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- 08-26-2014, 03:39 PM #1
Need advice pls D:
Alright.. How should I start.
It's been almost 5 years since I last talked to this girl from elementary/high school.She is 2 years younger than I am. Couple days ago I see her online on facebook; checked her profile and to be honest.. I really liked what I saw. Now my question is... how should I start building a relationship with this person..? Or am I just being foolish and wasting my time because right now I really have no idea what to do. We used to attend school together, but we only said hi to each other most of the time when we crossed. At this moment I have no idea what she does or what she is up to. All I saw was her profile picture and my first response was "Damn she sure is attractive"
I don't want to sound desperate or thirsty, but are my intentions wrong here? I want to at least try and ask her to be my girlfriend someday, but right now I have to idea what to do or how to start. Please any advice will really help.
PS: I never dated anyone or have any experience on getting a girl... I know i might sound like a loser right now but.. every time I see a girl I have the "Ahhh... She is too good for me, I'll will never be able to get her." And until now it hasn't changed.
08-27-2014, 08:20 AM #2
Re: Need advice pls D:
Hmmm. Try and have a simple conversation with her. Facebook seems to be ok to start the conversation. I know it will be difficult but you have to try, you'll never know what will happen. Maybe try catching up with her? Ask her what she likes and stuff. Let the friendship grow first. If it goes well , you can try asking for her phone number or ask her to go out. I think there's no bad intentions in that and you don't sound desperate, it's normal in my opinion to find someone attractive and liking that person. (sorry for the lame advice >.< )
And also, I sense some confidence issue too. You need to work on that.

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01-08-2015, 12:04 PM #3
Re: Need advice pls D:
I don't think so
01-21-2015, 07:22 PM #4
Re: Need advice pls D:
Yeah just message her on facebook and see if she's interested in chatting. If you think you guys are clicking after a while of talking to her online you can try to meet up with her. Just don't go into it constantly thinking about getting together with her because then you might start pushing it too quickly. I'm a girl and I get annoyed when it's obvious that a guy just wants to date me before even getting to know me. I know guys are afraid to get stuck in the friend zone, but would you really want to date someone you have nothing in common with? And if it doesn't work out with this girl don't get discouraged. It hurts to get turned down but stay positive. :)
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