Do she like me?

[darkzero45]

True. If the other person starts acting like you bother them then you just talk about it though. That's what I would do.

[Dark Akuma]

Originally Posted by darkzero45

I don't think you should give up. Keep trying.

Don't give the kid blind hope. That's dangerous.

[Silmeria]

Originally Posted by darkzero45

True. If the other person starts acting like you bother them then you just talk about it though. That's what I would do.

wich it would leave him at the same spot...get another girl...you are gonna get rejected if she thinks you are bother now..... XD

[darkzero45]

Dark Akuma
Don't give the kid blind hope. That's dangerous.

I'm not giving him blind hope. It's a suggestion that may or may not work.

[Silmeria]

its not exactly a blind hope but still has a very low success rate so almost same thing, you are better finding a fresh girl.

[amaibiru]

Dude you have sorta the same problem as i do, i had met this girl long time ago and we were hella chill and chattin on the phone and hanging out and stuff. till she got a bf (lol) but that still didnt get me to stop liking her. well what i wanted to know is if she liked me even though she had a bf.. she said yes but shes a real commited to a relationship so she wont break up with her bf to go out with me. even though she had a bf ( i may be the bad guy in this situation) i had ask her several times if i can go over and see her. she said sure and we ended up making out and have sex. but that just made stuff worse after the bf found out.. so our relationship (friend) wasnt really working out and still isnt. we just talk off and on when were comfortable. SO ask her if she likes you or if it seems like shes ignoring you i would say forget it.. you lost but if you really like her that much and you think you may have a chance.. stick with it till you really know..

[VectorBoard]

In my experience girls who have a shakey relationship with their BF and end up breaking up, most likely they will get back to him.
Forget the girl and save yourself the heartache.

BTW asking a girl/boy is she likes you is the mother of all bad ideas, not only does it break you but you won't be able to face her/him in quite some time; specially if they're a classmate.

[tmmyjames]

Well, its over. She chosed him. School started and we have the same class. She aint talked to me in class. The next day I asked her what happened and why isnt she talking. She said she feels weird around me even though nothings happened between us. I offered my friendship and she rejected it. Yea so im done wit her. I got rid of everything that reminded me of her.

[darkJester]

mmmm, i remember those days.... as i was reading your post and all the replies i thought of a similar situation that happened to me back in the day....

not sure how old u are, but i'm assuming you're in high school or or at least around that age... n e wayz, i know its a little late, but here's my advice... she's just as confused as u are, well either that or she gets a kick out of stringing people along.... either way, if it's meant to be, it'll happen on its own, and u shouldn't stress over it too much... its best not to take things too seriously at this point in your life, just have fun with your friends and at least devote a little bit of time to your studies.... (u know for the whole future thing) having a gf is nice, but don't go out of your way to find your true love, least not at that point in your life....

my past experience was very similar to what u went/are going through right now... i even did the same thing u did after it was over, ( the getting rid of everything that reminded me of her) thing... i just can't stress enough though that u can't let this sorta thing get to u too much, things like this situation are actually more common than not in junior high, high school, and even college.... and if u take things too seriously, it'll only cause u harm, and even maybe change u for the worst....

hmmm, this may just sound like rambling from a crazy person, or maybe u might find what i said helpful, either now or maybe later on in life..... either way i felt i had to put in my 2 cents...

k thxs...

[tmmyjames]

Originally Posted by darkJester

mmmm, i remember those days.... as i was reading your post and all the replies i thought of a similar situation that happened to me back in the day....

not sure how old u are, but i'm assuming you're in high school or or at least around that age... n e wayz, i know its a little late, but here's my advice... she's just as confused as u are, well either that or she gets a kick out of stringing people along.... either way, if it's meant to be, it'll happen on its own, and u shouldn't stress over it too much... its best not to take things too seriously at this point in your life, just have fun with your friends and at least devote a little bit of time to your studies.... (u know for the whole future thing) having a gf is nice, but don't go out of your way to find your true love, least not at that point in your life....

my past experience was very similar to what u went/are going through right now... i even did the same thing u did after it was over, ( the getting rid of everything that reminded me of her) thing... i just can't stress enough though that u can't let this sorta thing get to u too much, things like this situation are actually more common than not in junior high, high school, and even college.... and if u take things too seriously, it'll only cause u harm, and even maybe change u for the worst....

hmmm, this may just sound like rambling from a crazy person, or maybe u might find what i said helpful, either now or maybe later on in life..... either way i felt i had to put in my 2 cents...

k thxs...

Hah! Yep you sure are late, but its all good. I related to your post the most. I also thought that she was confused or liked messin wit people's emotions. Im good on my end. I aint the suicidal type cuz Im too goofy to be that way and plus I drown everything out with music just until I meet another...dont know how long that its gonna take. Im still the fun goofy person before this happens.