For all guys who posted here! From a friend

[Andariel]

There is one important thing I must say here. I don’t know if this kind of topic is matching here (I mean the ask a girl topic) but I must do it for my mates (every Man in this forum who post here).

I’ve read to many of those fearful questions from many guys, like:
“Will she love me, if I be too ugly for her.”, “shall I do the first step?” or “how I speak to her?”
I don’t want to read some of those things again. You act like little girls, have some balls in your pants and go for it. Who not risk, will not win (don’t know the right pendant of this old saying).

I read now a good German book about pick up artist, and I try to understand the dynamic of society and sexual mechanics. And know I want to give you guys some helpful facts (more will follow if I read more^^ [and if you want to know what I know]).

The important rule you all must know is: “Be an Alpha”. It sounds a bit archaic and you think ‘what do you want you crazy fool?’, and all I want to say is: It is not bad at all to think like a man (some of those ‘Nice Guys’ would say “Think with you dick”) But no woman wants to share her genes with you if you don’t have some Balls!

But I must show you in which world you all live. It is a dual component world, which bound on the rules of Nature (only the strongest will survive). On the one hand there is the world of instincts, which you all have in your genes; on the other hand there is the world of mind and thoughts, where you make free decisions. And you guys must learn to connect these two worlds, and enjoy it. All women of the world already do it.

Now let me show you the next part of social dynamic. Every human on our planet is part of some groups, like: the class, the school, the baseball club, your family, your friends and something like that. You know it or you don’t but feel your rank. All of these groups have a hierarchy, and every member a rank. The best example for that is a primary school class. Try to remember: was there any democracy? Was there any equality? I don’t think so. There were one or a few guys who were the head of the class, the disciples, the followers, the alternatives and the whipping boys, which every one can beat if he wants. (Kids don’t know the “rules” where our society build on, they act with their evolutionary instincts.) This head of a group I will call ‘The Alpha’, and these Alphas can get every woman they want.

The sexuality of woman work with two rules:

To detect the man with the best genes, and have sex with him (selection)

Bound this man on herself (to protect her descendants) (Betaisation)

If a woman have bound a man on herself, control him and predict him, her sexual interests will fall to zero. He will be a Beta and she looks for a new Alpha. A woman will try subjugate an attractive man, but at the same time she hopes that she never success.


What I want to say? Be an Alpha! What is an Alpha?
The Alpha is very communicative and has a great sense of humor, so he is part of many groups and has a lot of friends. He is very self-confident, have much courage and accept responsibility. He lives his life how he wants and regulates one’s objectives. His social position is a logical order of his behavior. An Alpha never regrets his position quite the opposite, he is proud of it. He isn’t a rowdy, but if he must, he knows to protect himself. He lives his sexuality and never hides it. He never plays the servant, the therapist or the lawyer for women he wants.
This makes an Alpha very attractive for women.

Thanks to Lodovico Satana and his book =)

Appologizes for eventualy misstakes.

[mXX]

hahaha having problems?



Well seriously, its a good text for the ppl who aren't confident

[Andariel]

It was the main reason to wrote this text =D
But I don't have any Problems^^

[mysteryman]

Quote: Originally Posted by mXX

hahaha having problems?



Well seriously, its a good text for the ppl who aren't confident

People like me who mind stops when they get within 15 feet of a girl who he want to ask out

[vasivasvas]

dude 1 word :confidence

[mysteryman]

Thats hard for someone in my position to have.

[Andariel]

Its hard to have but you must think in little steps.
All what you have to do is: Go out and speak with people or be together with someone you like.
It's not Important which gender this one have (or they), you must learn to enjoy people arround you. Get a higher Rank in groups. If your behavior became totaly natural, you feel good inside of you and women see this. The most important thing you must do, speak with an girl and look everytime in her eyes (but you must use your bodylanguage too, never show her your front if you start to speak with her! Its a matter of timing).

[mysteryman]

I will take that into mind, thanks

[TheFemininja]

A few problems...

1. Define alpha. Some guys take that to mean arrogant asshole, and let me be the first to tell you that turns a lot of us off faster than you can say, "WELL, IT'S BACK TO MASTURBATION FOR ME!"

2. You can't just tell someone to BE an alpha male. We're not so stupid as to be fooled by someone who's posturing. The only thing worse than a pussy is a pussy pretending to be a badass.

3. We're not prizes to be 'stolen' from our boyfriends. Some girls don't give a shit what you have over the guy they're with, because they're faithful, and love that person. To be honest, if you can steal a girl, someone can steal her from you, because she's the type to hop from man to man. It's not of YOUR doing; it's her nature.

4. Some women don't want an alpha male at all. There's such a thing as alpha females as well. If you want to cite references in nature, do I really even need to point out how man species are dominated by their females? Females do the hunting, the gathering, the fighting, etc. in A LOT of species. Some women may follow that nature, and want a more demure man.

5. I keep saying it, but guys with your sex advice books and such never seem to listen. So I'll repeat; THERE'S NO FOOL PROOF FORMULA, OR SET TRICK TO PICKING UP CHICKS THAT'LL WORK ON EVERY WOMAN. WE'RE ALL DIFFERENT.

Grow some balls, and do it for yourself. Figure it out on your own. Be an actual man, and attract an actual woman. Not an imitation of something you read.

Christ.

[LostHope]

well...basically the text was all about "grow some balls" lady...with or without advice from some book ;)