dont normally ask for advice but anyways

[eaz51]

well anyways ive know this one girl for a while now really liked herm dont wanna say love cause that got me in a lot of trouble before. Anyways i asked her out and everything we were going out for a few weeks and i found out that the past year and a half that ive known her she has been lying to me about her age cause last year she said she was 17 going to be 18 this year and well she's really 15 going to be 16 this year and its a relationship that im not really in for the sex really (of course if it didnt happen for a year or two then id be pissed) but as well im not asking for relationship advice (i have plenty of experience for my age thats why) or anything just how to aproach it cause im at a complete blank

[AmSidar]

I am not sure i understand... she lied to you about her age and now you have to wait...

what's your priority? Do you like here would you wait... or no mater...

Some things or person is worth to wait for, what do you think is she worth?
And about the lie... many time did i hear or experience same stuff, some ppl want to have relationships but are to young and lie... is she others trustworthy? If yes then i would say let this slide...

[eaz51]

thats the major problem i like her enough to wait but im in contemplation of weather or not i should really thats all after being lied to, i know that everything else thats she told me is the truth cause i actually found this out from one of her friends and they confirm everything with me and i also know a ex of hers, idk really ive really just in the past year and half went through a life changing experience that has made me have a completely alternate opinion on women completely and this right here is actually my 2nd real relationship even though ive had several gf's in the past the whole trust issue and letting things slide and everything is drawing a blank in my mind cause i normally would of in the past of kicked her to the dirt already but im opening my mind to other things and im just trying to understand it all i guess in a way when it comes the whole trust thing and what can and cannot slide

[AmSidar]

Think this is one what can be forgiven... and more like if she is others a trustworthy. If you can manage i would ask her to why she did what she did... it easier to decided that way... but that's a double-edged sword... if done wrong way she can get angry at you or just think you really don't trust here and the hole thing does not worth all of it and break up... but that's the worst scenario...

[eaz51]

thx appreciate it a lot + rep

[AmSidar]

no problem....

[Daniel.]

If she actually was fond of you she wouldn't lie. By lying shes basically thinking that your an idiot who is too dumb to find out the truth. Also man it sounds like your only in it for the sex and that your lying to yourself when you say that your not.

Honestly, I think you need to grow up before you attempt a proper relationship.

[AmSidar]

You are to rigid Daniel, if she only did it once then she may had done it cause something else then that.
You should first always get all the facts before you do something... others it will end bad.

[bushidomizer]

well one things for sure. you have to wait. i mean if you dont, thatd be statutory. which is a big no no. but if YOU think shes worth the wait, then wait :) it doesnt matter what others think. also, if you do in fact love her, you wouldnt have to go and confirm whether what shes saying is true or not with her friends.all we can do is give you advice. but ultimately, youre the one thatll make the final choice :] good luck friend !

[eaz51]

Originally Posted by Daniel.

If she actually was fond of you she wouldn't lie. By lying shes basically thinking that your an idiot who is too dumb to find out the truth. Also man it sounds like your only in it for the sex and that your lying to yourself when you say that your not.

Honestly, I think you need to grow up before you attempt a proper relationship.

i found out why she lied about it from her alright, its because of the fact that she hates dating guys her own age cause most of them are too immature in her opinion for her and i can understand that, and ive had a long proper relationship before that last nearly 2 years and just ended a few months ago

Originally Posted by bushidomizer

well one things for sure. you have to wait. i mean if you dont, thatd be statutory. which is a big no no. but if YOU think shes worth the wait, then wait :) it doesnt matter what others think. also, if you do in fact love her, you wouldnt have to go and confirm whether what shes saying is true or not with her friends.all we can do is give you advice. but ultimately, youre the one thatll make the final choice :] good luck friend !

and thx man im gonna wait till she's 17 at least, ive decided and to show her that im not in it just for the sex involved in the relationship im gonna go back out with her then to show her i can wait the entire year at least, and also cause im on probation still for the next 4 months so that really wouldn't look good, idk how easy its gonna be but if i stil feel the same when im 20 thats what will happen