What bodily features do girls like on guys???---Girls opinion preferred (obviously)

[LightElf]

I realized that there were quite a few threads regarding face, breasts, long/short hair, etc., but most tended to be focused on what men thought on girls.

So I'd like to raise the question, whether girls have any sort of "preferences" on a man's features? Like would girls like it if a man is tall? If so how tall? Do girls like men with some sort of "manly" bodily build-up? Like having a wide shoulder, good body-build-up of muscles etc (not excessively of course, but at least show some decent "packs" at least???). I also often hear some girls talking about how "handsome" some guy is, but what exactly is meant by "handsome"? I know that its definition is good-looking and attractive, and that different people probably have different tastes, but just as a general outline. What other features would you kinda "prefer" your BF to have???

I feel stupid asking such trivial questions, but in reality you get to see a person's outsides first, and it would not be good to start off with a bad first impression. I know that what really "counts" is the inside, but I just got curious...

[Hinode]

umm what about the gay guys they should be able to say to right ? just wondering cas thay might feel left out

[LightElf]

I am not saying that men shouldnt make any comments, guys who know a woman's psyche very well (like Slayden), may certainly know something about what girls like on men.

And well errrr...well I am not gay, so I am rather interested in what girls have to say in regards to the issue at hand.

[Hinode]

true i see your point well ok then oh and for the record im not gay im bi lol just incace you wore thinking otherwise

[pretmaker]

I as a boy who loves girls found that some boys where attractive on these features.

* Not macho
* Not overly muscles
* No glasses
* Lovely hair (Not to long but deffiniatly not short)
* Well build regarding to the widht (Large shoulders to carry the weight of love and troubles)
* The legs should be strong enough to carry both.
* The arms should be strong enough to carry me or some heavy stuff that must be carried.
* The waist should not be to slim... If you see the ribs then it is hopeless in my opinion.
* It should be a strong body that can wear the emotional problems and the body.
* The face should shine enough courage needed and also self confident.


Basically I do not want to have a ultra skinny body builder who has to much testerone in his body. I would rather have a more modest type who is self confident and has enough power that is needed in daily life.

But that is the thing that I as a boy would like to see in other boys that would make me interrested in them.

Girls also fit the same categorie for me but I like girls more becaus of their reproduction capabilities and a few other things that I can not explain with just the body. But I like girls more then boys again........

(pretty hard to justify if you are replying to this topic while being a boy :P)

[Daniel.]

pretmaker pretty much summed it all up there. Most females just like a normal body.
With maybe a bit of work done on it, so bigger then normal muscles.
You'll have to ask your girl what she likes. (when you get one).

[Slayden]

Originally Posted by pretmaker

* Not macho
* Not overly muscles
* Well build regarding to the widht (Large shoulders to carry the weight of love and troubles)
* The legs should be strong enough to carry both.
* The arms should be strong enough to carry me or some heavy stuff that must be carried.
* It should be a strong body that can wear the emotional problems and the body.
* The face should shine enough courage needed and also self confident.

All these things are true, and I'm sure most girls will happily concur.

Originally Posted by pretmaker

* No glasses

Not. True. At. All.

A guy wearing thin- or wire-framed glasses can look just as good as, and in some cases, better than guys that don't. Alexis Denisof for example:

Spoiler!

Originally Posted by pretmaker

* Lovely hair (Not to long but deffiniatly not short)

This is addressed in the "Long Hair or Short" thread, and it really depends on the guy's face. Some girls like very short hair, some like very long hair (if he can pull off the look), some like medium. So it really depends on the girl, but I'd say most like a good head of hair styled correctly that compliments a guy's face.

Originally Posted by pretmaker

* The waist should not be to slim... If you see the ribs then it is hopeless in my opinion.

Eh. Yes and no, but mostly yes. This again depends on the girl though. A thin waist is ok if he's got at least some lines on his stomach (a light six-pack or better). As far as the rib thing goes, I have a huge lung-capacity and therefor a large ribcage. Even in tip-top shape, the two tips at the bottom of my ribcage point out a little, and girls usually trace their fingers around one or both, which kinda tickles.



Ok. What girls physically like in a man. Face comes first, just as men always go for a pretty face first in women. As for the body, I would say guys are quite lucky because girls' preferences on the male body type tend to be a little more flexible than what guys like on girls. Girls won't mind a little extra fat on a guy and it won't really affect his image. 10 lbs (5 kg) or so overweight won't bother a girl, but 30 lbs (14 kg) or more is pretty gross (though many women are willing to overlook it if he has a great personality).

A big penis does wonders too. Ha ha ha ha ha!

*opens a can of worms*

[toadvine]

From my experience it really just depends on the girl - they've all got different tastes, just like we do (simple example: blond hair does nothing for me but other guys go nuts for a blond lady.) Some will find a man attractive even as their friends are repulsed by his looks.

You'll never get two people to agree that "yes, *these* are the features that make someone physically attractive." Aside from obvious matters of taste, many people will fetishize something (glasses, hair type, muscles - one girl I know is absolutely obsessed with collar bones, for some reason.)

Ever notice how no matter how unlucky someone was with genetics, almost everyone gets hooked up at some point? Somewhere, there are people who will find ANYTHING attractive. I'm pretty sure it's a correlation to rule 34.

[leonalchemist]

56X! lol, its like BanKAI! kaboom! omg, thats enough training for the week, pant pant. :3

[krnxknight]

Originally Posted by LightElf

I realized that there were quite a few threads regarding face, breasts, long/short hair, etc., but most tended to be focused on what men thought on girls.

So I'd like to raise the question, whether girls have any sort of "preferences" on a man's features? Like would girls like it if a man is tall? If so how tall? Do girls like men with some sort of "manly" bodily build-up? Like having a wide shoulder, good body-build-up of muscles etc (not excessively of course, but at least show some decent "packs" at least???). I also often hear some girls talking about how "handsome" some guy is, but what exactly is meant by "handsome"? I know that its definition is good-looking and attractive, and that different people probably have different tastes, but just as a general outline. What other features would you kinda "prefer" your BF to have???

I feel stupid asking such trivial questions, but in reality you get to see a person's outsides first, and it would not be good to start off with a bad first impression. I know that what really "counts" is the inside, but I just got curious...

Before i start; lol @ slayden's big penis :3

Everyone has different preferences, I for one have this fetish for soft hands (my bf has ridiculously soft hands; they're softer than mine and he doesn't moisturize! that fscker)

handsome is different in each society too; i hope you're not somewhere where unibrows are sexy.

anyway, if you don't fit your area's traditional hawt guy image, you're going to have to go on fetishes and actions for first impressions.

as for what i prefer my bf to have, i'd prefer that he had longer hair and a physique to match his strength. he's got no 'pack' and his muscles are only apparent in his arms. always a surprise for the ppl that think they can push him around to get closer to me. he can easily carry me around (and once carried my dad around *shudder*), which is always fun <3