fear of *cough* penetrat...

[Kenadian]

Originally Posted by reminder

PS. A little offtopic advice - sign up for some self-defense courses. If you look as a potential rape victim, this means that it might happen in the future... so better learn how to kick asses of your future offenders.

Some very good advice.

[Silmeria]

Originally Posted by reminder

You really need to visit a psychologist. They earn their money by helping people such as you.

One more thing, visit a gynaecologist as well. That pain from penetration may not be a psychological problem, it can also be a serious physical problem. Rape is not exactly a healthy intercourse, and if the rapist doesn't care... there might be some kind of damage that causes the pain.



PS. A little offtopic advice - sign up for some self-defense courses. If you look as a potential rape victim, this means that it might happen in the future... so better learn how to kick asses of your future offenders.

actually there is a antirape condom XD but its nasty against males.

[darkzero45]

Elaborate on this, "antirape condom" I've never heard of anything like it. Sounds interesting.

[krnxknight]

Originally Posted by darkzero45

Elaborate on this, "antirape condom" I've never heard of anything like it. Sounds interesting.

i do remember a device that might be similar to this antirape condom.

female assassins who were disguised as prostitutes utilised it a lot. a circular apparatus was inserted in the vagina that had razor blades affixed to it. so when the male decides to enter, his engorged member would be sliced to ribbons, causing him to bleed out very painfully.

dunno if there's a modern day version though.

[doesthislookinfected]

yeah sounds interesting..
but anyway its not nice to think that i look like "a potential rape victim" =____=" and thankies for your advices-- i will take into consideration.. everyt adivice given- cuz i wanna get a lil better this yeear :P

sometimes i wonder why i do through this kinna stuffs if i'm not even pretty lol

[Silmeria]

http://www.rapestop.net/gallery/fold...+open+position
there is the gallery and the FAQ about it.

[reminder]

Instead of actually learning something useful, you're suggesting some kind of stupid condom... sorry, but they might go anal or oral all the way, and that would leave the condom in place and the girl raped.... but it's all ok, right?

Anyway, the reason why I suggested self defense courses is because allow you to defeat 98% of potential rapists AND these courses help you to build self confidence. One of the things most attractive to a rapist - lack of self confidence. Changing that might eliminate the reason why they are so attracted to you in the first place.


Also, if you imagine the experience you might go through after the rapist realises he can't do his thing... or maybe he has some friends... well, you'd wish you were dead, that's for sure. Unless you knew how to defend yourself in teh first place.

Originally Posted by doesthislookinfected

but anyway its not nice to think that i look like "a potential rape victim" =____=

Accept it and get over it. After all, the number of times you were raped already is absurdic. Just learn how to prevent that in teh future.



PS. My first two advices, I hope that you'll try them as well.

[ZephyrBlack]

rape should be in the virtual world and are not allow in reality, if someone rape they can say so what I got condom and they get away with it.

[Silmeria]

Originally Posted by reminder

Instead of actually learning something useful, you're suggesting some kind of stupid condom... sorry, but they might go anal or oral all the way, and that would leave the condom in place and the girl raped.... but it's all ok, right?

Anyway, the reason why I suggested self defense courses is because allow you to defeat 98% of potential rapists AND these courses help you to build self confidence. One of the things most attractive to a rapist - lack of self confidence. Changing that might eliminate the reason why they are so attracted to you in the first place.


Also, if you imagine the experience you might go through after the rapist realises he can't do his thing... or maybe he has some friends... well, you'd wish you were dead, that's for sure. Unless you knew how to defend yourself in teh first place.





Accept it and get over it. After all, the number of times you were raped already is absurdic. Just learn how to prevent that in teh future.



PS. My first two advices, I hope that you'll try them as well.

you seem to be pretty dense dont you....i didnt suggest a condom...i just brougth up since PEOPLE asked for it...if you actually read the whole topic..... the advice i posted was a doctor and a sexual terapist....also lets be real against 1 guy selfdefense migth work....but you know to take 2 or more.....decent intelligence rapist would be hard she would need more than just knowing self defense more like practice the selfdefense for a longtime...even too, a rapist dont wait a woman will use selfdefense so it migth work...so if you are going for a selfdefense course go for Kenpo(controling the enemy), aikido(defending art only), jujutsu(control and some attacks to make the control easier), Dim mak(manipulation of points of pressure also called okinawa karate) or Tang soo do i dont recomend this last one is more like a heavy martial art.

[reminder]

Originally Posted by Silmeria

you seem to be pretty dense dont you....i didnt suggest a condom...i just brougth up since PEOPLE asked for it...if you actually read the whole topic..... the advice i posted was a doctor and a sexual terapist....

...and that was a good advice.

Originally Posted by Silmeria

also lets be real against 1 guy selfdefense migth work....but you know to take 2 or more.....decent intelligence rapist would be hard she would need more than just knowing self defense more like practice the selfdefense for a longtime...even too, a rapist dont wait a woman will use selfdefense so it migth work...

With proper training, even an average fighter can take down three people without any skills. Mainly because they follow easily predictable patterns. You might want to know that...

Originally Posted by Silmeria

so if you are going for a selfdefense course go for Kenpo(controling the enemy), aikido(defending art only), jujutsu(control and some attacks to make the control easier), Dim mak(manipulation of points of pressure also called okinawa karate) or Tang soo do i dont recomend this last one is more like a heavy martial art.

A good advice. After all, some styles are better for defense than others.