Thread: Need Help!!!!!
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Old 04-09-2008, 12:52 AM   #2
gakidou
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Re: Need Help!!!!!

1st mistake many people make in high school:

Asking a girl out directly almost never works... unless u're pro or super good looking, it will come off as desperate or inappropriate.

Just make a few jokes here and there (only when the moment is right), try to catch the girl's attention first. Show her you're an interesting person to talk to, and just make conversation. BE CONFIDENT! Talk about anything... i.e complain about shity teacher or school gossip... or listen to her conversations /w other ppl to find what makes her tick and then talk about those things /w her

Do that step first... then come back and report your status ;)

P.S. the fact that u already attempted to ask her out like that, probably pushed her away from you... so don't talk to her for 2 weeks or so unless she talks to you. That will confirm that u are over her and u just wanna talk. Either that or move onto another girl ;p

oh yeha, i've also never asked any GF out before (except my first). It's all about getting to kno what makes that person tick, and then exploiting that knowledge and when the time is right just make a move... dun even need to ask, just go for the kiss or whatever (only if the opportunity arises!!!). For my current gf, i just told her i was gonna take off my pants and that i expected her to follow, and bammmmm... i was set haha... (altho she didn't follow... but we made out... and 1 month later i got to homebase)

Last edited by gakidou : 04-09-2008 at 12:55 AM.
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