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Originally Posted by txcforever
Well there are two ways to approach a girl.
a)Being true. The problem with this method is that if the specific girl doesn't find anything interesting on your character she will ignore you unless you are great looking or have a good car (this depends on the age of the girl-20+ women aren't that easily impressed) or you are willing to spend a lot of money on her. As you can see unless she likes your personality any relationship you make with a girl like that won't last more than a month.
b)Lie. Now this might make some women in this forum angry but it works. Learn from a close friend of hers what she likes, where she hangs out, favorite stuff and approach her using some of those (like a concert of her favorite singer, a movie of her preferred genre, shopping etc). Now this works like a charm but unless you really like a girl you won't last very long doing and talking about things you don't like.
c)Lower your standards. Come on you mean you haven't noticed any girl that might like you? Or maybe a girl that approach you for help in something (from repairing something for her, studying together, anything?) Maybe you are aiming to girls that you can't reach (even though I don't really believe in such a term)?
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Okay well I'm not a complete expert on girls or anything but these advices would most likely be great in a short term relationship (few months or so) but in most situations aren't people looking for someone you can spend your life with?
Problem with A is that if a woman you are spilling your heart out to doesn't find any interest with you i doubted you'd guys last very long in the long run and also if the girl only likes you because of material objects you guys again wouldn't last long in the long run.
B - Okay if you lie to a girl in the beginning you are screwed no matter what, i don't care if its a long run or short your screwed period. Although! the thought of getting to know a girl by her friends is a very promising idea that would be a good reference to where to ask a girl out on a date, just don't be all too straightforward and go straight for the goal when theres still an hour left in the game.
C - Although "lowering your standards" can be debated on, i'll just say that all women are unique in their own kind of way and there should be someone out there in this big world so you don't technically have to "lower" your standards because all women are the same in one kind of way or another, if you get rejected just move on with life and find another girl you think is good.