Well to start things off my girl has been in a relationship with another guy quite a few times. So shes not really "my girl" but she calls me "her boy" so I do the same. Anyway now that, thats out of the way I'll start things off.
My girls boyfriend has been cheating on her, since day one he made her look like a slut. Basically telling his mates she was his dick puppet and that she was at his will.
I told her to dump him but well she went to him with the intention of forgiving him no matter if it was true or not.
Now they've broken up, gone out, broken up, gone out and broken up and gone out again. So its their third time together.
Shes been cheating on him with me for about a month and well when I found proof (always had suspicion but now I have proof) that he was cheating I told her because I care about her.
Josh (My girls Boyfriend) has been cheating on my girl for ages with another girl called Sandra and a red head who I don't know. Sandra basically blurted it out without thinking it was a big deal. I told my girl, she confronted Sandra, Sandra denied the lot because she was scared my girl would get angry and beat her up.
Ontop of that when my girl went to Josh he denied the lot as well. So you have two people who deny everything and me the only person with 19 pages of horrible truth which I sent her stuck in the middle. My girl believes what I heard on MSN and that the chat logs are the truth. But she doesn't want to believe her bf is cheating her and has been for so long.
This is where things get messy.
2 days later and my girl has asked for a break from me.
Now the reason why I was shattered is because her and I haven't seen eachother in 3 weeks. We hardly talk on the phone and its usually on msn that we do our chatting. We were planning something for this weekend and these holidays but well now she wants a break from me so the holidays are going to go past
without me doing anything with her and the next ones are 11 weeks away. We were going to do something but this bullshit about her bf cheating came up. I want to see her but well she says she needs a break. I've tried telling her that we already don't talk much and that the reason shes asking for a break is bullshit (there is no reason) and that distancing ourselves from one another is stupid because we already don't get to talk very often.
But she insists and I don't want her to let the holidays roll by without doing anything..
Anyway I just wanted some advice and opinions..
Thanks..