[Rinko001]

time is a big thing that has ended a lot of my relationships and friendships. either i didn't have time, or there was a gap of time were either one of us weren't around each other. so my question to you is how do you feel when your girl or boy isn't around for a while, and do you get completely distant? stay loyal and wait?

another question is how do you feel when you get the responses or similar ones:

"I can't right now."
"Not enough time, maybe later?"
"I'm about to go out."
"I have to go somewhere within (x) minutes."

and so on? does it piss you off? make you want to stomp his or her face out? leave them? post how you react.


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[fooleh]

"I can't right now." -- They can't right now.
"Not enough time, maybe later?" -- They can't right now.
"I'm about to go out." -- They can't right now.
"I have to go somewhere within (x) minutes." -- They can't right now.

What is anyone supposed to feel when someone says "Sorry, not right now"? They can't -- so go do something without them. I feel nothing, to answer the question. I don't understand why you would want to "stomp" anything, which I hope was just an example and not a real intent by you. Just, you know, hang out with some other people if you're in a 'people' kind of mood -- its the way I've always done it. I've never had to end any sort of relationship based on not seeing someone enough: I don't believe people owe me their time, regardless of who they are.

[Nored]

Originally Posted by fooleh

"I can't right now." -- They can't right now.
"Not enough time, maybe later?" -- They can't right now.
"I'm about to go out." -- They can't right now.
"I have to go somewhere within (x) minutes." -- They can't right now.

What is anyone supposed to feel when someone says "Sorry, not right now"? They can't -- so go do something without them. I feel nothing, to answer the question. I don't understand why you would want to "stomp" anything, which I hope was just an example and not a real intent by you. Just, you know, hang out with some other people if you're in a 'people' kind of mood -- its the way I've always done it. I've never had to end any sort of relationship based on not seeing someone enough: I don't believe people owe me their time, regardless of who they are.

I think that he is referring to when it becomes repetitive. I completely agree with you in that no one owes anyone their time, but it does start to affect relationships when you are never around. If two people are going out, they should be able to spend at least a little time together. If you really have so little in common as to never be seeing each other, then you don't really belong together.

[Drgentile777]

My best friend always tells his girlfriend that he is busy or is about to do something in order to hang with me. I don't really agree with this, but that's just the way he is. He still loves her and has no intention of leaving her. However, I have no idea what it means when a girl says these things.