I need to get closer to someone

[darakm]

Quote: Originally Posted by jackspicer

dont hate me.... because everythign i said is true... age a little, stop living in a fantasy (stop watching alot of animes, playing alot of games, stop being on the computer too much)and experience life... you'll see that everyone is not as nice as you say they'll be... friends are only there to have fun with when you are bored not to relied on. in the business world everything is a race to the top, when a friend falls down you dont lend a hand, you just walk pass and stare.

believe me i dont need to age to know this world has ugly sides, and i met alot of people who i considerd friends, but betrayed me, i have seen some of the uglyest sides of this world, and its sad for a 17 yo.

but i also met friends that will help me and others however they can, and if someone falls, they wont walk on by.

maybe you never had a real friend that will help you when things get tough, but i had, and alot of other too.

(is it just me or im starting to sound like a 12 yo girl?)

anyway, all i wanted to say is friends (real ones) are important and not worth losing over a girl.

[obichan]

Bro code rule no. #3
Bros before hoes.
if bro a & b both like girl a then nether party will make an attempt to get with girl a unless girl a comes onto bro a/b then other bro must concede to first mentioned bro. a bypass for this rule is a challenge may be taken part in where victor bro will win the prize of girl a and the loser will take up the role of said bro's wingman.

[Kenzou]

I'm having trouble talking to girls because usually I'm shy and get all tongue-twisted and plus I never met that ''special'' one. Any advice to help my situation.

P.S. I'm new here

[darakm]

meeting someone new and clicking with them is rare, (what you call, the special someone).

best advice for you is, get over your shyness, get a lean man (a buddy to help you out), and just go one night out, and start talking to girls, show them respect, and always leave them with the impression that your the best out there, and the girls are your.

if you want to wait for the special someone, just wait, flirt with some girl friends of yours, just to brush up your skills (if you dont have, just start making female friends).

there is no trick to those things, just be yourself and open your mouth and make sure nothing come out of it other than words, thats it.

if you will be yourself the girls will pick that up, and see that your not like other guys and there is something special about you thats worth looking for.