Because most guys think alike, so if one guy's confused, then we're all confused. (No, young males should ask their father for some help. After all, do not take advice about a woman from a woman. We have our own, unique personalities right?)
27. Any guy could write out a rulebook or advice book for flirting, but no guy can write out a book about relationships. (Neither can we, sadly. Either it’s a game, (uses brain) or real, (uses heart) Try putting the two together k?)
28. Try to be as straightforward as possible. (We should too, nothing should be one-sided.)
29. A guy has to experience rejection, because if he's too-good-never-been-busted, never been in love and hurt, he won't be mature and grown up. (Partially true… One must mature through experiences and more, but the idea that a girl matures faster than a male? I laugh myself 6 feet under.)
30. If the guy does something stupid in front of the girl, he will think about it for the next couple days or until the next time he spends time with the girl. (Why don’t we tell them it’s okie?)
31. No matter how much guys talk about asses and boobs, personality is key. (This is partially true… Depends which head he’s thinking with.)
32. Guys learn from experience, not from the romance books that girls read and take as their basis of experience. (Yea, most of us do take the internet and books as “we know it all”, however, some of us know better. And there are a lot of guys that do the same thing.)
33. Guys worry about the thin line between being compassionate and being whipped. (Let me explain; should a girl or guy be led around on an invisible leash? I thought not.)
34. If a guy looks unusually calm and laid back, he's probably faking it and is spazzing inside. (Think about it, us girls know from age 1 how to swallow, complain and bitch about our periods, not to mention making an ogre quiver with the looks we practice.)
35. When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl, he really is. Guys rarely say that. (Yea, we still need to learn that… some of us, anyways…)
36. When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he's just actually saying, "Please come and listen to me." (Not always true, some men would rather not trouble the one they love, with their problems. It seems they are afraid of over-burdening us.)
37. Guys don't really have final decisions. (You don’t? Well, welcome to the club!!)
38. If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him. It doesn't happen that often, so when it does, you know something's up. (We tend not to know serious from joking, as we are always assuming they are over-reacting… And thus, they get angry because we fail to realize that they are indeed serious.)
39. If your best guy friend seems to avoid you or is never around when you're with your boyfriend, he's probably jealous and likes you. (I’d feel sorry, but you know, the other guy asked me out, and I was blind to the signs or didn’t care.)
40. When a guy looks at you for longer than a second, he's definitely thinking something. (Ummm… We talk aloud and giggle in huddles… They should be wondering what we’re up to.)
41. Guys like femininity not feebleness or vulgarity. (Guys like all sorts of girls, and girls like all-sorts of guys.)
42. Guys don't like girls who punch harder than they do. (Not true, my bf laughs anytime I bring him down in the living room, and he has a personal reminder not to hurt me, or I’ll dish it right back – Be firm, but not overbearing.)
43. A guy has more problems than you can see with your naked eyes. (Did you steal that from us? You are still more open though, cheers!!)
44. Don't be a snob. Guys can be intimidated and give up easily. (If the guy loves you, he usually will let you win almost every fight. Don’t abuse that ability, cuz there is one hell of a backlash when he finally has had enough.)
45. Everything in moderation. Put on makeup, wear perfume. Just not too much. (We actually need to take off our makeup… It’s like a mask… We make ourselves pretty for 3 hours in the morning, or however long it takes… What’s the use? That’s daylight that I’m wasting… I could have my hubby skipping into work merrily in less time.)
46. Guys talk about girls more than girls talk about guys. (Ummm… depends on the topic really…)
47. Guys hate rejection, but they hate being led on even more. (Well, don’t we?)
48. Guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable decisions and are MAD confusing but somehow are drawn even more to them. (What you mean by confusing, is that we don’t open up to you, I’d presume.)
49. A guy would give his left nut to be able to read a girl's mind for a day. (He shouldn’t have to desire that… Heard of equality? Or did they misprint that in the context of independence?)
50. No guy can handle all his problems on his own. He's just too stubborn to admit it. (Just as we can complain to them, let them complain to us.)
51. Not all guys are assholes. Just because ONE is a jackass doesn’t mean he represents ALL of them. (Well yea, likewise.)
52. We don't like girls who are too skinny. (It hurts you when us little things sit on your lap doesn’t it?)
53. We love it when girls talk about their boobs. (Truth be told, we find utter amusement and enjoy men and other women talking about themselves. We listen and learn!!)
54. Always make sure you know what kind of stuff your getting into before making out with a guy ...like whether it's a onetime deal or not… (That is why you give it a few weeks and proceed slowly… Snail pace.)
55. Believe it or not shy guys are the most easiest to talk to... it may not seem right, but trust me they will start opening up like books after you just ask them questions about their lives and tell them about yours... (Sharing is great, but, one thing… Don’t anyone dare beat up a kind and loving person just cuz you got hurt in your previous relationship.)
56. Even if they refuse it all guys are ticklish on the ribs. (No, guys are ticklish all over when their lover is tickling them.)
57. Guys love neck rubs and if he lets you keep doing it...it means that he really likes you or his neck really hurts... (Try massaging their back also! They will feel so much better afterwards.)
58. Guys will test the waters to see how far they can get with you. Even if he doesn't intend to it will happen. Know how far it is you want to let him go and he will respect that...after you let him know a couple times. (If we let them know… We fail to do that now and again… The feeling can get overpowering and your whole brain dissolves in the waves of pleasure.)
59. When a guy sacrifices his sleep and health just to be with you, he really likes you and wants to be with you as much as possible. (That is so true… I remember when my bf and I first met… A year later I begged him to be with me more, and he was there every weekend with 2 jobs and a state away… But I was stupid and kicked him away for a bit, snatched him back and told him that I hadn’t seen him for what he is to me, really.)
A note to everyone; You should be equal to the one you love, however temporary the relationship is. Treat each other with respect, dignity, be honest with each other, and realize and acknowledge when one or both of you have made a misstep.
Responding to the post; “60 Things Most Girls Don't Know About Guys!!”
From Lilette Brown and Tim Tasker

