What is LOVE to YOU?

[Daniel.]

This is mainly for ladies because most men are pretty blind when it comes to answering this one. (No offense, I'm a guy too you know).

I was thinking today talking to my girl and she was explaining a worst-case-scenario (if it was to happen) about her going to a friends tomorrow. It basically got to the subject of what if she died , and I thought well lol I'd be only hours/minutes/seconds?? behind her.

It got me thinking, when I told her that, was that what I thought love is? To not be able to go on living if someone else wasn't around?

I've quested all my life to find out the true meaning, and I think that people cannot define it by age, i.e (Your too young to know love). However it does make a difference if your older and 'wiser'.

To this day I'm sure I know what love is. Too me at least.

I've known my girl for a year and I know that no matter what I say no one else on planet earth will know what her and I have been through, so its pointless to try and explain it.

So maybe love is the ability to know the difference?

Anyway, post away.

[kiziroglu]

the further step of being "best friends".
I beleive that sexual desire doesn't have to be involved.
Because of the way I live my life, I keep my understanding of the love under the rules of logic. I don't do stupid things for her just because I'm in love with her.
That's all.

[Silmeria]

love is giving sharing with someone happy times and bad ones no matter what love is giving everything you have to one person without expecting anything in return but waiting to your feelings get anwsered thats one of the reasons one sided love never works, love is not about likeing someone enough to die if she/he dies love is about if she died you will live your life like you wanted her to live it(in pursue of happyness since we humans can never be 100% happy) love has many definitions and depends on the persons now love can be so backstabbing sometimes ...and get to another definition true love....i havent find that one yet so i cant explain it.
another there is no such thing as love at first sight just 2 idiots horny.

[emersedsin]

heh...sry,i know this is mainly for ladies, but in my opinion, the true meaning of Love varies. I've heard alot of so called definations of "love" but most of that is mushy stuff... Love is a wonderful thing not meant to be restricted to words of meaning. Some feelings cannot be explained, but must instead be understood on your own... but then, thats just my own opinion...

[darkJester]

- - - - bare with me, its gonna be a long post - - - -
i also realized that your looking more for a woman's/girl's opinion, but considering the male population on this site GREATLY outnumbers the female, u prolly won't get too much of a female response... so i'd like to give my 2 cents on the subject...

and on that note....
well, 1st off, i want to target your comment on love and age...

I'm glad that u admit that your at least somewhat clueless on the subject... though i would think most everybody is these days, regardless of age... i can tell u this though, when i was your age i thought i knew what love was, and quite some years later, i realized i was dead wrong...

Granted i know from time to time, you'll come across somebody that truly is wise beyond their years, most aren't... and what u think u know now, u'll find out later to be almost complete nonsense... u did say, "However it does make a difference if your older and 'wiser'." which is true in itself, but age doesn't grant wisdom... the experiences u have, and the knowledge u accumulate through out the years is what gives u wisdom... so what i'm getting at, is that age does matter when it comes to understanding love or anything else for that matter, but only to a certain point... and only if u take advantage of those years...

now... what is love to me....
Over the past few years, that topic really has crossed my mind a lot... i'm currently not seeing anybody at this time, but a couple years ago, i did have a GF for a while... and the whole time, i was waiting for that "Feeling" to reveal it self, but it never really did, so after some time, i decided i didn't want to lead her on anymore, and broke off the relationship... but afterwards i thought to myself, what "love" really is... or what i thought it was.... and this is what i came up with...

"Love is something u feel with every fiber of your being... something that can't be questioned... love is understanding, and acceptance.... being able compromise and go out of your way for that person.... it's being able to appreciate the little things, while making sure u don't get carried away with the BIG things... love is not knowing what to do, and at the same time having the confidence to do it despite that fact.... love is unconditional"

that's not what i believe love is, that's what i HOPE it is... cuz to be honest, i'm still very clueless on the subject of love...

on another note, i don't believe in love at 1st sight, i think for u to truly love somebody u have to love ALL of them, not in spite of their shortcomings, but because of them... and one can't possibly feel this if u don't know anything about that person....

well, i think that's it for now, i'll comment later if i get any responses to my post, if not... gg no re...

k thxs....

[Daniel.]

I'll take anyone and everyones opinion as long as you are mature enough to give answering the topic a proper go rather then to spam or post garbage.

[shahice]

for me love mean that u care for someone or other that u really like a lot even it will hurt u someday but if that will make that person happy i love to do anything for that person...

[Pekzor]

Love is when you are willing to do ANYTHING for that person for the rest of your life.
Even lowering yourself to begging, so that she will take you back. (that's the sucky part of being in love)

[rising crescent]

sex without love is only physical "desires" meaning only, cannot survive for long term, too deep with this, sex is only in animal meaning only
too much do this, it will drain your life energy,further make possibility of...death.

sex without God's Name will only Invite Heavy Punishment from God.

its true is not easy in this term because responsibility things. but these are for Good things in human itself only.

[txcforever]

Well love is the desire to be with one person and accept any faults she/he has without trying to change them. Anything else is just rubbish and just an excuse to have sex with them (which is fine by me, love is overrated now days).