Pretty big question for ladies out there.

[Foxdemon33]

I'm currently single but I've had a few girlfriends do this to me and just wonder about it so I'm asking how do you feel about it?

Say a girl is bothered by something but it wasn't the boyfriend's fault and when you try to talk to her she just says "I don't want too right now, please leave me alone." Should I leave her alone or press in and comfort her? I've always left her alone because I was afraid I might cause her more pain or something. Can ya give me some opinions on that please? :)

[Kalamadea]

Hrm, hard to say really, some would want you to press further and others mean what they say.

[Daniel.]

Lol I mean what I say. Don't bother.

[Silmeria]

tell her isnt your fault than you didnt do nothing to her, if she is a understandable person she will notice right away that you arent there to make her more mad, but this can also backfire and she can tell you to go fuckyourself.

[krnxknight]

if she says it isn't your fault, best to assume that she's mad at you. even if it isn't your fault, we like to displace our anger onto the closest thing to us. back off if she asks you but stick around; don't go wandering off to play video games or something. just hang around and maybe she'll open up.

[ClampAnimeLover]

Originally Posted by krnxknight

if she says it isn't your fault, best to assume that she's mad at you. even if it isn't your fault, we like to displace our anger onto the closest thing to us. back off if she asks you but stick around; don't go wandering off to play video games or something. just hang around and maybe she'll open up.

What she said.
When a girl means she wants to be alone, she doens't mean it. If she is bothered, she will ALWAYS need someone around to comfort and talk to.
So for the first try, if she asks you to back off, talks to her again the next time and comforts her or give her something sweet.
She will definately open up to you

[Rand al'Thor]

even if it's not me who opened that topic i thank you for the advice ^^ since i'm kinda lost in that kind of situation ( well the playing at video game while she's sad or mad didn't even come to my mind i'd never do such a thing)

[himekuma]

usually when i get mad at my bf (and sometimes it isnt his fault) he leaves me alone to cool down coz he knows i love him and will talk about it later
coz when he comes and tries to comfort me is annoys me a lot and he does that sometimes too and well he gets slapped in the head, then he goes away and comes back later and we make up
i dont know how much that helped but that's how i personally deal with it, it may not be the best way but we always work through it

[noirdeluna]

i remember well when i get mad and often wasn´t my boys course... he let me alone for a while and then he came and sometimes don´t talk to me just huge me in his arms and i was able to cry or tell him everything i want to....

even if every girl is different i think many of them need a short while to guess over things before you can ask her.....