Question about Moaning (Girls Opinion please)

[Slayden]

Originally Posted by reminder

I'd feel really insecure if my girlfriend would just lie on the bed like a log and wouldn't look satisfied by my efforts.

Tut! Work on your self-esteem. And observing body language.

Like any guy, I do like a screamer, but few things will get me to quit faster than fake moaning. If a girl fakes it, I usually go limp then tenderly ask her "What's wrong?", because she usually has something on her mind that is bothering her, yet she wants to please me and doesn't want it getting in the way of satisfying my needs.

I'm a listener. I can listen to a person talk for hours without interruption and allow them to express whatever is on their mind, so I guess it shouldn't come as a surprise that a turnon for me is actually whispering. This can be an alternative for girls who don't get into moaning but still want to express what they like and dislike.

There's no bigger turnon than a girl hanging off your ear whispering "Do me this way" or "Oh yeah right there."

[Dexter32]

Originally Posted by Slayden

There's no bigger turnon than a girl hanging off your ear whispering "Do me this way" or "Oh yeah right there."

That´s totally right. I wish my Gf would do that once in a while. But i guess she is too shy to offer any wishes directly, even if i ask her. Maybe that results from her Inexperience...i don´t know.

But i know when she comes. I can feel that, because her whole Body shakes, she Gasps hard and moans. But during intercourse, she is rather quiet, but she enjoys it.

That´s why i wanted to know about moaning. Some Girls do it that loud, that you may hear her 2 Blocks away^^ and other ones are the more quiet Type. And because of that, it came to my mind that Girls may want to do it, just because they think it has to be that way, and not because they feel pleasure.

[Slayden]

To solve that, just get her to talk dirty. Next time you're going to have sex, talk dirty to each other during foreplay. Ask her, "What am I doing?" then start licking her nipple. Point to your dick and ask "What is this?" Stick your fingers inside her and ask her "And what is this?" Rub her breast and butt and ask the same questions.

Don't settle for terms like "breast," "butt," "penis" or "vagina," because in all likelihood, that is exactly what she will say. Make her say "dick," "cock," "pussy," "cunt," "twat," "tits," "ass," and whatever else you can come up with in reference to their respective parts. My first girlfriend was actually turned on by either of us saying "cunt" instead of being offended, which was a surprise to me. In any case, make it really dirty and don't settle for any less in bed.

She's going to say "no," she'll be embarrassed, and she may even hide her face while grinning, but make her say it. Clearly and audibly, even from the next room. Trust me she will get wetter and far more turned on from saying it. Also, don't give her what she wants unless she asks for it in explicit details.



This should pretty much solve your problem. I think she'll be more than happy to whisper after all this...

Hahahaha.....

:kukukuh:

[Kenadian]

Originally Posted by Dexter32

That´s totally right. I wish my Gf would do that once in a while. But i guess she is too shy to offer any wishes directly, even if i ask her. Maybe that results from her Inexperience...i don´t know.

But i know when she comes. I can feel that, because her whole Body shakes, she Gasps hard and moans. But during intercourse, she is rather quiet, but she enjoys it.

That´s why i wanted to know about moaning. Some Girls do it that loud, that you may hear her 2 Blocks away^^ and other ones are the more quiet Type. And because of that, it came to my mind that Girls may want to do it, just because they think it has to be that way, and not because they feel pleasure.

I wonder what that sounds like in German.

[Daniel.]

Proberly sounds horrible. Because German sounds horrible.
With the whole tell your girlfriend to use dirty words. I think I find more happiness in knowing that we are both mature to use and know the correct words for both our anatomy.
Usually when we do anything sexual she wont use the term at all, and just say simply, harder, faster, both etc. Because she knows I'm a smart lad and that I know what I'm doing.

[Slayden]

I've had a good home-school education and rarely swear because I know how to express myself eloquently, but in the bedroom my language changes dramatically. ^_^ I just find it a bigger turnon to use and hear such words used, and that most girls find it a turnon too. Try it sometime. Though you may be a person who remain unfazed in such an instance in which case it would be pointless. Now you have my curiosity piqued. Have you tried it but found that it isn't a turnon?

[Daniel.]

No I haven't tried it. I think we would be both a little too shy. She is only 14.

[EviL]

Originally Posted by ImI

No I haven't tried it. I think we would be both a little too shy. She is only 14.

Is that even legal?

[Kenadian]

Originally Posted by EviL

Is that even legal?

He's 16, not 40.

[EviL]

Ah hmm my mistake