[Elyamina]

My girlfriend wants a THREESOME :
Help him out

I think my girlfriend wants me to arrange her a threesome.
My girlfriend Dana and I have been dating for 4 years. A couple months back, we were sharing our fantasies with each other. It turns out that both of us think threesomes are hot. I obviously want one with two girls and she wants one with two guys. We also talked about a bunch of other fantasies. So at the end of the night, we made each other a promise: She fulfills one of my fantasies on my birthday, and I do the same for her.
So on my 25th birthday, she said she had a surprise for me at night. She brought me to a hotel and tied my arms to the foot of the bed. She put a blind fold on me and told me that she was going into the bathroom to change. I was pretty excited; one of my fantasies was to have sex while I was blindfolded. Anyways, she came out after a few minutes, climbed onto the bed and started giving me oral. It wasn’t until I was about to climax that I told her to stop. She pulled my blindfold down. The first thing I saw was Dana sitting on the chair facing the bed. I realized that it wasn’t her giving me head, but it was actually her best friend Stacy… And the rest of the night is history.
So now my girlfriend’s birthday is coming up (January 17), and I don’t know what I should do. The thing is, she’s not the jealous type but I am. Seeing her have sex with another guy would kill me on the inside, but I think I should do it for her. Also, she knows I’m physically attracted to her friend. If I were to arrange a threesome for her, I would also have to bring a friend that she thinks is hot, which is even worse. Out of all my guy friends, the only one that she thinks is attractive is my friend Greg, whom she actually dated before she met me. I would rather bring my former roommate Marc, I trust him the most out of all my friends but the problem is my Dana isn’t attracted to him.

So my questions are:
1) Is she expecting me to arrange a threesome for her as a birthday present?
2) Should I arrange a threesome for her?
3) If I should, which friend do I bring?
So far the only person that I asked was Stacy, and she does think I should arrange a threesome for Dana. Thanks, I really want know what you guys thinks ASAP. This is actually my first post because this forums seems like a really good place to get advise about awkward situations.

I think you should have thought everything through before you told her that fantasy. Sorry, but even though your the jealous type she is going to be expecting you to go through with your promise, if she wasn't jealous of you, then you shouldn't be of her.

[Christie]

I think threesome's with people whom you committed with are disgusting. There are bigger issues at stake here that need to be addressed for the relationship to last.

If I ever truly commit to someone, this would quite definitely be an instant relationship killer.

[zerox]

sorry dude looks like you're in deep shit huh

[darkhunter]

the easiest way to get out of the mess is just to go around it. so she told him that she has a fantasy for a threesome but from what i read it seems she has other fantasy's, so the easiest way is to fulfill one of her fantasy but not the threesome if he is so possessive. But hell if i really know how this will turn, the mind of a woman is tricky, us, man en general are easy to understand but woman hell if i can understand them, if they say they want something and you don't give that thing to them they will get upset and if you give them it depends on the situations you could make them happy or even worse (happend to me once). so the best thing in my opinion is to explain her the problem and decide then.

There was a joke kinda related to this: one day a guy has an accident and loses his pennis it it, but the doctor quickly finds a new one and replaces the damaged one. after a few mounts the man comes to the doctor for a check up and every thing is ok but only with one problem. when he sleeps with his wife he has a nasty fealing in his heart because of the new pennis he received.

Originally Posted by Christie

I think threesome's with people whom you committed with are disgusting. There are bigger issues at stake here that need to be addressed for the relationship to last.

If I ever truly commit to someone, this would quite definitely be an instant relationship killer.

depends on the people Christie, i have friend which i know from kindergarten and he and his wife love group sex, i personally don't know how they do it and when they started but they are happily married for 2 years (they are young like 22 my friend and his wife has 20) with one baby girl.

but i totally agree with you on this aspect but like i sayed there are people and people.

[Sword]

Well that the mother of all problems I have heard this year, but it depends on you for the solution. Your girlfriend will be expecting something for her birthday and as the last dark said fullfill her other sexual fantasy (depending if she has any other better than a threesome). But this might as well caused problems since you all ready had your threesome fantasy and may want it as well. As Dark said you could make things worst or the better, but in my opinion it only for the worst either for her or for you.

[flomaster_chan]

have fun *lol* .... *haha*

[daniel2]

Hmmm threesomes are dangerous. They kill relationships easily. I'm not lying when I say I would like one with 2 girls but honestly... with 2 guys and 1 girl it wouldn't exactly be the smartest thing to do. If your girl wants a threesome you can do this. Grab a gay friend of yours that doesn't have the hots for you and have fun with your girlfriend. Chances are shes not going to go for the other guy if hes good in the sac because hes gay.

Problem solved aye?

[Kiddu]

*sigh* not a good thing... she wants a threesome... give it to her... forget jealousy, it's no good... I bet you liked that head... you owe her man... you had a deal...

and probably she won't like it... I mean... maybe she won't like it... I'd like a threesome with two girls... but then again... I'm perverted...

[daniel2]

Threesomes suck. Period. Maybe try and coax her into something else, tell her its way harder to do then what she did to you, and that you would have issues later on with it...

Take her out to dinner or just make love to her. Don't pressure yourself to do it man, they really aren't as fun as they sound, they are for people who don't care about the people they are doing it with.

[Darkest]

Ok, what's is the point of this? The guy who posted that question probably doesn't even know we're discussing it here.

I know that question is from a section of another forum which I go to which deals with these sort of questions.

I will understand if this was a general discussion about threesomes but it seems it isn't and everyone who has replied to this thread has made comments that the person (who wrote the question) will probably never read. >_<

If someone goes to the other forum with the answers that have been replied in here I may be lenient to this, but so far, I haven't seen not one.

But apart from my rant, Merry Christmas Everyone! :3