[Agnus]

Originally Posted by vengeance

80-90% true....... i would haft to say. This was written by a guys? Sounds more like the other way around.

well i took that from a site and most of guys here seem to agree :p

Originally Posted by Dark_Clown

u should take it for real when i say leave me alone... if u don't u could get hurt ...

I KNOW!!
it goes moi too

Originally Posted by reminder

That's more like dictionary for girls than a form of revenge.

nice point of vireew on ya coments xD

Originally Posted by Chika

1. Guys hate sluts even though they have sex with them. Sluts are fun for one night, but no guy in his right mind would ever date one. (Well, there are some men who love sluts…)
2. "Hey, are you busy?" or "Are you doing something?" are the two phrases guys open a conversation with to stop from stammering on the phone. (Not completely true, my honey says ‘how are you doing?” or “what’s up, you sound tired”)
3. Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about. (Men might look at it as; “hey, you girls eye men all day, well, we’re going to eye women all day.” What actually is happening, is that you’re admiring the opposite sex… what’s so bad about that?)
4. Before they call, guys try to plan out a little about what they're going to say so there isn't awkward pauses, but once he's on the phone he forgets it all and makes it up as he goes.
5. Guys go crazy over a girl's smile. (If the guy needs to go through all that, it’s because girls can’t talk well, or want to have the guy on his toes constantly)
6. Guys will do anything just to get you to notice him. (half-true, you ignore him, and he’ll get pissed and do it right back a few days later – it goes both ways)
7. Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend or ex love-interest. They may not admit it right away, but this drives them mad with jealousy. (We all hate it, why talk about the past when ‘hopefully’ you got something better right in front of you?)
8. A guy who likes you wants to be the only guy you talk to. (Not true, a sensible man like my bf says that I an talk to anyone, as long as I remain true to him.)
9. Boyfriends need to be reassured often that they're still loved. (Don’t we?)
10. Don't talk about your guy friends to your boyfriend. (If they can talk about their girl-friends, then you can talk about your boy-friends. No double-standard bs.)
11. Guys get jealous easily. (Umm, we do too, duh?)
12. Guys are more emotional than they'd like people to think. (Common to misunderstand, both genders are emotional – depending on the person, he/she can be stone-like or emotional.)
13. Giving a guy a hanging message like "You know what? Uh...never mind.." would make him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking. And he'll assume he did something wrong and he'll obsess about it trying to figure it out. (Well, that happens, why don’t you fix it instead of letting him feel like shit for the next few days?)
14. Guys are good flatterers when courting but they usually stammer when they talk to a girl they really like. (If a guy is smooth with his advances… Be cautious, he’s prolly a player.)
15. Guys hate asking parents for money to buy girls presents. So they come up with ideas like saving their lunch money for a week. But it never works because guys are always hungry so they end up asking the parents for money anyway. (Again, not completely true.)
16. Girls are guys' weaknesses. (This is a two-lane Street.)
17. Guys are very open about themselves. (Well, do you want them to be all clammed-up and a bunch of liars? Honesty FTW)
18. It's good to test a guy first before you trust him. But don't let him wait too long. (Test a guy… Is this some game? Give his a fleeting hope then shatter it if you don’t like what you see?)
19. Your best friend, whom your boyfriend seeks help from about his problems with you may end up being admired by your boyfriend. (1. The guy should be true to you. 2. Why didn’t you try and help? Give and take, eh’?)
20. If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don't need to give advice. (True, but few of us really understand the simplicity of that.)
21. A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you. (Yea, commonly known as flirting?)
22. Guys love you more than you love them if they are serious in your relationships. (Of course a good man will give 110% in a relationship, but in turn, you must return 100%, if not, he’ll feel unwanted by you, like you are withdrawn.)
