[peacock]

Originally Posted by blazinguy213

um...
back in september i dated a girl named tina...
after many months of pure love. my boss told me to go to china so i can trade products with united states. when i came back, i found out she was dating some guy i don't know and the bad part is that she won't talk to me!!! so how can i tell her that i still love her...:noooo:

Ahh, the fickle, frail, female heart....

I've had a little experience with this... and each girl really is different,

My advice would be to search your own heart and figure out what's really important to you. And "love" is such a hard thing to understand. What maybe you should do, would be to contact Her through whatever means is appropriate to your situation, since She's seeing another guy, it might be innappropriate to meet with her in person, you may have to write her a letter or something. However you contact Her, tell Her how you feel, wish Her happiness, and then let it go. what I mean by that is that once you let Her know how you feel, it's up to Her...

no badgering, whining, or manipulation allowed...

The trick is to give Her the respect to let Her make up her own mind, if She's interested now or at another time, she will let you know. And move on with your life... seriously.... keep the "door" open, just move on...

If you are sincere in your feelings AND trust Her to make up Her own mind, And move on with your life, You'll be better off, whatever She decides...

the single most attractive thing you can do, is to be worthy of her attention, whetther she ever notices or not... I mean, what are you really offering?

once again the keys are,

honesty...

trust...

being healthy...

being the best you that you can be.

After following this advice, I have found that either the girl will contact you back soon, OR.... something better will happen in your life... either way, it's a win!

-peacock-