[DieHardjagged]

(If i did misspell the word women, tell me.)

Im having a Problem and lets see if someone can give me some advice.
I had once a Crush on a Girl in my School, but it failed, because of her (because she couldnt take me serious, once i told her, that i really loved her), since then, i never tried it again for a few years on any other Female Person.
That was 10 years ago.
(And now im 25y)
(I still hate her for that, but i cant forget it, even if i WANT to forget it)
Since then, i tried to "communicate" in different ways with girls, but i found out, looking into a girls face (even for a second) makes them angry or they simply laugh and walk away (dont tell me why..i dont know the reason)
I cant even start to chat with a girl (even if i have the chance to come close), because they are already annoyed when i appear and i dont know the reason today.
(Same happens, when i ask them for some help, when im lost in Town for example.)

Maybe you dont understand what im trying to say, but is there any way to solve this?
Btw, this problem drove me also in serious depression.

[Nored]

Talk to girls. It's as simple as that. Be yourself-if you need to put up an act in order to communicate, chances are that you're not going to get along very well once you get to know each other.

[NightWolves]

Always be yourself. =)

[Lemnear]

Originally Posted by Nored

Talk to girls. It's as simple as that. Be yourself-if you need to put up an act in order to communicate, chances are that you're not going to get along very well once you get to know each other.

Right on the mark, lying or trying to be something you are not will only cause problems later. Though you might be alone for longer periods of time than "players", the girls that you do meet and befriend will be much more special.

[Tomoya Kun]

I don't know you personally so I wouldn't know your attitude and appearance and such but try to give off a "good impression." Don't talk rudely or let swear words run out of your mouth every 2nd word and such. Just be yourself and if the girl likes you for who you are, then well, you've met a perfect match!

[Tsunaru]

Well, first you move one foot (doesnt matter which) in their general direction. Then you move the other. Rinse and repeat. Make sure to stop said movement about 3 or 4 feet away from them. Say hi there. Mission solved.

In other general advice, what Nored said, as is the norm for threads in this section apparently o.o

[Konradz]

All these "Talk to girls" or "Be yourself" generic, useless pieces of advice are rather annoying if you ask me. They're not helpful at all ; obviously, if you want to approach girls, you have to talk to them, and obviously it's usually better to be yourself (although you know what, "being yourself" is not really a requirement either or anything. "Being yourself" doesn't mean you're not going to act different towards girls you like, because "being yourself" might imply that.)
So let's get on with the generic, useless advice already and move on to something more interesting, which is the topic at hand. Thing is, I'm not sure if anyone read the topic or not, or anything, but OP seems to have quite an odd atmosphere around him. They're annoyed by you? Even when you haven't even started talking to them? Well, don't you have any female friends at all? If you do, then go ahead and ask them WHY girls make these faces, it's a bit odd :/ Otherwise, just ask one of your other friends, they will probably be able to help you.
Anyway, it is indeed recommended to do something against your shyness, and to forget about that girl you fell in love with so long ago! Sure, telling you "Forget it" is a bit easy, because forgetting that which seems so deep and important to you is no easy task, but "moving on" is the first important step in order to be more comfortable around the opposite gender.

Unfortunately, and just like most relationship related advice in this forum, the advice anyone here may give you will be quite vague (hence the usual "Be yourself!" stuff), but it is the only kind of advice we can give you.

[Sora_Dono]

Originally Posted by Konradz

All these "Talk to girls" or "Be yourself" generic, useless pieces of advice are rather annoying if you ask me. They're not helpful at all ; obviously, if you want to approach girls, you have to talk to them, and obviously it's usually better to be yourself (although you know what, "being yourself" is not really a requirement either or anything. "Being yourself" doesn't mean you're not going to act different towards girls you like, because "being yourself" might imply that.)
So let's get on with the generic, useless advice already and move on to something more interesting, which is the topic at hand. Thing is, I'm not sure if anyone read the topic or not, or anything, but OP seems to have quite an odd atmosphere around him. They're annoyed by you? Even when you haven't even started talking to them? Well, don't you have any female friends at all? If you do, then go ahead and ask them WHY girls make these faces, it's a bit odd :/ Otherwise, just ask one of your other friends, they will probably be able to help you.
Anyway, it is indeed recommended to do something against your shyness, and to forget about that girl you fell in love with so long ago! Sure, telling you "Forget it" is a bit easy, because forgetting that which seems so deep and important to you is no easy task, but "moving on" is the first important step in order to be more comfortable around the opposite gender.

Unfortunately, and just like most relationship related advice in this forum, the advice anyone here may give you will be quite vague (hence the usual "Be yourself!" stuff), but it is the only kind of advice we can give you.

this saved me a lot of time posting it myself i quite agree with konradz but if it is true that before you speak to girls they act like that then it has to be a physical trait or they all know someone you know that holds a grudge against you...
do you talk to persons near where you live?
or does this happen everywhere you go
if it only happens in your area(where you live)then it is some rumor about you that has been spreading
if it happens everywhere you go then its a physical trait that they cant understand(maby a mole on your face or maybe you have a lisp i dont know and i dont think anyone here should know)
think about what could be the problem and when you have the problem find a solution to it
THEN try the "be yourself" thing ^__^

[DieHardjagged]

Originally Posted by Sora_Dono

This saved me a lot of time posting it myself i quite agree with konradz but if it is true that before you speak to girls they act like that then it has to be a physical trait or they all know someone you know that holds a grudge against you...

Since i only have contact with my only friend, i dont think someone else would hold a grudge against me, because i know no one else around in Town.

do you talk to persons near where you live?

No.

or does this happen everywhere you go

Happend somewhere else too and not only once.

If it happens everywhere you go then its a physical trait that they cant understand(maby a mole on your face or maybe you have a lisp i dont know and i dont think anyone here should know)

To tell you the truth, i dont have anything in my Face, or else i would know that.
Thats why im curious about that Problem.

Well, i also found out, that i cant go out anymore without any Problem.
When im out, its fine at first, but when i come in Contact with a Mass of People im getting nervous and must then hurry to escape this at any cost.
Ive also felt, like i was loosing energy, because i felt dazzed and had nearly to go down on my kneel.
Since im getting again this Problem (which i thought i had overcome this) its now even more hard for me to try anything.
I would say im atm not mentaly fit to get a GF, since it would crush me again (if i fail again)
I already thought about, not to get a GF ever, i dont work yet, so i cant offer anything and Girls dont want to hang around with Guys who are fucking useless.

Thanks a bunch for your Answers btw..

[PunkinPnay]

they way you look as in dress and how you present yourself is another thing that might throw girls off. Obviously if someone looks dirty and comes up to you;; first reaction would be wtf is wrong with this person and most likely trying to make the coversation over as possible.

shouldn't blame the past for what's happening now. Your 25 get over it. It happend what? when you were 15. That's old school stuff. Forget and move on. (get over this and maybe your luck will improve)