23. Guys will brag about anything. Including their girlfriend. (Not everything, but, if they talk about you, well, you should be happy, he’s happy that he is good enough for you.)
24. Guys use words like hot or cute to describe girls. We rarely use beautiful. If a guy uses that, he likes you a whole hell of a lot. (When we compliment you, we’re casual about it, so you don’t feel like we mean it, right?)
25. Guys think WAY too much. One small thing a girl does, even if she doesn't notice it can make the guy think about it for hours, trying to figure out what it meant. (Well, yes… We tend to not think before we say something. And, if we said something wrong, we try to blame it on them and/or blow the situation up completely.
26. Guys seek advice from girls not other guys. Because most guys think alike, so if one guy's confused, then we're all confused. (No, young males should ask their father for some help. After all, do not take advice about a woman from a woman. We have our own, unique personalities right?)
27. Any guy could write out a rulebook or advice book for flirting, but no guy can write out a book about relationships. (Neither can we, sadly. Either it’s a game, (uses brain) or real, (uses heart) Try putting the two together k?)
28. Try to be as straightforward as possible. (We should too, nothing should be one-sided.)
29. A guy has to experience rejection, because if he's too-good-never-been-busted, never been in love and hurt, he won't be mature and grown up. (Partially true… One must mature through experiences and more, but the idea that a girl matures faster than a male? I laugh myself 6 feet under.)
30. If the guy does something stupid in front of the girl, he will think about it for the next couple days or until the next time he spends time with the girl. (Why don’t we tell them it’s okie?)
31. No matter how much guys talk about asses and boobs, personality is key. (This is partially true… Depends which head he’s thinking with.)
32. Guys learn from experience, not from the romance books that girls read and take as their basis of experience. (Yea, most of us do take the internet and books as “we know it all”, however, some of us know better. And there are a lot of guys that do the same thing.)
33. Guys worry about the thin line between being compassionate and being whipped. (Let me explain; should a girl or guy be led around on an invisible leash? I thought not.)
34. If a guy looks unusually calm and laid back, he's probably faking it and is spazzing inside. (Think about it, us girls know from age 1 how to swallow, complain and bitch about our periods, not to mention making an ogre quiver with the looks we practice.)
35. When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl, he really is. Guys rarely say that. (Yea, we still need to learn that… some of us, anyways…)
36. When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he's just actually saying, "Please come and listen to me." (Not always true, some men would rather not trouble the one they love, with their problems. It seems they are afraid of over-burdening us.)
37. Guys don't really have final decisions. (You don’t? Well, welcome to the club!!)
38. If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him. It doesn't happen that often, so when it does, you know something's up. (We tend not to know serious from joking, as we are always assuming they are over-reacting… And thus, they get angry because we fail to realize that they are indeed serious.)
39. If your best guy friend seems to avoid you or is never around when you're with your boyfriend, he's probably jealous and likes you. (I’d feel sorry, but you know, the other guy asked me out, and I was blind to the signs or didn’t care.)
40. When a guy looks at you for longer than a second, he's definitely thinking something. (Ummm… We talk aloud and giggle in huddles… They should be wondering what we’re up to.)
41. Guys like femininity not feebleness or vulgarity. (Guys like all sorts of girls, and girls like all-sorts of guys.)
42. Guys don't like girls who punch harder than they do. (Not true, my bf laughs anytime I bring him down in the living room, and he has a personal reminder not to hurt me, or I’ll dish it right back – Be firm, but not overbearing.)
43. A guy has more problems than you can see with your naked eyes. (Did you steal that from us? You are still more open though, cheers!!)
