Do you think being nice is creepy?

[Hunter L]

ok here's a question mainly for ladies but anyone can answer this is being nice to girls a creepy thing or should more guys try it me personally I like being kind and nice to the ladies

[AmSidar]

I like if someone is natural whit me, not puts up the "wonderful boyfriend material" facade! So i dont find only later out when we go out what defects he has. But i guess i am alone whit this.

[Hunter L]

I think I see where you're comming from I didn't mean like super wonderful just you know nice always willing to listen and that sort of thing

[AmSidar]

Oh ok then yes, its good... i mean its not creepy if he can make it natural.

[Hunter L]

LOL thanks I always say sorry for anything even the smallest things would you think that's strange?

[Kalamadea]

Maybe the apologizing for everything... If it's not your fault don't apologize, of course there's like being courteous when a stranger bumps into you and you both say sorry even if it's one person's fault.

[AmSidar]

Originally Posted by Hunter L

LOL thanks I always say sorry for anything even the smallest things would you think that's strange?

It can get irritating after some time. >.> Even more if i know you are not fault and you still apologize. >.<

[Hunter L]

I can see what you mean I ask this because I used to do that alot
but let's get back on topic where do you draw the line when being nice
such as if a guy brought you a bear with candy on the first date is that too much or what?

[krnxknight]

if it's a cute teddy bear i'll take it! =D

but showering me with gifts...i'd feel uncomfortable because then it might look like i'm only with him for the presents.

of course, it's always easier to ask someone to stop buying so many presents for you than to ask them to buy you more.

[Daniel.]

How can kindness be creepy?