[willi211191]

hey guys!
im posting again =P
so lets get to bussiness, shall we? =P

well, this sunday, me and my female friend are going to the beach. simple you think? well, the thing is, I'm falling for her, she's great. funny, smart, cute, beautiful... theres nothing more I could ask for. so, this is the first time ill be alone around her, and i was wondering what are some things you can do, to make a good impression?
and since i THINK im getting out of the "friend zone" since whenever i hug her, she doesnt walks back, and she even hugs me from time to time, and something else I noticed today was that, well, my classmates are making fun of us (naturally the hugs), but she isnt really that annoyed because of that, but instead the fact they are making fun of us... its kinda had to explain.
anyway, what do you think? give me some tips people!

[Nored]

You should just do whatever she wants to do. If she says she wants to do something, play along. If she asks you what you want to do, be truthful-if you have no idea, say so, but in a direct manner-not a simple "Iunno" thing.

Honestly, there's not much do to at the beach without a group of people. Play in the sand? Skip stones? Play in the water? Lie in the sun?

Though, a nice, romantic walk at sunset could certainly boost your probabilities.

[ricepeas]

I live by the beach :P. anyway as nored said there is not alot to do at the beach without a group of people,besides sex in the sea(awesome!), but there is taking romantic walks on the sand, sharing memories that you had together while sitting on the sand.(sigh my mind is so perverted right now <_<) having a picnic on a bench near the beach or on the sand on a towel or something.

[Taser]

u could ask her to be ur Gf : D. just take a bunch of cadles late at night and stick them into the sand and make a heart and the words i love u in the heart. she wont be able to say no :)

[Lemnear]

Getting asked out at the beach is one of my most memorable moments. Even though I live close to the beach <15 miles its still comforting and kinda special, especially at night. Bringing along some simple fireworks (like sparklers) would be something really fun and memorable if you can swing it.

[ozakism]

Yeah, it seems like you are soon out of the "friend zone", so I just say "go for it!" :-D As for what to do to impress her, you should just be yourself, but not in a too blunt manner. I think it's best if you take it small steps at a time, and maybe see how her pace if. She might be a person that likes to do things slow or fast, so just be careful with that. Also, just relaxing on a towel together, bathing together or walk along the beach in the sunset, that's something I think sounds very romantic and memorable. If you talk to her throughly, and confess what you feel for her, and do it in a manner that shows that you have thought a lot about it, I think that should do it. (Most) Girls like guys who thinks seriously about things like this, like what you like about her and how serious you want to be with her etc. This is just my opinion, though, but what she might like and not like, really depends on what kind of person she is. You know her, so it shouldn't be too difficult to find out where her line goes. But if you don't, just take things slowly until you are sure about what to do and if you want to continue the relationship on a deeper level. Also, Taser's example was really good, I would definitively fall for that. ^O^ Anyways, good luck! :-)

[willi211191]

thanks alot guys!! your really helpful!
Thats a pretty good idea taser! might even try that.

Originally Posted by ozakism

Yeah, it seems like you are soon out of the "friend zone", so I just say "go for it!" :-D As for what to do to impress her, you should just be yourself, but not in a too blunt manner. I think it's best if you take it small steps at a time, and maybe see how her pace if. She might be a person that likes to do things slow or fast, so just be careful with that. Also, just relaxing on a towel together, bathing together or walk along the beach in the sunset, that's something I think sounds very romantic and memorable. If you talk to her throughly, and confess what you feel for her, and do it in a manner that shows that you have thought a lot about it, I think that should do it. (Most) Girls like guys who thinks seriously about things like this, like what you like about her and how serious you want to be with her etc. This is just my opinion, though, but what she might like and not like, really depends on what kind of person she is. You know her, so it shouldn't be too difficult to find out where her line goes. But if you don't, just take things slowly until you are sure about what to do and if you want to continue the relationship on a deeper level. Also, Taser's example was really good, I would definitively fall for that. ^O^ Anyways, good luck! :-)

thats one heck of a post! thanks!
yeah, even though i DO know her (we've known eachother since 4th grade, so 7 years now), ive only really talked to her since this year, even though I've liked her for about 3-4 years, so I'll take it slowly at first, then as the day ends, I could ask her what she thinks about us becoming a couple >w<
man, this sunday will probably be one of the best days in my life xD
I really cant wait!
btw, when should I ask? while walking on the beach? or lying on the towel?? I want this to be as perfect as possible!

