I think you should see difference in that..
Consider whats worse a person who abuses a kid. (It could be youre daughter, sis, brotger, friend,..etc)
or a old tired men who killed his wife in a rage,... and has a lot of regret about it
the difference is a kid who has been abused needs to cary that scar with him/her for the rest of his/her life...
And the worst basterds are people who abuse and kill Children...
there was one Case In my country.. and that b*strd is still alive... has his private cell... I really want to lynch that guy