I don't know really what is going on right now...

[random2361]

I would like to think that I'm in a weird situation right now. I moved from a different state to another (US) and I met this girl. We went out and it was great...then it fell apart and we just stayed friends. We still talk about the situation between us now and then. When it comes though to a decision to take her back....all I can do is blank out. I can't say no and I can't say yes to her. She has moved on and found someone else but everyday she keeps complaining about his flaws and swears to brake up with him but she's been on about this for months now and there hasn't been a change between the two of them. Am I this way because I'm just jealous? Or is there something else?

[SailorRi]

uh...well i think the girl is wanting you back. maybe you should ask her what would happen if you two got back together. then maybe you will know what to do. i mean do you still like her do you want her back? it's all up to you, but i really think she wants to be with you and she's just waiting for you to do something to get her back.

[Daniel.]

Ditch the chick. Theres nothing more boring this listening to chicks whine and cry about their guys. Especially if you want the girl yourself.

[Dark Akuma]

You won't let go. Let go and just be friends before you end up hurting your feelings,and destroying your friendship with her.

[krnxknight]

Originally Posted by random2361

Am I this way because I'm just jealous? Or is there something else?[/i]

I'd say it's because you still have feelings for her but don't want to get in the way of her new relationship. her complaining to you about her bf is because she values you as a friend who can support her. if she does break up with him, it doesn't mean she will go back to you, she might just move on and you're still on the bench waiting.

go back out there and get in the game =)

[Silmeria]

is actually hard to get her back.....i mean after she broke with you for a special reason she didnt like

[MMao]

itz juz an illusion in my opnion, guezz u type of guy who can't simply forgot something tat happen 2 u tat fast. Itz juz coz u once luv her so even now u break up with her she'll still on ur mind

if u want 2 make up with her again, think first the reason u guys break up, simply learn from the mistakes. And no need 2 rush, think calmy and b cool lolz, beauty womans isn't only her rite???

[dragoncrusher]

is because your jealous... you need to take action before anything bad would happen, he is doing this just to get you back, by her side.

[random2361]

Originally Posted by Silmeria

is actually hard to get her back.....i mean after she broke with you for a special reason she didnt like

Now you see we didn't break up cause it was my fault or her fault, we broke up because of one of our friends involvement with us. Long story short, the person who introduced me to her kept getting involved in negative ways and eventually we just grew apart.

[vengeance]

Originally Posted by random2361

Now you see we didn't break up cause it was my fault or her fault, we broke up because of one of our friends involvement with us. Long story short, the person who introduced me to her kept getting involved in negative ways and eventually we just grew apart.

Well if thats the case, then there's still hope for you. I get the feeling that deep down inside you want her back but a part of you don't want to get involved. Thats why you can't give a yes or no answer. You really have to ask yourself.........Do you still have feelings for her and willing to be back with her. But If your feelings are just haft ass, then it probably won't work, you as whole have to agree, there can't be any doubt, other wise it'll fall apart. Its that simple. Best of luck to ya.