[ricepeas]

Originally Posted by Lemnear

Getting asked out at the beach is one of my most memorable moments. Even though I live close to the beach <15 miles its still comforting and kinda special, especially at night. Bringing along some simple fireworks (like sparklers) would be something really fun and memorable if you can swing it.

15 miles is close O_O. wow i just have to walk down a hill and im on the beach.(sigh i love the caribbean ^_^)

Originally Posted by willi211191

yeah, even though i DO know her (we've known eachother since 4th grade, so 7 years now), ive only really talked to her since this year, even though I've liked her for about 3-4 years, so I'll take it slowly at first, then as the day ends, I could ask her what she thinks about us becoming a couple >w<
man, this sunday will probably be one of the best days in my life xD
I really cant wait!
btw, when should I ask? while walking on the beach? or lying on the towel?? I want this to be as perfect as possible!

3-4 years dont u think that that is a little to slow? i know from experience that waiting for that long usually tends for the girl to like someone else. And because of my perveted state of mind lately i would say while lying on the towel beacause you know... right back on track, the best thing out of the two options is how you feel and what is more comfortable for you.

[vivifc]

mh... let me think what do i know about chilean girls...
they´re very good at flirting... and.... well.... that´s all i know. O_O
did i mentioned i dont have girl friends?? and that i´m not a normal girl??
A direct aproach would work for me, but maybe a normal girl would freak out with that, and as for something romantic?? i have no idea... i´m the least romantic person alive...
i think maybe you should walk with her around the beach, talk with her, and be as gentle and nice as you can, and at the end of the date you could try to kiss her, or tell her that you like her or something alike... i imagine normal girls like that kinda things?? O_o
I´m sorry i cant be of much help but... tu pediste mi consejo... <.<

[ozakism]

Originally Posted by willi211191

thats one heck of a post! thanks!
yeah, even though i DO know her (we've known eachother since 4th grade, so 7 years now), ive only really talked to her since this year, even though I've liked her for about 3-4 years, so I'll take it slowly at first, then as the day ends, I could ask her what she thinks about us becoming a couple >w<
man, this sunday will probably be one of the best days in my life xD
I really cant wait!
btw, when should I ask? while walking on the beach? or lying on the towel?? I want this to be as perfect as possible!

Yeah, I always tend to write a lot, sorry. ^O^"
Ah, I understand. Then of course you can't know things like that. :-P But wow, for 3-4 years? I'm impresses, she really must be a special one, that girl! Anyways, even though you have "known" her and liked her for such a long time, it's still a good idea to take it slow, as you say. It may be hard, since you have liked her for that long without telling her, but it's better to take it at easy pace then scare her away, right? :-) As for where you should ask; as long as you are in private, I don't think it matter. Don't misunderstand, taking her to the beach and asking her there is a great idea, but make sure that you take her to a private place, or at least a place with less people. I think asking her while walking down the beach sounds incredibly romantic, I'm sure she will think so, too. And you know, even if you it dosen't become 100% perfect, I'm sure both of you will still memorize this moment. Another person confessing his/her feelings for you is a huge thing, so I think it will be important to her even if you don't make it 100% perfect. So don't worry about, just think of conveying your feelings to her, that's the important thing. ;-) Again, good luck, I really do hope things work out for you. (I'm sure it will, you seem like a sweet guy; go for it!) :-D