Question about Moaning (Girls Opinion please)

[Dexter32]

It´s about Moaning while having Sex. Imho, Girls might moan for two Reasons:

The first one is, they really enjoy having Sex and do it automatically.
The second one is, they normally are rather quiet during Sex and only do it, because they think they have to, or because they think it will turn on their Boyfriends.

Do you moan on purpose or for real?
Is your Boyfriend confused or feels insecure when you are not moaning? thinking that he may not please you enough?

Girls Opinions are most appreciated here^^

[krnxknight]

i think my bf does get insecure if i don't make noises, never asked him. i'll ask and reply later.

[Dark_Clown]

du stellst eindeutig zu viele fragen an die armen weiblichen mitglieder hier ^^

[Daniel.]

Dark_Clown said: You ask alot of questions about females here don't you ^^

We ajatella että on koska hän on erittäin huvittaa jokseenkin naaras- anatomia kuin me aivan aari ankea ilveillä ainoastaan koska me jälkisäädös ei koskaan olla etevä jotta kokea olemassaolo naaras- itseämme. :snicker:

~ImI

[Dexter32]

I understood Dark_Clown very well. I am a german Male, you know^^
And he said, that i am asking too many Questions. But doesn´t this Thread exist for that Purpose? for asking Questions? ;-)

and Imi....what?!?!? would you mind to translate that? :-) I don´t even know what Language this is.Looks like some sort of Scandinavian Language to me.^^

[Daniel.]

Aaah sorry I didn't realise you were German.. I didn't bother too look. Assumed Dark was being mean =D

As for the language it is my primary language. Finnish. i.e Primary language in Finland.

I said: Females are interesting specimens and this section is for asking whoever, whatever. Also that Dark should contribute to the thread once in awhile.

[reminder]

I'd feel really insecure if my girlfriend would just lie on the bed like a log and wouldn't look satisfied by my efforts.

[cinconneal]

Originally Posted by reminder

I'd feel really insecure if my girlfriend would just lie on the bed like a log and wouldn't look satisfied by my efforts.

Yes, I totally agree with that. I mean, being a guy, you have a lot of ego when it comes to how much you can fulfill your gf's needs...and moaning/noises is ONE way a girl can indicate that. (I mean...guys are pretty stupid when it comes to figuring out how a girl is feeling....XD).

Even tho I'm a girl, I can VERY easily put myself in a guy's perspective(or ANY person's perspective) and analyse the situation in many ways^^.

Anyway, to answer the question.... I think moaning/noises come automatically and should be real most of the time. It's quite a good 'indicator' of satisfaction for both the guy and the girl IMO^^~.

P.S. (Tho i may sound like i've done it b4....I actually haven't. But I read quite a bit in this area...both the physical aspects and the psychological....so rest assured that my comments are not 'imaginative' nor 'unrealistic'^^ ^^).

[krnxknight]

my bf says when i gasp is when he (his ego i'm assuming) feels best.

typically i just moan and chew on my finger so i guess i see where that's coming from.

[Daniel.]

Well when I first did anything with a girl. She moaned alot and gasped alot. I think the automatic real moaning and not the fake bullshit moaning is really good and really important. It let me know when I was being too hard or soft or whatever.
It's really handy and it made me feel like I was good at what I was doing (: which gave me the self-esteem to keep on going!