What bodily features do girls like on guys???---Girls opinion preferred (obviously)

[takeya]

Yea girls confuse the HELL out of me. Apparently I'm alright by at least one girls standards. But I am single ladies!


But everyone who said every girl is different got it. I actually fall into most of that list and I dont exactly have girls swarming me. [I live the "brotherly" curse]

But I always thought It was more personality than looks. Looks only make first impressions. And apparently "chestnut" eyes rank high. [DAMN MY BLUE-GREY EYES!!!:imc: :P]

[Slayden]

Originally Posted by takeya

Yea girls confuse the HELL out of me.

Every time a guy says this, I feel more alone. :(

Originally Posted by takeya

And apparently "chestnut" eyes rank high. [DAMN MY BLUE-GREY EYES!!!:imc: :P]

LOL Hazel eyes (the real name of chestnut-colored eyes) are appealing because they are light. All light or distinctly colored eyes are appealing, including your blue-grey eyes. I have green eyes for example, that sometimes turn blue or hazel under the right lighting or background. My cousin thinks it's fascinating, and has had me put on different colored shirts and shined lights in my eyes just to watch them seemingly change. lol

Originally Posted by takeya

[I live the "brotherly" curse]

LOL A classic! You're being TOO kind, to the point of wussiness. Gentlemanly is one thing, but girls don't want a suckup. Sorry if this sounds like a harsh diagnosis, but there is a very simple cure. You just need to be more assertive. Start asking, or rather, telling her what you want of her. Instead of asking her whether or not if she would like to go out with you, reverse it, telling her "I'd like to go out with you" or "I want to see you some time. When are you free?" But these are just examples. Use that train of thought and she'll be yours.

[krnxknight]

Originally Posted by takeya

But everyone who said every girl is different got it. I actually fall into most of that list and I dont exactly have girls swarming me. [I live the "brotherly" curse]

But I always thought It was more personality than looks. Looks only make first impressions. And apparently "chestnut" eyes rank high. [DAMN MY BLUE-GREY EYES!!!:imc: :P]

look at it this way, once you get a gf, you'll save her headaches when other girls don't swarm you...

and she won't have to murder anyone; prison is generally bad for relationships.

[takeya]

HAHA I love the responses. This is too awesome.

First, my eyes also "change" color. I love it. Too cool.

You guys are the best. I can see your points too. I would just like to point out that I am in now way a suckup. What I really have going against me though is I am EXTREMELY introverted so first impressions are hard for me to make unless I am HEAVILY inebriated.

BTW I have had girlfriends in the past.


Wow... Off topic. Sorry everyone...

[zaty]

what i like to see on guys? :kukukuh:

these are what i tend to look for/at :

for physique, preferably taller than me or the same height, but the weight is none to extreme. like, extremely skinny or extremely big is a no-no for me. i like chubby-ish guys, but thin guys are nice to look at too. heck, i even like androgynous-looking guys (and androgynous girls, but let's not get to that ;P)

i think hairstyles/color depends on the guy himself, but long hair doesn't usually suit guys (1. they don't maintain it well, 2. doesn't suit their face shape), tho it does for some. as for eye color... well i prefer guys with light-colored eyes (blue, brown, green, gray, whatever).. because i'm used to seeing ppl with dark eyes (being an asian and living in asia for most of my life). it's refreshing to see various colors ^_^

however, the first thing you see when you look at the person is the overall appearance, eg. 'handsomeness'+'cleanliness' etc etc. my taste is pretty varied, almost extreme, even, for some. i like gothic-ish guys, withdark attire, piercings, eyeliners and whatnot, and yet i like looking at guys who look like the studious type/nerdy. sometimes the clothes can enhance a person's body, or really make you look weird. of course comfort should be the most important factor to choose what you wear, but a little dash of style magic can work wonders on your confidence =)

oh, and this is quite my own personal thing, but i like to look at guys' hands. and smile. and speccies. hehehehehe ok, TMI ;P

but in the end, like takeya says, it's the personality that counts. appearances wither over time, but personality can live out till you die. like my mom keeps reminding me, "let your eyes hurt a little as long as your heart doesn't".. or something along those lines. heheheheh.

[takeya]

I dont know why but I had this girl who said she loved it when I blushed. She said it was cute. Is this somewhat widespread or just a quirk?

[zaty]

i think guys blushing are cute. maybe not all girls think so, but so far i think it is noticable, in a positive sense. =)

[AdamLong]

As people have said it depends really. Although people who focus on just looks alone most likely won't have a good relationship in the end. I swear there's this secret aura that negates all my normal judgemental skills when around attractive people. Well, not me personally *cough* but I mean in general. I guess my point is looks aren't everything and those who think so are doomed to medocrity.

...Although looks certainly help. But a personality is a huge plus.
Preferabbly it has to be someone with the facade of wood. I absolutely love boring people. They're so much more...fun to read. </sarcasm>

[ddemon007]

There are color contact lenses for the eyes but ppl...
has any1 mentioned the how the age should be? xD
...like i prefer slightly older women (1-3) years older than me :P

[AdamLong]

With age it depends, really, but personally I prefer people within my age group. Although some of them certainly aren't mature >_>