How easily do you fall in love?

[Slayden]

I have a question for everyone here, and it regards love not lust. Do you clam up when it comes to love? or do you quickly fall in love with someone who may or may not be good for you? And how loyal are you? Are you basically noncommittal even in a relationship? or are you strictly monogamous in your relationships?

[Daniel.]

I don't think I can say when your talking about how "easy"... I wouldn't know where to start or what to talk about. I fall in love when I am in love...

I suppose I could say that when I fall in love that it doesn't happen often.

[Slayden]

Er... I used the wrong word. I should have used "quickly" instead of "easy." How quickly do you fall in love?

But I guess you already answered that one, ImI. How about loyalty?

[Silmeria]

well lets see i am an asshole in general and most of the time i dont let people talk to me to much.....so bassically i choose very carefully wich people i want to talk with and that goes for when i want to talk to a woman....so how often not very often actully is rare.....wich so far that i have fall in love in all my life...2 times..other GF where just lust...how loyal? to much that it sickens my partner i would say...when i say that loyal lets put it simple...i stop talking to my other female friends(like90% of them) to not make my loved one feel jealaous that i am not putting attention to her, also i stop going out to much to spend more time with her...this is the main reason those 2 relations for me havent worked...overcaring for my loved one is BAD.

[DDv]

I don't fall in love at all.



Don't ask...

[kiziroglu]

well, I've had a feeling lots of times. so this feeling happens pretty quickly.
But I've falled in love only once. It was.... well it started with the same quick feeling, and in 3 weeks, became love. I'd call that quick, but I just don'T like spending too much time wandering around, I just get things done asap.

[Dark_Clown]

Originally Posted by DDv

I don't fall in love at all.



Don't ask...

same here ...

[Daniel.]

How loyal am I? I've never ever cheated on any of my girlfriends, I couldn't bring myself to even think about another girl, when I see other girls in town all I see is my girlfriend in them. So I cant even look at another girl. It's a blessing, or a curse. I really don't know.

But as for my loyalty I could never imagine being unfaithful.

As for how quickly I fall in love, I still can't really answer that. Things take time but I really don't know, it depends on alot of variables, like if she feels the same way about me etc. Age, looks, the amount of time we spend together.

[rising crescent]

what difference between love by lust, with lust with true love?