What do girls like to see in guys? (that which isn't physical)

[Zozajieck]

I mean, not a flat chest, or guns *flexes*, but personality wise.

This thread really isn't for me, its for other guys, who keep asking sexual related questions... like "What size is "small" for you?" they're skipping steps... You're not gonna have sex with a girl unless she wants to have sex with you, and there is a certain process you have to go through in order to do that. Girls dont get as horny over guys as much as guys get horny over girls... its a fact of life...

Hell... Alot of Women marry men more for their money than their looks.

[XOTongue]

The answer most of us know is true but will never hear a girl say... " I like a guy who is a complete ass hole. I never know if I am pretty enough for him. I mean sometimes he kinda compliments me but I'm not sure if he really means it or if hes just playing with my head. He always keeps me guessing, Oh god I'm crazy about him. " This is what women mean when they say "confidence" guys. Don't "give" them any compliments, make them work for em. Best part is, the prettier they know they are, the better it will work.

[beauty_girl28]

i think that girls might want to see the persons personality to see if it suits them also i think its very important that a guy has a soft spot because the girl would think that its sweet for a guy to have a soft spot

[Sakujo]

Note: Girls don't like assholes, they like teasing, equal footing, and feeling truly appreciated (which requires the guy to not be someone who spits out compliments). No girl will stay with a true asshole unless she's been conditioned to do so.

[AgentSparq]

I'm pretty sure it all depends on the individual girl really... I can assure you that half of the girls out there would go for looks/money etc over personality and the other half would go for personality. I don't think there is one thing that every girl would go for in a guy, nor would all guys go for in a girl. XOTongue, I think you forgot to put [sarcasm][/sarcasm] around your post.

[Sakujo]

Quote: Originally Posted by AgentSparq

I'm pretty sure it all depends on the individual girl really... I can assure you that half of the girls out there would go for looks/money etc over personality and the other half would go for personality. I don't think there is one thing that every girl would go for in a guy, nor would all guys go for in a girl. XOTongue, I think you forgot to put [sarcasm][/sarcasm] around your post.

He wasn't being sarcastic. That's a common view among 'players' or weak 'pick-up artists'.

As for your statement about personality: I call bullshit. Personal experience tells me otherwise. As has been said before, "Looks fade and money runs out. Even if they remained, an asshole can't be tolerated."

[XOTongue]

Well an asshole doesn't want to be tolerated. He just wants to hit it a few times and then make it go away.