[sasasaa]

there is a girl that i really like but i found out that she is a smoker

i myself is a non-smoker dude coz i don't want to add the head ache that i give to my mom
...but even though i know that she is a smoker i just cant simply forget her, i cant delete her to my memory
i just simply ask my self why you? why now?


...got any advice?

[Savage1]

well, I don't know if my advice helps =S but if you really do like her you wouldn't care if she was a smoker or not, ask her out xD, and you shouldn't worry about your mum, just make it clear that you won't smoke =S... or would you O.o

<- non smoker.

[galbatrox123]

ask yourself is her smoking really a problem for you. you like her and she may like you, so would you let a habit,albeit a nasty one, get in the way of y'all having a relationship. Who knows she may quit in the future, never can tell.

[ahra]

forget about it. if you can't accept her for who she really is, not worth the trouble. you'll soon find other things you don't like about her and will cause only pain for both.

oh, and first ask yourself if she's interested in you. if not, you're bothering yourself with useless problem.

yeah, life is bitch.

[Tina_1991]

So your problem is that she smokes?? I don't quiet get it. Why should your mom worry? If it's because you might start smoking because your girl is than I'll have to say: get a spine!

I as a non-smoker never had a problem with smokers. I just always told them if they want to kiss me they shouldn't have smoked for ~2 hours (chewing gum also helps) ^_^ and since smoking is generally prohibited in my house (and now in my new flat ^_^) there has never been a problem with my parents.

[Taser]

I think you should try to get her to stop smoking at one point, but you should ask her out anyways. When the time comes for her to stop smoking, get her the nicotine gum thats sweetened with sorbitol, so she goes to the bathroom a lot, then tell her its her body cleaning out toxins, and its the price for smoking : D

[Mina Toivo]

Well, it's her choice to smoke, not your's and you really can't get her to stop if she doesn't want to.
If you figure out that she likes you and you suddenly say:
"Yeah, I like you too, but I will only date you if you quit smoking."
I'm pretty sure she won't waste anymore time on you, sorry to say(:
If you've been dating for a time, she will probably figure out that you're a non-smoker and maybe stop. I don't know.

Quitting the smokes is one of the hardest things to do, so I won't bet on that she does it from one day to another.
And i mostly agree with Tina_1991 (:

[Soxx]

Well, you obviously dont like her for who she is....

so move on?

who cares if she smokes? who are you to judge her on what she does let alone base a relationship on it.

[Tina_1991]

Originally Posted by Taser

I think you should try to get her to stop smoking

Bad idea

Originally Posted by Mina Toivo

Well, it's her choice to smoke, not your's and you really can't get her to stop if she doesn't want to.

Damn right! Accept it or forget her...

[BurningSoul]

It's a bad idea to start smoking in the first place , fucking obviously .
You say you really like her ? If you really liked her , the fact that she smokes wouldn't stop you from asking her out . Who knows , she might not be a hardcore smoker to begin with . If things turn out good between you, after you ask her out you can talk to her about it and solve that "problem" .
But that's getting too ahead of your current . .situation . Which is mere hypothetical talk .