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Originally Posted by Kaishe
Okay well I'm not a complete expert on girls or anything but these advices would most likely be great in a short term relationship (few months or so) but in most situations aren't people looking for someone you can spend your life with?
Problem with A is that if a woman you are spilling your heart out to doesn't find any interest with you i doubted you'd guys last very long in the long run and also if the girl only likes you because of material objects you guys again wouldn't last long in the long run.
B - Okay if you lie to a girl in the beginning you are screwed no matter what, i don't care if its a long run or short your screwed period. Although! the thought of getting to know a girl by her friends is a very promising idea that would be a good reference to where to ask a girl out on a date, just don't be all too straightforward and go straight for the goal when theres still an hour left in the game.
C - Although "lowering your standards" can be debated on, i'll just say that all women are unique in their own kind of way and there should be someone out there in this big world so you don't technically have to "lower" your standards because all women are the same in one kind of way or another, if you get rejected just move on with life and find another girl you think is good.
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I don't disagree with you but the title of the thread is "asking a girl out" not "asking a girl to marry me". I know it's kinda wrong to start a relationship with lies and such but still if he can't find a woman the tips I gave him are the best chance he has. Now if he wants a long term relationship he has to work for it not ask in forums