Are these true?

tvesrb · 05-12-2008, 05:50 AM

I'd recommend the direct aproach, but if you must write a letter then just write what you feel. btw the key to having guts is to let yourself go and forget about what might happen if ya screw up, cause if ya don't you'll always be stuck in neutral

lamunphs · 06-11-2008, 10:01 AM

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Love letters is so 70s-80s man. Send her an email at least ;p.
Seriously what can you accomplish with a love letter? If you tell her your name (in most animes they never reveal their identity) she will probably ignore it (unless she is a b*tch and rub it in your face) unless you know each other and talked before. If you don't then with a little bit of luck you can get a first (blind? it depends) date but in most cases it would also be the last (again unless you talked, hanged out before).

i agree with this dude, best idea so far

Versatile. · 06-11-2008, 10:20 PM

The answers are right in front of you... now what you need to do is go ahead and do it! I can especially relate with you there because I have a low amount of confidence. You just got to get in the game...

bushidomizer · 06-12-2008, 11:26 PM

ive never written a love letter to my gf. before haha. well once during valentines day :] a little cheesy but its the thought that counts. anyways to the OP, just chillax man. youre worrying too much. just go for the letter ! if you fail on this one, then theres plenty of other girls out there. if i had thought of this approach before i met my gf, then i most likely wouldve given it a shot.

Danie · 06-13-2008, 08:02 PM

Lol I think we should all know, letters just suck.

Akazaji · 06-13-2008, 08:11 PM

my advice:
write more than 1 letter, secret admirerer style. and put in in her bag or someplace. ALWAYS THE SAME PLACE. watch her reaction and see if she asks around.

Viperus · 06-14-2008, 02:59 AM

Quote: Originally Posted by Daniel.

Lol I think we should all know, letters just suck.

Too impersonal in my opinion. That would work only if she's very shy as well.

krnxknight · 06-15-2008, 01:51 AM

I think love letters are cute and I've gotten quite a few of them in the past few years but I don't do the whole "meet me at [place] at 4" deal unless they ask me face to face.

So just walk up and ask to talk to them later if you're too scared to confess in front of people. Just don't use a proxy, most girls find that you don't like them enough to try and ask them yourself through letter, email, face2face etc.

Aimless · 06-15-2008, 01:53 PM

just go ahead and tell her face2face.

anyway, if u insist on writing a love letter, I believe there's no such thing as "rules to writing a good love letter". It depends on the girl. What matters most is your sincerity. I believe even though u end up with a letter that really sux, if the girl sees your sincerity in it, she'll appreciate it.

Cheers

leizar · 06-25-2008, 09:02 PM

From personal experience: Love letters don't work. I write few letters to girl I got crush on. I was straight <and I also wrote my name so she knew from who they were> in those letters and she dumped me via letter. I would say it was less painful. BUT LOVE LETTER GIVES GIRL MORE OPENINGS TO DUMP YOU THEN DIRECT APPROACH. That is what I think now.
I also want to say that I'm not very experienced in male-female relationships and i don't have girlfriend.

05-12-2008, 05:50 AM	#21
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06-11-2008, 10:01 AM	#22
lamunphs 0: Stranger Than You :0 Join Date: May 2008 Gender : Location: Right There!?! Posts: 1,307	Re: Are these true? Quote: Love letters is so 70s-80s man. Send her an email at least ;p. Seriously what can you accomplish with a love letter? If you tell her your name (in most animes they never reveal their identity) she will probably ignore it (unless she is a btch and rub it in your face) unless you know each other and talked before. If you don't then with a little bit of luck you can get a first (blind? it depends) date but in most cases it would also be the last (again unless you talked, hanged out before). i agree with this dude, best idea so far . SIG REQUEST! http://forum.nihonomaru.com/graphic-...abond-one.html Member of.... Spoiler!*

06-11-2008, 10:20 PM	#23
Versatile. Unknown Join Date: May 2008 Gender : Location: A place where dreams come true... Posts: 7	Re: Are these true? The answers are right in front of you... now what you need to do is go ahead and do it! I can especially relate with you there because I have a low amount of confidence. You just got to get in the game...

06-12-2008, 11:26 PM	#24
bushidomizer Valefor Join Date: Apr 2008 Gender : Location: slums of shao-lin Age: 20 Posts: 849	Re: Are these true? ive never written a love letter to my gf. before haha. well once during valentines day :] a little cheesy but its the thought that counts. anyways to the OP, just chillax man. youre worrying too much. just go for the letter ! if you fail on this one, then theres plenty of other girls out there. if i had thought of this approach before i met my gf, then i most likely wouldve given it a shot.

06-13-2008, 08:02 PM	#25
Danie Ixion Join Date: Nov 2007 Posts: 8,253 Awards Showcase Total Awards: 3	Re: Are these true? Lol I think we should all know, letters just suck. See you all in Hell.

06-13-2008, 08:11 PM	#26
Akazaji Ifrit Join Date: Jun 2008 Gender : Age: 18 Posts: 43	Re: Are these true? my advice: write more than 1 letter, secret admirerer style. and put in in her bag or someplace. ALWAYS THE SAME PLACE. watch her reaction and see if she asks around.

06-14-2008, 02:59 AM	#27
Viperus Ifrit Join Date: Jun 2008 Posts: 34	Re: Are these true? Quote: Originally Posted by Daniel. Lol I think we should all know, letters just suck. Too impersonal in my opinion. That would work only if she's very shy as well.

06-15-2008, 01:51 AM	#28
krnxknight Ifrit Join Date: Nov 2007 Gender : Location: Cot in the office Age: 20 Posts: 164	Re: Are these true? I think love letters are cute and I've gotten quite a few of them in the past few years but I don't do the whole "meet me at [place] at 4" deal unless they ask me face to face. So just walk up and ask to talk to them later if you're too scared to confess in front of people. Just don't use a proxy, most girls find that you don't like them enough to try and ask them yourself through letter, email, face2face etc.

06-15-2008, 01:53 PM	#29
Aimless Unknown Join Date: Dec 2007 Posts: 3	Re: Are these true? just go ahead and tell her face2face. anyway, if u insist on writing a love letter, I believe there's no such thing as "rules to writing a good love letter". It depends on the girl. What matters most is your sincerity. I believe even though u end up with a letter that really sux, if the girl sees your sincerity in it, she'll appreciate it. Cheers

06-25-2008, 09:02 PM	#30
leizar Radical Dreamer Join Date: May 2008 Gender : Location: Poland Age: 21 Posts: 506	Re: Are these true? From personal experience: Love letters don't work. I write few letters to girl I got crush on. I was straight <and I also wrote my name so she knew from who they were> in those letters and she dumped me via letter. I would say it was less painful. BUT LOVE LETTER GIVES GIRL MORE OPENINGS TO DUMP YOU THEN DIRECT APPROACH. That is what I think now. I also want to say that I'm not very experienced in male-female relationships and i don't have girlfriend. Spoiler!

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