Do she like me?

[tmmyjames]

I don't have many crushes or alot of girls, but this one girl is my second one. I met her in class. My friend was tryin to get at her and she started sitting next to my group, next to me. When he was rejected or gave up since she had a boyfriend she still sat next to me. I had no intrest in her then. We started hanging out in class and I started to kick it with her around place like my house, IMing each other, and talkin on the phone for hours then one day she came to my house til night. She trusted me and told me she had these feelings about dating other people before she met me becuase she only had one boyfriend so far. She wanted to date and chose me but everytime she would say yes she would think about it and reject me later. She told me in her mind when she is with her boyfriend somehow I pop up in there. She called me one day and told me that she doesnt know if she likes me so she decided to stay with her first love and keep me as a friend. I dont know whether she still likes me or not because she cant make up her mind about things.

[Dark_Clown]

sorry to tell u but u are only a friend most likely never anything else ...

[Arika]

DC don't be harsh haha, hmm have you ever though about kissing her ? Why not try that and see if she will accept it or not, that is how you will know, most females need a little bit of out going guys, I myself like guys like these, i don't prefer shy guys. too boring :O I need someone that knows how to handle situations like these and know what they are doing, i guess it is all up to your characteristic.

[Dark Akuma]

The girl seems like she can't make up her mind. Either that,or she just sees you as someone she can confide in.

[tmmyjames]

Its true, she cant make up her mind. I remember one time where we went to go eat and she took like 10-15 minutes just to figure out what she wanted to eat. As for being shy I remember one time we were hanging out, we were sitting around a table and she was sittin next to me and she grabbed my hand for some reason and I grabbed her hand and put it on my theigh just to see what she would do. Well, she didnt smack me or get mad. Her hand was still there for like 5 seconds.

[Kenadian]

Don't bother screwing around with it anymore, it sounds like you'll only give yourself more trouble and possibly get fucked over in the end.

[ANBU]

Originally Posted by Arika

DC don't be harsh haha, hmm have you ever though about kissing her ? Why not try that and see if she will accept it or not, that is how you will know, most females need a little bit of out going guys, I myself like guys like these, i don't prefer shy guys. too boring :O I need someone that knows how to handle situations like these and know what they are doing, i guess it is all up to your characteristic.

whaaa! im a kind of a shy person >:(, havnt u ever heard the saying "the shy ones are the worst" we are the ones that turn out more flexible in any situation that most people because if u give us something to feed off of, u might regret it xD.

but anyways to adress the topic i say try admin-san's theory though i do think it sems a bit anime-ish lol (saw something lik that in peach girl xD) try being more seductive w/ her, be more touchy feelly and then through all that build up lay her a big wet one

[Silmeria]

how about pressure....i tend to manipulate people with pressure sometimes normally it backfires 60% of times...but if it works you will be happy..its never good to put pressure on a girl but make her decide and stop beating around the bush.

[redschythe]

Originally Posted by tmmyjames

She called me one day and told me that she doesnt know if she likes me so she decided to stay with her first love and keep me as a friend. I dont know whether she still likes me or not because she cant make up her mind about things.

...i gues when they say if a girl see you as a friend then you'll always be a friend...
i'm in the same boat as u. she also dated one of my friend now she's hanging out with me...i prolly try to ask her out on a real date and if she said no we'll prolly stay friends.

[dragoncrusher]

well you'll just have to wait and see what happens next