44. Don't be a snob. Guys can be intimidated and give up easily. (If the guy loves you, he usually will let you win almost every fight. Don’t abuse that ability, cuz there is one hell of a backlash when he finally has had enough.)
45. Everything in moderation. Put on makeup, wear perfume. Just not too much. (We actually need to take off our makeup… It’s like a mask… We make ourselves pretty for 3 hours in the morning, or however long it takes… What’s the use? That’s daylight that I’m wasting… I could have my hubby skipping into work merrily in less time.)
46. Guys talk about girls more than girls talk about guys. (Ummm… depends on the topic really…)
47. Guys hate rejection, but they hate being led on even more. (Well, don’t we?)
48. Guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable decisions and are MAD confusing but somehow are drawn even more to them. (What you mean by confusing, is that we don’t open up to you, I’d presume.)
49. A guy would give his left nut to be able to read a girl's mind for a day. (He shouldn’t have to desire that… Heard of equality? Or did they misprint that in the context of independence?)
50. No guy can handle all his problems on his own. He's just too stubborn to admit it. (Just as we can complain to them, let them complain to us.)
51. Not all guys are assholes. Just because ONE is a jackass doesn’t mean he represents ALL of them. (Well yea, likewise.)
52. We don't like girls who are too skinny. (It hurts you when us little things sit on your lap doesn’t it?)
53. We love it when girls talk about their boobs. (Truth be told, we find utter amusement and enjoy men and other women talking about themselves. We listen and learn!!)
54. Always make sure you know what kind of stuff your getting into before making out with a guy ...like whether it's a onetime deal or not… (That is why you give it a few weeks and proceed slowly… Snail pace.)
55. Believe it or not shy guys are the most easiest to talk to... it may not seem right, but trust me they will start opening up like books after you just ask them questions about their lives and tell them about yours... (Sharing is great, but, one thing… Don’t anyone dare beat up a kind and loving person just cuz you got hurt in your previous relationship.)
56. Even if they refuse it all guys are ticklish on the ribs. (No, guys are ticklish all over when their lover is tickling them.)
57. Guys love neck rubs and if he lets you keep doing it...it means that he really likes you or his neck really hurts... (Try massaging their back also! They will feel so much better afterwards.)
58. Guys will test the waters to see how far they can get with you. Even if he doesn't intend to it will happen. Know how far it is you want to let him go and he will respect that...after you let him know a couple times. (If we let them know… We fail to do that now and again… The feeling can get overpowering and your whole brain dissolves in the waves of pleasure.)
59. When a guy sacrifices his sleep and health just to be with you, he really likes you and wants to be with you as much as possible. (That is so true… I remember when my bf and I first met… A year later I begged him to be with me more, and he was there every weekend with 2 jobs and a state away… But I was stupid and kicked him away for a bit, snatched him back and told him that I hadn’t seen him for what he is to me, really.)
A note to everyone; You should be equal to the one you love, however temporary the relationship is. Treat each other with respect, dignity, be honest with each other, and realize and acknowledge when one or both of you have made a misstep.
Responding to the post; “60 Things Most Girls Don't Know About Guys!!”
From Lilette Brown and Tim Tasker

good point :]

[Vader]

Wow, those are ...

Totally not me. ;p

I guess I'm an abnormal one. ;p

[Klien]

I started trying to plug into this, but forget it ^^; If you want to know how I feel on some of these, just ask me via a message (PM). 56 though, I must admit, is not true o_o;; I'm very ticklish, but those don't really tickle for me. Sorry, but I'm being honest. and 20.... YES YES YES!! >_< 9/10 of my friends that are female feel the urge to not only advise, but NAG me to death until I do things their way... -gonk and twitch-

[FSNxPhantom]

I like number 20 and 65

[DDv]

Unexpectedly accurate. :)